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…SECOND CLASS THE JEWISH NEWS SEVENTY-FIVE CENTS SERVING DETROIT'S JEWISH COMMUNITY JANUARY 25, 1991 / 10 SHEVAT 5751 Community To Rally On Sunday In Support Of Israel And U.S. ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM and PHIL JACOBS D etroit's Jewish Fed- eration has hastily organized a rally to show community support for Israel and the U.S. govern- ment. The 2 p.m. Sunday gather- ing, to be held at Congrega- tion Shaarey Zedek, "will be a rally of few spe...…
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…CONTENTS SPECIAL REPORT: WAR IN THE GULF BUSINESS Masters Of The Game Milwaukee's A.B. Data is a major source - for Jewish fund-raising. 52 30 DETROIT A Soviet emigre contributes 5% of his store's receipts to Israel. 44 RELIGION Rabbis Groner, Polish examine Reform and Conservative Judaism. 46 SPORTS Jeff Goldberg is new addition to lacrosse scene. 70 SPOTLIGHT U.S.-Israel Thaw: How Long Will It Last? A computer artist `paint...…
…EDITORIAL Glamorous, Glorious, Blunt Sometimes the reasons for a cause don't have to be glamorous or glorious. Sometimes the reasons can be downright blunt. The Detroit Jewish Welfare Federation's 11th-hour decision to hold a rally on Sun- day has its glorious and glamorous motives, but it also has a blunt one. Yes, it is important for Jews to rally in support of Israel and the U.S. government and allied forces in the Middle East. And it is ...…
…OPINION The Torah Foreshadows Saddam Hussein's Downfall GARY ROSENBLATT Editor Sitting in shul last Shabbat morning, with my thoughts on friends under missile attack in Israel, I read the Torah portion, looking for insights into the current crisis. Judaism instructs that the words of the weekly Torah portion have parallels to our own times, and I recalled how, on the very day that Anwar Sadat flew to Israel in November 1977 to begin an hi...…
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…UP FRONT Rome (JTA) — Rallies of solidarity with Israel, following last week's two at- tacks by Iraqi missiles and preceding Tuesday's third attack, drew thousands of Jewish and non-Jewish sup- porters in Rome, Paris and Amsterdam on Sunday and Monday of this week. But strong anti-Israel sen- timents were expressed at peace rallies in Italy and Holland, where the issue of Israel's conflict with the Pa- lestinians drew more atten- tion than Sa...…
…YOU'RE COVERED With Our New T•Shirt! Foreshadows Continued from Page 7 In response to this un- provoked and inhuman military attack, the first in history on the Jewish people, Israel is commanded to blot out the name of Amalek by means of the sword. But anti-Semitism en- dures. Despite the defeat of Amalek, his spiritual descendants have risen up in virtually every generation, from Haman to Hitler, seek- ing to destroy the Jewish people. In...…
…The Missiles F ell... When they heard the news from Israel, thousands of Soviet and Ethiopian Jews made a choice. Rather than endure one moment longer in a land that despised them, they would make aliyah and risk the dangers of an Israel under attack. Whatever lay ahead, they wanted to be home. Other people might find that an odd choice. But a Jew understands. To be part of a people. To stand with the Jewish Nation in its hour of need. To h...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS I WASHINGTON ANALYSIS The U.Selsrael Thaw: How Long Will It Last? The short-term benefits suggest increased economic aid from Washington. But don't expect miracles. JAMES D. BESSER Washington Correspondent 0 one way to guage the relationship between Washington and Jerusalem is The Phone Test. President Bush, who be- lieves in personal diplomacy with foreign leaders, called Israeli Prime Minister Yit- zhak Shamir on ...…
….J1 tuj PERSIAN GULF CRISIS Gas masks have become a way-of life in Israel of late, drawing obvious and painful parallels to the gassing of Jews during the Holocaust. FIRST-PERSON STUART SCHOFFMAN Special to The Jewish News The View From My Sealed Room By comparison, this war has been easy on Israelis. But it takes its psychological toll. J erusalem — Last Fri- day evening, before the sirens went off, my neighbor — let's call him Uzi —...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS dence in 1948, boatloads of bewildered Holocaust survivors had guns pressed into their hands the same day they landed — and I imagine them damn glad to be the ones holding the rifle for a change. change. I have lived a life blessedly free from pain and loss, and to watch my parents scrambling to put on their gas masks — they are not young and the stress can be doing them no good — is very hard. My son, 13 mon- ths old now,...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS Palestinians show their support for the PLO and Iraq and their anger at the United States during a demonstration this past week in Jordan. THE ARAB WORLD Strange Bedfellows: Israel And The Arabs Aligned with Jerusalem against Saddam Hussein, Arab leaders scramble to satisfy international, and domestic, demands: HELEN DAVIS Foreign Correspondent ar creates situa- tions that any ra- tional thinker might previously have...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS other Arabs?" said Adel Hussein, the Labor official. Syria, another vital mem- ber of the alliance, has a similar problem of official policy at variance with public sentiment. President Hafez Assad is keenly aware that many Syrians do not share his own hatred for Saddam Hussein, a fact demonstrated by popular elation in Damascus when the news broke of missile at- tacks on Israel. Other reports say Assad has ruthlessly supp...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS A Palestinian on the West Bank displays a makeshift Iraqi flag and photos of the heroes of the day, Yassir Arafat and Saddam Hussein. THE PALESTINIAN EQUATION INA FRIEDMAN Special to The Jewish News As The Missiles Fall, I Palestinians Cheer By rooting for Saddam, Arabs in the occupied territories have enormously complicated the prospects for a future settlement. raq's Scud missile at- tacks on Israel have dra- matic...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS I link the Iraqi occupation of Kuwait and the Israeli hold on the West Bank, Gaza and east Jerusalem remains on the table. "Linkage hasn't been disposed of," warned Matti Steinberg, a Hebrew Uni- versity expert on the PLO. "It's merely been changed from an issue to be dealt with as part of the Gulf con- flict to one that has been postponed until after the war." The U.S. government has so far publicly dismissed all attempt...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS Saddam Hussein greeting Iraqi soldiers in Kuwait on January 15, the day of the deadline. those Arabs who yearn for the taste of freedom, and there are many of them, to form dissident movements, knowing that they would be heard in the rest of the world. Now let us turn to the big lie about Israel: that it refuses to negotiate. For more than 40 years, Israel has been fighting and bleeding and pleading and paying in land for...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS DETROIT When An Evening Becomes Long Night PHIL JACOBS Managing Editor A Ian Goodman said the scene in the lobby of Congregation Shaarey Zedek was reminis- cent of a Tel Aviv street when war was breaking out in 1973. There, he remembers, Israelis gathered around radios in various cafes, reac- ting with grim faces and tears to hear news of war. Last Thursday, some 18 years later. Detroit-area Jews who came to be part o...…
…PERSIAN GULF CRISIS DETROIT Crimes Of Hate Confront Chaldeans Christian Iraqis in this area are feeling the wrath of a local backlash because of war in the Gulf. PHIL JACOBS and ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM t last week's security presentation for Jew- ish community leaders, an FBI spokesman said that while the Jewish community needs to take extra security precautions, the Chaldean community should be at an even higher level of alert. Rosemary Anto...…
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…INSIDE WASHINGTON The Finest Expressions Of Love Come From . . . Israel's Envoy Shoval: Grace Under Fire y JAMES D. BESSER Washington Correspondent W ashington observers gave high marks to Israeli Ambassador Zalman Shoval, who par- ticipated last week in the urgent top-level diplomacy that resulted in the un- precedented decision to send American Patriot missile batteries and crews to Israel. More importantly, Mr. Shoval was praised for...…
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…DETROIT 4 Soviet Immigrant Is Using 5 Percent Solution To Aid Israel ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM Assistant Editor A n ardent capitalist mixes freely with relics of communism at an Oak Park store. In one corner: Soviet swords, posters, dolls, trinkets and Georgian min- eral water, the very kind Stalin used to drink. In the other corner: consummate businessman Mark Glazer. The owner of International Food and Gifts, Mr. Glazer is a Soviet immigrant...…
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…COMMUNITY Jewish Home For Aged Units Plan Spring 'Celebration of Life' The Benefactors of the Jewish Home for Aged and the JHA Auxiliary will host "Gala Celebration of Life" May 16 at the Troy Marriott: The two organizations will sponsor the event to an- nounce a new era in eldercare as the Home prepares to relocate its nursing home facilities. A single facility to be constructed on the West Bloomfield Jewish Communi- ty Campus will provide ...…
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