…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 3 contents PURELY COMMENTARY 4-10 Essays and viewpoints. OUR COMMUNITY 12 Building Community. Community Building. Downtown Synagogue set to reopen Aug. 27 as a hub for Jewish life in Detroit. 20 A Legacy of Kindness Simon Mirkes, who tragically passed away on July 17 at 16 years old, had an innate kindness. 26 Meet Temple Emanu-El’s New Cantor Rosalie Toubes joins the temple ...…
…30 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 OUR COMMUNITY O ne hundred years ago, in 1923, the Russian Revolution came to a close. This was the revolution that led to the dissolution of the Russian Empire and formation of the Soviet Union. This drastic period of turmoil and shift in rule led those who had the opportunity and means to leave their former homeland. Many of those who left found their way to the United States, and many to Metro Detroit. W...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 31 continued on page 32 those connected through family. Also, many members are Jewish. When asked when Jews were welcomed to the club, or if there were ever restrictions, no one remembers. FUN AT FISH LAKE In the 1940s, RAAD obtained about 40 acres on Fish Lake in Rose Township, in the very north of Oakland County. In 1946, they built a pavilion at Fish Lake that became the center of activities for RAAD and wher...…
…32 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 a Russian-speaking community. When he started participating in RAAD in the 1990s, he met other Jewish members. The key connecting factor, he said, was Russian language and culture in a new country, not religious identity. In the 1990s, there was again a big swell in club attendance and membership, Voldman said. Especially when the newly arrived immigrants were living in small apartments, it was a treat in the ...…
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…34 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 I n the late 1970s, Metro Detroit native Pamela Cohen and her husband, Donald Cohen, left Michigan for Arizona to finish their schooling. With no family in the area, Pamela struggled with sending meaningful gifts via mail. She began by taking the usual route — sending a check with a card — but soon realized her gifts didn’t have the personal touch of giving a thoughtful gift in person. “I just didn’t think...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 35 FACING, LEFT: The Rosh Hashanah Gift Basket. A gift basket of amenities to send to a sick friend. within the continental United States and creates each gift basket herself. “I want to make them as customized as I can,” she says of the gift baskets, which each come with a butterfly on them, a sign of “good things” to come, Cohen explains. For each basket, Cohen will gather the appropriate items and arrange t...…
…36 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 J ewish Family Services of Washtenaw County (JFS) held a grand opening event of the Shalom Commercial Kitchen and Specialty Food Pantry on May 21. Over 100 guests attended the ribbon-cutting ceremony, led by Sue Sefansky, JFS past president, and Congresswoman Debbie Dingell. With the completion of the year-long construction of the new Shalom Kitchen, located in the JFS building on 2245 S. State St., JFS ...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 37 Jewish Family Services (JFS) of Washtenaw County has been accepted into the latest cohort of the Food is Medicine Coalition’s Medically Tailored Meal Accelerator Program. This opportunity positions JFS to become a national leader in providing medically tailored meals and underscores the organization’s commitment to support- ing the ever-growing needs of the commu- nity. The Medically Tailored Meal Accelerator Pro...…
…38 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 Twenty-three new United States citizens representing 18 countries worldwide accepted the rights and responsibilities of American citizenship at a naturalization ceremony held at The Zekelman Holocaust Center in Farmington Hills on Friday, July 21. Judge Bernard Friedman of the U.S. District Court Eastern District of Michigan, a staunch supporter of The HC who often brings law enforcement professionals for...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 39 The Rosh Hodesh Group of Metro Detroit, organized by Rabbi Dorit Edut and Sydney Skully, held a couple of interesting meetings recently. In June, the group learned about head coverings for women from Zarinah El-Amin of the Muslim Center of Detroit. She had organized a large-scale event on this topic at the Suburban Showplace in Novi, which attracted Orthodox Jewish women and Muslim women prior to the pande...…
…4 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 PURELY COMMENTARY column It’s Not Only Children Who Will Be Returning to Classrooms this Fall I t’s August, and our inboxes are already beginning to clutter with countless emails about back-to-school sales, while at the same time the educators and parents among us are working on preparing and transitioning students back into their classrooms. But while we typically think about the back-to-school season...…
…40 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 SPORTS M ax Sasson is one step away from living his dream of playing in the NHL. The 6-foot-1, 185-pound center from Birmingham was signed by the NHL’s Vancouver Canucks to a two-year, entry-level contract in May, and he reported to the Abbotsford Canucks for Abbotsford’s play- off push. Abbotsford is the Canucks’ affiliate in the American Hockey League, the top minor league for NHL teams. Sasson, 22, sig...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 41 last few seasons. We look for- ward to watching him develop at the professional level with our staffs in Vancouver and Abbotsford,” said Vancouver general manger Patrik Allvin. Sasson played in seven regular-season and six playoff games for Abbotsford in a short stint last spring, and he had three goals and one assist. Intensity of the professional game didn’t surprise him. “Of course, every higher level you pl...…
…42 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 R osh Hashanah is early this year — Sept. 16 and 17, so it’s time to get ready. Our holidays usually come with many symbolic foods, including honey, round challahs, apples dipped in honey and, of course, dinner with many holiday favorites. For some, Rosh Hashanah dinner begins with gefilte fish and matzah ball soup. Others, like me, like to mix it up. Soup and fish are optional at my table. While I...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 43 Kosher salt and pepper 1 cup corn flour ¼ cup olive oil 2 cups red or Bermuda onions, sliced 2 tsp. garlic, minced 4 cups fresh peaches, diced (you may use canned or frozen, if necessary) 1 cup fresh corn kernels or frozen, thawed 2 Tbsp. dried parsley flakes 2 cups dry white wine 1 cup chicken stock or broth Directions: Pound chicken breasts until thin or cut horizontally into thin slices. Season to...…
…44 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 ingredients, except chives, and transfer the mixture to a large baking dish. Cover the baking dish with foil and bake for 1 hour, or until the vegetables are tender. Adjust seasonings, sprinkle with chives, and serve hot. Makes 12 servings. PFLAUMEN KUCHEN This old-fashioned coffeecake takes advantage of summer fruits. You can make this not-too-sweet kuchen with peaches or apples as well. Topping: 1 ...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 45 SPIRIT Behaving Ethically T he ancient world of the Torah addresses a society starkly different from ours. Nevertheless, what I often find is that despite the many differences, there are also many similarities. Perhaps that is because people are people, whether they lived in the ancient Near East thousands of years ago, or they live nearby in the 21st century. In examining parshat Ki Tetze, we find an ex...…
…46 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 T here is, on the face of it, a funda- mental contradiction in the Torah. On the one hand we hear, in the passage known as the Thirteen Attributes of Mercy, the following words: “The Lord, the Lord, compas- sionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in loving-kindness and truth … but who does not acquit the guilty, holding descendants to account for the sins of the fathers, children and grandchildren...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 47 declared, ‘The one who sins is the one who will die.’” Makkot 2b In general, the Sages rejected the idea that children could be punished, even at the hands of Heaven, for the sins of their parents. As a result, they systematically reinterpreted every passage that gave the opposite impression, that children were indeed being punished for their parents’ sins. Their general position was this: “ Are not children then...…
…Synagogue Directory METRO DETROIT CONSERVATIVE Adat Shalom Synagogue Farmington Hills (248) 851-5100 adatshalom.org Congregation Beth Ahm West Bloomfield (248) 851-6880 cbahm.org Congregation Beth Shalom Oak Park (248) 547-7970 congbethshalom.org Beth Tephilath Moses Mt. Clemens (586) 996-3138 bethtephilathmoses.com B’nai Israel Synagogue West Bloomfield (248) 432-2729 bnaiisraelwb.org Congregation B’nai Moshe West Blo...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 49 Temple Emanu-El Oak Park (248) 967-4020 emanuel-mich.org Temple Israel West Bloomfield (248) 661-5700 temple-israel.org Temple Kol Ami West Bloomfield (248) 661-0040 tkolami.org Temple Shir Shalom West Bloomfield (248) 737-8700 shirshalom.org REFORM/RENEWAL Congregation Shir Tikvah Troy (248) 649-4418 shirtikvah.org SECULAR/HUMANISTIC Congregation for Humanistic Judaism of Metro Detroit Farmington...…
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…50 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 T exas-raised pianist and composer Michael Weiss studied at Indiana University and met Detroit- raised pianist and composer Barry Harris in the 1970s. Their shared interests and talents launched a friendship that last- ed decades. This year, Weiss brings a trio to the Detroit Jazz Festival, running Labor Day weekend on Downtown stages, and cele- brates the work of the musician so important in his own career. ...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 51 programs. It was the largest, most expansive music school in the country. “I started composing in the mid-1980s and was motivated when I had my first recordings as a leader, deciding I had to have at least one original composition for record dates. I had different kinds of inspiration from the music I was listening to and some young players and saw that my tunes were viable and successful. ” Although Weiss...…
…52 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 CAN SANDLER PUT ON A GREAT BAT MITZVAH? A POLITICAL NOTE Last week, Netflix “popped” the news that on Aug. 25 they would premiere the original feature film You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah. Here is the basic plot of this mostly comedic coming- of-age story: Best friends Stacy (played by Sunny Sandler, 14, Adam Sandler’s daughter) and Lydia (Samantha Lorraine) are planning “epic” bat mitzvah partie...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 53 AT MOCAD NOW-SEPT. 10 “Free Your Mind: Art and Incarceration in Michigan,” showcasing inner worlds of incarcerated individuals and the fundamental issues that shape conversations around incarceration today, is on exhibit in Mike Kelley’s Mobile Homestead at Museum of Contemporary Art Detroit (MOCAD), 4454 Woodward; 313-832-6622, with support from the Michigan Justice Fund. It features the work of artists ...…
…54 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 JFS Legal Referral Service Program Jewish Family Service Legal Referral Service presents Michigan Supreme Court Justice Megan K. Cavanagh and Molly Ranns, LPC, who will present Making the Case for Promoting Wellness in the Legal Community on Wednesday, Sept. 13, from 6-7:30 p.m. at Knollwood Country Club in West Bloomfield. Lawyers assume incredible responsibilities to ensure the best outcome for their cl...…
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…56 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 OBITUARIES OF BLESSED MEMORY SHIRLEY FEINBERG, 94, of Southfield, died Aug. 14, 2023. She was born in Detroit on Sept. 25, 1928. She was a devoted and beloved daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt and friend to many. Shirley was warm, sweet and kind and was adored by all who knew her. She was an avid bridge and Canasta player, lover of books and a fabulous cook and baker,...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 57 13, 2023. She was the beloved wife of Al Gruber; loving mother of Alicia “Lee” Galarce and Andrea Hurtado; cherished grandmother of Alexander and Max Galarce; dear sister of Larry (Joann) Davis; dear cousin of Marilyn (Larry) Zimny and David Criz. She will be missed dearly by all those who knew her. A memorial service was held at Congregation Or Shalom in Vernon Hills, Ill. In lieu of flowers, memorial co...…
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…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 59 other loving family members and friends. She was the sister-in-law of the late Norman Block and the late Benita Bornstein. Interment was held at Oakview Cemetery in Royal Oak. Contributions may be made to Birthright Israel or to the Jewish National Fund. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. MURIEL WARSHAWSKY POSNER, 93, of Southfield, passed away peacefully on Aug. 11, 2023, at her home. She is survived by h...…
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…OBITUARIES OF BLESSED MEMORY 60 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 Muriel Rudack, Jay and Connie Rudack; and sister-in -law, Sylvia (Irving) Zaks. A private funeral was held at Machpelah Cemetery; arrangements were made by Hebrew Memorial Chapel. DR. ISIDORE STEINER, 71, of West Bloomfield, died Aug. 11, 2023. He is survived by his wife, Bracha Steiner; sons and daughter-in-law, Joshuah and Itta Steiner, Avi Steiner, Aryeh Steiner; daughter, ...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 61 at Hebrew Memorial Park. Arrangements by Hebrew Memorial Chapel. c. 1949 THELMA WILLIS, 91, of West Bloomfield, died Aug. 16, 2023. She is survived by her nieces and nephews, Michael and Joyce Levin, Harold and Karen Levin, Steve (the late Jan) Levin, Jack Cohen, Rhonda and Jeff Schwartz, and Scott and Christine Newberg; many loving great-nieces and great-nephews, other family members and friends. The...…
…Looking Back From the William Davidson Digital Archive of Jewish Detroit History accessible at www.djnfoundation.org 62 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 The Ubiquitous Barbie T he movie Barbie has taken the world by storm. It has broken box office records, earning $155 million in America the first weekend that it opened in theaters, and soon passed $1 billion worldwide. Now, I’ll admit that I’m not an expert on Barbie, the iconic toy doll. Certa...…
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…8 | AUGUST 24 • 2023 PURELY COMMENTARY column Is Barbie Liberal or ‘Kenservative’? I n the 1950s, a Jewish woman born in Denver, Colorado, to parents who fled persecution in Eastern Europe, decided that the toy market needed adult-themed dolls for children. Ruth Handler (1916- 2002) came up with the idea for “Barbie,” named after her daughter Barbara and reportedly inspired by “Bild Lilli,” a German sex doll modeled after ...…
…AUGUST 24 • 2023 | 9 to her daughter and plastic comrades. “You are so beautiful and so smart, and it kills me that you don’t think you’re good enough. Like, we have to always be extraordinary, but somehow, we’re always doing it wrong. You have to be thin, but not too thin.” I wanted to laugh when a woman sitting next to me in the theater muttered: “She’s right.” Are we seriously going to find words of wisdom in a film that clea...…
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…10 | AUGUST 17 • 2023 PURELY COMMENTARY continued from page 8 er who declared that I didn’t have “a drop of Judaism inside of [me],” then proceeded to push her way into my attitude toward Judaism as much as possible, pressing a siddur into my hands and urging me to relearn the words. She inculcated within me that insouciance toward school- work was not the appropriate attitude and urged me to do better academically. By the end ...…
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…12 | AUGUST 17 • 2023 CAR CULTURE Celebrating OUR COMMUNITY ON THE COVER L auren Mendelson of Huntington Woods has loved cars since she was a child. Today, she collects and drives a curated fleet of custom sports cars she’s excited to share with a community of like-minded enthusiasts. “People call me all the time to exhibit — a lot of times I end up with two or three things in one day, ” she says. “It’s blossomed into a way of l...…
…His Dream Convertible Jim Boschan of Bloomfield Hills loves taking his eight grandkids for a spin in his 1971 Oldsmobile 442 W-30 convertible. “They can’t wait for me to put the top down and take them for a ride,” he says. He was drawn to cars early on, he recalls, with a Thunderbird convertible first catching his eye in the Food Fair grocery store parking lot. “The top was off, and I was tall enough to see into the car. I saw ...…
…14 | AUGUST 17 • 2023 love of music and cars. “He just got a new Miata, a cute two-seater roadster, ” she recalls. “He let me drive it, and I was just thrilled. ” She told him about her Datsun 240Z, they talked about cars and their fam- ilies, and the rest is history. They’ve traveled the world collecting and exploring cars and car culture, sharing their enthusiasm with their daughters, Faye and Zoē, now 30 and 26, as well. For inst...…
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…16 | AUGUST 17 • 2023 continued from page 14 nificant item in their collection. “I bought that car when my mother passed away, so it has very special meaning to me, not to mention it’s just a beautiful car. It’s timeless; it’s retro-looking. ” The Z8 is also featured in the James Bond Movie The World Is Not Enough, she says. “It’s cool it was in a movie and, of course, my mother is all around me when I’m in that car, so I feel safe....…
