April 19, 1996 • Page Image 63
…a M. fAli ke8SMESORM. tells the story of family members in a heated feud over funeral plans for their mother. Then they read her ethical will. "She told them, We gave you the best education that we could afford, we love you very much and all that we ask is that you don't fight,' " Rabbi Riemer re- counts. "And they didn't." Ethical wills are too personal for hard-and-fast rules, says Rab- bi Riemer, but he offers some ad- vice for getting st...…

















































