…8 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 Thanks For Making Holidays Awe-some The Jewish holidays which occur in the first 10 days of the month of Tishri are called the Days of Awe. Similarly, I, and I am sure this is how most of us in the Jewish community feel, am in awe at the hard work, dedication and creativity of our religious leaders to make a bad situation, the worst in memory, as palatable and meaningful as possible. I experienced it in my...…
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…10 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 VIEWS continued on page 12 Any action is justified when you believe the other side is evil. Their extreme voices are being amplified on social media, where we are all siloing ourselves inside increasingly extreme echo chambers (watch the new Netflix documentary The Social Dilemma for more). But they’ re also being embold- ened by current political dis- course — loaded phrases like “Liberate Michigan” can b...…
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…12 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 VIEWS one even remember there was a dining room for HC members? I thought we were so cool. I learned to play basketball from Burt Hursche when I was about 8 or 9. I honed my skills with Greg Kelser as I got older (and better). Eventually, I became a counselor with John Long, Earl Cureton and Lindsey Hunter in their basket- ball camps. I was “the girl” that played countless 4 on 4 games under the famed wind...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 13 Click. Call. Give Now. www.hfldetroit.org • 248.723.8184 Hebrew Free Loan Detroit 6735 Telegraph Road, Suite 300 • Bloomfield Hills, Michigan 48301 @HFLDetroit Ann Mendelsohn is a retired nurse whose husband, as he aged, developed a memory condition known as Organic Brain Syndrome. “As time went on, I found he wasn’t paying bills, and because of his condition, he didn’t remember. He didn’t remember how to do so ...…
…14 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 O n Oct. 1, Matt Lester and Dennis Bernard were installed as pres- idents of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit and the United Jewish Foundation, respectively. In their roles, they will work to ensure the needs of Detroit’ s Jewish community are met and its assets safeguarded. But this is not the first time the two have worked together. Since the COVID-19 pandemic began in March, the two men hav...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 15 Lester said. According to Bernard, the crisis provided Federation and the Foundation with a shining moment. “We were hit with a once-in-a-generation pandemic. This community quickly pulled together, ” he said. “Everyone was focused, and everyone was committed to the right ideas. People who had historically been involved and people who’ d been less involved in the Federation process stepped up. ” Lester ...…
…IN THE JEWS D ON THE COVER fund could not impact gifts to Federation’ s annual 2021 cam- paign to ensure there would be no funding shortfalls for agen- cies’ ongoing needs. Another leg on the stool is allocations. “Our allocations assist agencies and their mission to take care of the most vulner- able and to provide for welfare, education or identity within our community, ” Lester said. The third leg of that stool is something Leste...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 17 VOTE ABSENTEE OR AT THE POLLS TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 3RD Paid for by Vote Kelly Breen | 242 Linhart St Novi, MI 48377 I’M KELLY BREEN, AND I BELIEVE IN A BETTER FUTURE FOR MICHIGAN. I’m running for State Representative to put Michiganders and their priorities first. I will work with Democrats and Republicans alike to come back from this crisis, help our citizens access affordable health care, fund our publi...…
…18 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 E ligible voters are being besieged by many sources to plan their November vote — especially since a new state law permits early voting by mail or in per- son by filling out an absen- tee ballot at the local clerk’ s office. Record turnouts have been forecast with concern about crowded polling places being a health risk during the pan- demic. Election officials were concerned that poll workers, who tend to ...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 19 position, but election workers are paid — generally about $230 for training and Election Day work. “I wanted to do my part to make sure that this is safe and fair. I needed to be part of it. I didn’ t want to be passive,” said Nancy Silverman, 69, of Bloomfield Township. She was initially hesitant because of COVID but was reassured by safety precautions at the precinct during the primary. Poll workers were...…
…20 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 R achel Fox is, to say the least, a very experienced member of the elector- ate. With her absentee ballot already mailed in, she can now say that since she was 21 years old, she has voted for presi- dent 23 times. No, she didn’ t fraudulently vote more than once for the same candi- date. The fact is, when you’ re over 105 years old, you get a lot of opportunities to cast your vote. Rachel was born on June 11, 1...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 21 campuses, have received tre- mendous support from their building administrators when it comes to safe and timely voting. “We have a lot of civ- ic-minded residents, and we send a lot of letters, ” says Tracey Proghovnick, director of res- idential marketing for Jewish Senior Life. The letters remind residents they should have received their absentee ballot by Oct. 16, that there are strict rules to adhere to...…
…D rive-in Havdalah. Programs in the park and on driveways. Teaching in tents. Camp-style learning in an actual camp. Detroit’ s religious school edu- cators are pulling out the stops on creativity to engage their students in the age of COVID. While several have opted for all-virtual programming, others took advantage of Michigan’ s mild autumn weather by hold- ing classes and other education- al programs outdoors as long as they co...…
…started working with her fac- ulty in mid-June to develop best practices for online teach- ing. Administrators opted for online-only classes after real- izing their students came from more than 50 different schools, making the potential for com- munity spread by meeting in person just too high. Temple Kol Ami in West Bloomfield started planning in spring and initially devel- oped a hybrid program, with learning online on Wednesdays an...…
…24 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 W hen JN Editor Andrew Lapin wrote about neo-Nazis as part of the JN’ s Antisemitism Project, Dr. Gerald Katzman reached out to share his findings regarding what can happen in a child’ s development that might lead someone down a path of hate. Katzman, of Farmington Hills, believes the answer may lie in “poisonous pedagogy,” a term that originates from Swiss psychologist Alice Miller in her book For Your...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 25 Netanyahu, the scheduled featured guest, was absent from the event. DANNY SCHWARTZ STAFF WRITER Trump, Biden Appear at Beth Yehudah Virtual Dinner P resident Donald Trump and former Vice President Joe Biden made surprise back-to-back appearances Sunday, Oct. 18, at “ An Evening of Unity, ” the annu- al fundraiser event for Yeshiva Beth Yehudah in Oak Park. The two presidential nominees were the highest-pr...…
…26 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 L ooking for something fun to do during the lockdown, Eliana Schreiber thought she’ d bake a cake for her family. Then she thought she’ d dec- orate it. Several creations later, her family convinced her this could be more than a hobby, and Eliana’ s Cakery was born. Eliana, 17, of Huntington Woods, a senior at Berkley High School, said she’ s self-taught as a baker, though she picked up lots of ideas and tips ...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 27 Rabbis Revise COVID Rules JN STAFF T he Michigan Board of Rabbis (MBOR) has revised its policies regarding funerals and sim- chahs based on the ever-evolv- ing pandemic conditions, the change in season and updated guidance from state authorities. Excluding clergy and staff, attendance shall not exceed 36 people in communal spaces that hold more than 150 people — an increase from MBOR’ s previous guidelin...…
…28 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 Farber students build a successful Sukkot fundraiser. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN CONTRIBUTING WRITER Senior Assembly W ith a few safety-guide- line modifications, seniors at Farber Hebrew Day School –Yeshivat Akiva in Southfield grabbed their tools, umbrellas and masks and forged ahead with the class’ s annual sukkah-building fund- raiser. Eighteen classmates ham- mered, measured, carried and lifted supplies ...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 29 STEVE STEIN CONTRIBUTING WRITER There wasn’ t a Howard Weingarten Memorial Baseball Outing this year because of the COVID-19 pandemic, but three awards were presented in his honor. Three players from the Detroit PAL Diamond Sports Program’ s Tiny Tigers pro- gram for youngsters ages 4-8 received Howard Weingarten Memorial Awards for leader- ship, teamwork and responsi- bility. The award winners were select...…
…30 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 MOMENTS MAZEL TOV! Riley Ian Agrest will lead the con- gregation in prayer on the occasion of his bar mitzvah at Temple Israel in West Bloomfield on Friday, Oct. 23, 2020. He will be joined in celebration by his proud parents, Sandra and Kevin Agrest, and brothers Gabriel and Grayson. Riley is the lov- ing grandchild of Maria and Michael Kallen, Irene and Marty Agrest, and the late Gary Greenfield. Ril...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 31 SPIRIT Why Canaan? T he name Canaan appears for the first time in this story of the degradation of Noah. Canaan was not one of his sons, but his grandson, a son of Ham. The truth is that mentioning Canaan here seems totally out of place and superflu- ous. Noah becomes drunk; his son Ham does nothing to hide his father’ s shame but serves as talebearer, reporting his father’ s nakedness to his broth- ers...…
…32 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 I f you want to watch Michigan-raised Alexandra Silber perform musical numbers, turn to YouTube, but if you want to learn about her experiences on and off presti- gious stages, turn to a digital program offered by the Society of Active Retirees (SOAR) — “ A Creative Life: Finding Meaning in Theater. ” Silber, who also has written both a novel and memoir, invites viewers into her home at 1 p.m. Friday, Nov....…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 33 D r. Ruth Westheimer is one of only a few writers of any faith whose name universally evokes smiles. What may not be as well publicized is the sex ther- apist’ s grounding in Judaism. In fact, with all her talk about sex, she says there is nothing in what she has written or said that contradicts the Bible. She presents her case in the new paperback edition of Heavenly Sex: Sexuality and the Jewish Traditi...…
…ARTS&LIFE continued from page 33 I cannot prove. In the Jewish tradition, it says that if a hus- band brings his wife to sexual satisfaction before he ejaculates, she will bear a son. I would like to see a scientifically validated study. It could be that if there is more wetness in the vagina, maybe the male spermatozoa have an easier time to get to the ovum. I don’ t have any proof of that, but we know that Jews wanted to have so...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 35 UNDOING, BOOGALOO AND CHLOE FINEMAN The Undoing is a six-episode HBO mini-series that begins on Sunday, Oct. 25. It is based on You Should Have Known, a 2014 novel by Jean Hanff Korelitz, 59. Basic plot: The main character in the series is Grace Reinhardt Fraser (Nicole Kidman), a successful therapist. Just before her first book is to be published, a series of very bad things happen to her. Hugh Grant pla...…
…36 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 ON THE GO PEOPLE | PLACES | EVENTS HARVEST & HOPE 7 PM, OCT. 23 The Michigan Chapter of the Cohn’s & Colitis Foundation will combine their largest fall events online, allow- ing patients, caregivers, physicians and the entire Michigan IBD commu- nity to participate from home. Tickets are $100. Info: visit facebook.com/ CCFAMichigan or TinyURL. com/CCFHarvestHope. EDGEFEST 7:30 PM, OCT. 23 Kerrytown Concert Hou...…
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… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 39 SOUL OF BLESSED MEMORY RONELLE GRIER CONTRIBUTING WRITER Philanthropist Touched Many Lives E dward Meer was renowned for his gen- erosity to the Detroit Jewish community, his exceptional business acumen and his unflagging devotion to his family. The Bloomfield Hills res- ident, who enhanced many lives with his philanthropy, kindness and integrity, died on Oct. 5, 2020, at age 95. The son of immigrant par...…
…40 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 ARNOLD BERMAN, 93, of West Bloomfield, died Oct. 13, 2020. A Marine vet- eran, Mr. Berman served his country in World War II. He was honored and featured in a movie by Sky Bergman. One of the original members of Congregation Beth Moses, he was a lifelong mem- ber of Beth Ahm and a past president of its men’ s club. Mr. Berman was active with Yad Ezra, and he delivered meals on Sundays; he was also a memb...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 41 RAE GLICKOFF, 92, of Dearborn Heights died Oct. 10, 2020. When Rae walked into a room, she lit it up. She was vibrant and full of optimism. Everyone that met her loved her. Rae adored her family and always had words of encouragement and support. She was compas- sionate and kind to all people and animals. Rae had a great sense of humor and was fun to be around. She was cher- ished by all her family and f...…
…42 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 SOUL OF BLESSED MEMORY ceuticals. He also loved the arts, specifically jazz music and oil painting. Mr. Goldstein is survived by his daughters and sons-in-law, Wendy and Steve Faberman, Lisa and Adam Cohn; grandchildren, Rachel and Allyson Faberman; longtime girlfriend, Myrna Weinstein; many other loving family members and friends. Interment took place at Clover Hill Park Cemetery in Birmingham. Contribu...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 43 Lipsky; grandchildren, Jacob (Scarlett) Mervis, Michael Lipsky, Daniel Lipsky and Eric Lipsky; great-grandchild, Lucas Mervis; sisters, Rhea Blum, Jane Williams, Shirley Weingrot; many loving nieces, nephews, other family mem- bers and friends. Mr. Lipsky was the brother of the late Sam Lipton and the late Audrey Penskar. Interment took place at Adat Shalom Memorial Park Cemetery in Livonia. Contributions ...…
…44 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 SOUL OF BLESSED MEMORY She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 64 years, Bill. She was the devoted daughter of the late Lena and the late Harry Berman; the dear sister of the late Frank Berman and the late Esther Raminick. A graveside service took place at Oakwood Cemetery in Traverse City. Contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association or to a charity of one’ s choice. Arrangements...…
… OCTOBER 22 • 2020 | 45 L ooking back to the future … The wonderful Wonder Bar, and that it certainly was, on Washington Boulevard … enjoyed a beauti- ful reputation as one of Detroit’ s most cosmopol- itan restaurants … considered a direct heir of one of the city’ s most elegant “ clubs” in the 1920s. Sammy Sofferin, affable proprietor of the Wonder Bar, parlayed a cigar stand, an apartment house and the old Powatan Club into...…
…46 | OCTOBER 22 • 2020 Looking Back From the William Davidson Digital Archive of Jewish Detroit History accessible at www.djnfoundation.org The Standard Club R ecently, I have written about sev- eral historic Jewish clubs in Metro Detroit. There is the Franklin Hills Country Club, which boasts an outstand- ing golf course and club house. It is also a prime meeting place for local Jews. The Great Lakes Yacht Club is another largely J...…
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…Views 5-10 JN’s 2020 Election Guide A Note from the Editor 12 Republican Senate Candidate John James 14 Incumbent Democratic Senator Gary Peters 16 Incumbent Rep. Haley Stevens 18 Republican challenger Eric Esshaki 20 Oakland County Executive Race 22 Oakland County Circuit Court Judge Race 24 Head to thejewishnews.com to read interviews with Rep. Debbie Dingell, Rep. Andy Levin and Rep. Elissa Slotkin; challengers in the Oakland Coun...…
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…Views Jewfro Borrowed Time: Chicago Hope M y brother-in-law Marc Rosenzweig was diagnosed with Stage 3 Hodgkin’ s Lymphoma in 2012 and Stage 4 lung cancer in 2013. Borrowed Time is a storytelling project about his journey to the present as told to me by him. MARCH 18, 2017 I’ m standing in a small, dark room. I could not be more relieved. First, just being upright feels like an act of defiance. I’ ve spent so much of the last...…
…E lection season brings out the best and, in recent years, the worst in us. We are more politically active and passionate; we read and debate more — this is usually healthy for the Jews. Lately, though, the flood of misinformation and disinfor- mation has fostered a surge of uncritical, one-dimensional thinking that has compro- mised our ability to discuss and debate constructively. Example: There’s a tendency to see all left-leani...…
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