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…UP FRONT Israel Tourism Is Hit Hard By Cancellation Of Jewish Trips New York (JTA) — As American Jewish organiza- tions stand firmly with Israel through the Persian Gulf crisis and the after- math of the riots on Jerusalem's Temple Mount, Jewish federations across the United States are cancel- ing major fund- raising mis- sions to Israel because of fear that hostilities will break out. While the national United Jewish Appeal is going ahead w...…
…EDITORIAL Bridge Building On November 8, a unique concert will take place at Temple Israel in West Bloom- field. It will be a joint effort between Tem- ple Israel and the Chaldean Community Center, which became a West Bloomfield neighbor when it purchased the Shenan- doah Country Club last year. Called "Building Bridges," the concert will jointly feature singers and dancers from both communities. It marks a major step in cooperation between ...…
…1OPINION - - CONTENTS The Church Still Needs To Do Much More MARC H. TANENBAUM Special to The Jewish News T wenty-five years ago this month, Roman Catholic hierarchies from throughout the world adopted at Vatican Council II "Nostra Aetate," or "In Our Time," the historic declaration that launched the most dramatic changes in 1,900 years of Catholic- Jewish relations. Next month, international Catholic and Jewish leaders are scheduled t...…
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…LOCAL NEWS Building Bridges Continued from Page 12 the world's events in friendlier terms. "We as Jews go through some of the same problems as the Chaldeans now are in dealing with the negative picture of Israel," Cantor Orbach said. "In working with the Chaldeans, we can empathize with their feel- ings." Perhaps the real front line between the Jews and the Chaldeans is within the public schools. And nowhere is that more evident than at Wes...…
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…N EWS I Announcing THE EDGAR M. BRONFMAN YOUTH FELLOWSHIPS IN ISRAEL 1991 Zogby Continued from Page 1 his summer a group of out- standing Jewish teenagers in the U.S. and Canada, coming from a variety of secular and synagogue backgrounds and entering their senior year of high school, will spend five stirring weeks of study, dialogue and travel in Israel. They will be recipients of the Edgar M. Bronfman Youth Fellowships*. Selected on the ...…
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…A QUESTION OF Privacy ttitudes toward an adult adoptee con- ducting a search for his genetic past are chang- ing. Even 10 years ago, says Linda Yellin of Post Adop- tion Resources, the prevail- ing sentiment was "leave well enough alone." But many more adoptees are not content to do that, and the system is having to react with more sensitivity and insight. Adoptees tell stories about social workers and court of- ficials who have tried to dis...…
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…INSIDE WASHINGTON JAMES D. BESSER Washington Correspondent Congress Passes Up Chance To Bash Israel p ro-Israel activists in Washington spent last week anxiously awaiting a rumored amendment to the foreign aid bill by Sen. Robert Dole (R-Kans.) that would criticize Israel for the Tem- ple Mount riots and for the Shamir government's poli- cies on settlements in East Jerusalem and the ter- ritories. Late last week the rumors turned into rea...…
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