…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 17 The current trend of decluttering and keeping only what fills you with joy also gives the group momentum, she says. “I think it’s filling people’s hearts; it’s filling their buckets to know their stuff is being used.” Karen Gordon of Farmington Hills started Jewish Moms of Metro Detroit with Older Kids, a private Facebook group, a year and a half ago. Her kids are in college, so she got the group, now 450 memb...…
…O ur sense of belonging comes from the memory that we were all once strangers. This quintessential contradiction of Jewish identity, explicitly commanded in the Torah and echoed throughout our history, binds our people together and drives a shared commitment to tolerance and empathy. It certainly drives Spencer Lucker, 34-year-old resident of the Boston Edison neighborhood. By day, he helps fellow Detroiters as director of employer eng...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 19 Yet it also creates new challenges and opportunities. “How are we welcoming people? How do we reach all types of Jews in the Jewish community? How do we infuse Jewish identity into social events in a way that doesn’t push people away?” Lucker asks. We spoke to Lucker about his journey into the Detroit Jewish community and how he hopes to make that journey even better for his peers. WHY NOT DETROIT? SL: My wif...…
…n Jan. 3, two Muslim undergraduates, one from Wayne State University and the other from University of Michigan, joined two Jewish undergraduates from Wayne State on a flight to Dubai. For the next week, the four students would be part of the JCRC/AJC (Jewish Community Relations Council/American Jewish Committee) Muslim-Jewish Dubai Mission. Made possible with a grant from the Ravitz Foundation, the trip was designed to provide t...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 21 Interfaith Trip to Dubai Rebecca Cooper, a Jewish student, said the following about the significance of seeing a Holocaust exhibit at the Crossroads of Civilization Museum: “Prior to this trip, I didn’t believe I could travel to Dubai. I wasn’t sure if I would be welcome, frankly. All of my preconceived notions fell away and my eyes opened. I was awe-struck visiting the first and only Holocaust Memorial in t...…
…continued from page 21 22 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 also underscored how fragile these relationships are. Peace requires time, care, endless nur- turing and commitment. I fully intend to continue cultivating an environment at home that allows our connectedness to grow.” Illustrating this need for time and care was made most apparent in a visit to American Jewish Committee’s new office in Abu Dhabi, which was estab- lished after decades ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 23 “xzx OPENING THE DOORS Changing The Norm Celebrating the Beauty of Different Abilities Casting Musicals with Acceptance, Inclusion, Authenticity & Community E D U C AT E . I N C LU D E . E M P OW E R . Tony Award-Nominated Director and Choreographer MARCIA MILGROM DODGE Award-Winning Dancer and Actor EVAN RUGGIERO Beauty and the Beast “Innovative casting, direction and design… make Olney’s Beaut...…
…24 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OUR COMMUNITY G uy Stern turned 100 years old on Jan. 14. He is the Energizer Bunny personified, still working five days a week in his role as director of the International Institute of the Righteous at the Zekelman Holocaust Center (HC) in Farmington Hills. If Guy had only reached that milestone 20 years sooner, he could’ve walked to the Bill Knapp’s restaurant next door to the HC on Orchard Lake ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 25 (author Susanna) ‘writer- in-residence,’ docents, volunteers, guards — you name them.” Many he spoke of were in attendance. “Some had flattered me by telling me that they learned something from the dubious sagacity of this oldster. Well, that learning process is two-fold,” Stern said. “In fact, I was more often the beneficiary of their generational wisdom. I drew a conclusion from that: Do not let hubris or...…
…T hey’ll be thinking about Cara as they walk or run. Cara Lopatin, 18, is a childhood cancer survivor. During her recovery, her parents, Rabbi Asher and Rachel Tessler Lopatin of Huntington Woods, turned to Chai Lifeline, a New-York-based orga- nization that helps children and families coping with cancer and other serious illnesses. On Feb. 6, the Lopatins, along with three of their four children, their friends Shoshana and Rabbi Dav...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 27 HONORING CARA’S COURAGE Ten years ago, Shoshana Fain, 35, decided to run a half-marathon — 13 miles — in the Miami Marathon as a tribute to Cara, who was still undergoing treat- ment. The Fains had gotten to know the Lopatins when they were members of Asher Lopatin’s congrega- tion, Anshe Sholom B’nai Israel in Chicago. By the time Cara was diagnosed, the Lopatins had moved to New York. Although the Fains ...…
…OUR COMMUNITY 28 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 H adassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, “stands unequivocally for a woman’s right to choose,” said National Hadassah President Rhoda Smolow. “Patients have the right to make deci- sions about their reproductive rights. Medically unnecessary laws in some states restricting reproductive rights are meant to shame women.” What seemed like settled law on legalized abortion after 49 ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 29 pregnancy, which she took, because she didn’t want to go through that again with another child,” Karkowsky said. “A woman must have agency over her own body.” Pro-choice advocates are alarmed that it’s become harder to obtain a legal abor- tion. “Currently, 58 percent of women are being denied that legal right in their state,” Pogrebin said. In Texas, abortions are restricted after about six weeks, long befo...…
…30 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OUR COMMUNITY F or five years, Rabbi Nadav Caine of Beth Israel, a Conservative Congregation in Ann Arbor, has been silent about the group of protesters how many?who have targeted the local shul for almost two decades. Now Caine is considering enlisting the help of their interfaith partners to counter- protest the diehard protesters who contin- ue to show up outside the shul on Shabbat morning. However, Caine ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 31 A new Israel travel experience made spe- cifically for teens will give young Jewish individuals a chance to learn about gaming culture, new media and content creation. Lost Tribe’s Israel Journey: Tech & Gaming is the first trip of its kind. The partnership between Lost Tribe Esports, an organization for Jewish youth that creates connections through gaming, and BBYO, a Jewish teen movement, offers a ne...…
…CAMP GUIDE S ince 1969, Willoway Day Camp, located in Milford, has been offering campers an amazing day camp experience. Whether it’s learning to swim, play a sport, learn a dance or a song — or make a lifelong friend, Willoway offers something for everyone. “We are so proud to be offering the Willoway experience to many second-generation as well as new camper families, ” said Lorraine Fisher, who co-founded Willoway with her h...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 33 current associate directors (and lifelong campers) Jason Rosen and me, Jonathon Koenigsberg, carry Willoway’s non-competitive summer fun outlook to countless campers. Similarly, Willoway inspired Marni Katz to become a camp professional. A former Willoway camper, counselor, and program coordinator, Katz worked as a Chicago-area day camp director for 15 years. “When the world changed in 2020, we moved home....…
…34 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 I grew up at Camp Young Judaea Midwest (CYJ) in Waupaca, Wisconsin. I spent many summers there as both a chanicha (camper) and member of the tzevet (staff). Rising through the ranks each summer, I couldn’t wait to be in the oldest age group as a camper and was just as excited if not more to become a merakezet (unit head) when I was old enough in college. Then it was time to grow up, or that’s what I...…
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…36 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 I f the pandemic has played havoc with most business- es, it’s thrown an oversized wrench into the works for summer camps. For those in Canada, like Camp Tamakwa, for whom U.S. kids are an important segment of their camper population, COVID19 has been a major test. It wasn’t long ago I thought I had seen it all in my 52 years at Tamakwa and experienced just about every possible sce- nario that can happen at...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 37 valuable input from Tamakwa’s medical staff, we discussed staff- ing and quarantine challenges. It wasn’t until the 11th hour that camps learned they could open, but, unfortunately, the Canadian-U.S. border remained closed. With little time, we had to address multiple tasks to ensure camp could open — modifi- cations to our facilities, health center, medical staff orientation, kitchen and food service, sanita-...…
…38 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 I t was “the summer of the swab. ” For Camp Walden in Cheyboyan, Michigan, as for many overnight sum- mer camps, “swab” was the four-letter word of 2021. But testing for COVID-19, by repeatedly sticking thousands of Q-tip-like swabs up the noses of campers and staff, was also key to how this northern Michigan camp completed last season without one case of the COVID virus. “I knew the directors would make the ...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 39 June 20 to July 15, 2022 Spend the summer on the adventure of a lifetime! Registration is now available! Need proof that these three-weeks in Israel will be amazing? Scan the QR code to watch the video from past Teen Mission travelers. *with $3,000 voucher from RootOne. Visit teenmissiondetroit.org for details. Hike, surf, eat and tour your way through Israel with other Detroit community teens and te...…
…40 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 CAMP WALDEN 5607 South River Cheboygan, MI 49721 summer@campwaldenmi.com 817-923-WLDN (9536) FAX: 817-923-7992 Celebrating our 63rd summer, Walden provides an inspiring environment that challenges campers to step outside their comfort zones. Our program combines elements of individual choice and group dynamics, building confidence, character and resilience. At Walden, college-age counselors raise the bar ...…
…interlochen.org Programs for Every Young Artist CREATIVE WRITING DANCE FILM & NEW MEDIA INTERDISCIPLINARY ARTS MUSIC THEATRE VISUAL ARTS Deep in the woods of northern Michigan, arts collide and unbreakable bonds form. An experience at Interlochen won’t just make you a better artist—it will transform the course of your future. Through our innovative programs, students build creative confidence and develop a sense of wonder, cu...…
…42 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 ROEPER SUMMER CAMPS 41190 Woodward Ave. Bloomfield, MI 48304 (248) 203-7370 roeper.org From lacrosse to coding to theater, Roeper Summer Programs offers a variety of enriching and rewarding camp experiences to children throughout Metro Detroit. Diversity and respect for everyone’s potential are central characteristics of the community. TAMARACK CAMPS 6735 Telegraph Road, Suite 380 Bloomfield Hills, MI...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 43 I t’s August 2019. Detroit is hosting the annual JCC Maccabi Games & ArtsFest. Hundreds of teenage Jewish athletes and artists are in the area competing, creating and socializing. Brennan Gesund and Lucas Hutten are playing for the Detroit “B” hockey team. They’re defensive partners and team leaders. They’re having a great time even though their team isn’t winning because it’s facing teams with older and ...…
…44 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 SPORTS continued from page 43 only six goals in our five games. But that was a super fun team to coach and the parents were great.” Gesund, a Commerce Township resident, and Hutten, who lives in Novi, each played travel hockey until they went to high school. They enjoy playing hockey now for Walled Lake Northern and Novi, respectively. “I love it. We have really good crowds for our home games at the Lake...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 45 T he crustaceans and line-caught fish flown daily to Mare Mediterranean in Birmingham are so fresh that some of the catches “come in with the fishhook still in their mouth,” said Jay Feldman. He is part- ners with his longtime friend, Nino Cutraro, and wife, Liz Cutraro, in the distinctive Greek seafood restaurant with Italian, Spanish and Portuguese influences. The Cutraros also operate Bella Piatta, an Old ...…
…46 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 Bea Bea & Woody Woody Kisses are still Kisses are still sweeter than wine! sweeter than wine! HAPPY 70 HAPPY 70th th ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!! ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!! Love forever, Love forever, your mishpocheh your mishpocheh Loyd-Papenheim L isa Shapiro of Farmington Hills with Erich and Michele Papenheim of Greer, S.C., announce the engagement of their daughter Sydney Marilynn Papenheim to David Adam Loyd,...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 47 Epstein-Peri A nita and Avi Peri and Suzi and Stuart Epstein are thrilled to announce the marriage of their children, Neilly Peri and Jason Epstein. The marriage ceremony took place in September 2020 at Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills. Due to the pandemic, a celebration party was held later, in October 2021. Neilly and Jason were thrilled to have their grandmother Nanny Dorie Wallace participate...…
…Synagogue Directory CONSERVATIVE Adat Shalom Synagogue Farmington Hills (248) 851-5100 adatshalom.org Ahavas Israel Grand Rapids (616) 949-2840 ahavasisraelgr.org Congregation Beth Ahm West Bloomfield (248) 851-6880 cbahm.org Congregation Beth Israel Flint (810) 732-6310 cbiflint.org Congregation Beth Shalom Oak Park (248) 547-7970 congbethshalom.org Beth Tephilath Moses Mt. Clemens (586) 996-3138 bethtephilathmoses.com...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 49 Shomrey Emunah Southfield (248) 559-1533 congregation-shomrey- emunah-105705.square.site The Shul-Chabad Lubavitch West Bloomfield (248) 788-4000 theshul.net Yagdil Torah Southfield (248) 559-5905 Young Israel of Oak Park (248) 967-3655 yiop.org Young Israel of Southfield (248) 358-0154 yisouthfield.org RECONSTRUCTIONIST Congregation Kehillat Israel Lansing (517) 882-0049 kehillatisrael.net Congrega...…
…SPIRIT A WORD OF TORAH 50 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 H uman beings have a unique and fundamental attachment to place and space. Animals have lairs and mark their territory, but people add layers of significance to the spaces they occupy. Our homes are particularly signif- icant to us. They provide us with security, privacy, belonging, identity. They are the center of our existence — a central place from which to look out at the wor...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 51 and spiritually purified, and to draw close to the Creator in an unprecedented way. Friends, God is everywhere, but there are certain places on Earth where we feel His presence with greater intensity. The Mishkan and the Temple were places imbued with God’s presence in this intense manner. And, even today, the land of Israel retains this spiritual potency, as do the “miniature temples:” the shul and the beit...…
…52 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 ARTS&LIFE MUSIC Young Composer Jonah Cohen mentors other young musicians as he looks forward to hearing his commissioned work performed live. SUZANNE CHESSLER CONTRIBUTING WRITER J onah Cohen likes to hum but not just melodies heard on recordings or performed on stages. Often, core melodies originate in his own mind, and he hums away while devel- oping them into full compositions. Working with instrumen...…
…continued on page 54 Cohen had been looking for- ward to having Metro Detroiters experience a January concert that featured his first commissioned piece, but the pandemic caused a postponement with the presenta- tion now anticipated for spring. His piece was to be played by the award-winning Akropolis Reed Quintet in a program hosted by Pro Musica of Detroit. “I was completely overjoyed to have the privilege of writing for Akropoli...…
…continued from page 53 54 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 the program, I wanted to create a really driving sense of motion. “For any project, I usually start composing at the piano, thinking about rough sound texture and what I want to create with the piece. I next turn to my notation software so I can notate music online. That’s when I play around with the materi- al the most. ” Cohen’s commissioned piece is being joined with another premiere pie...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 55 J ust three weeks before opening night of the Farmington Players’ upcoming production, Tokens of Affection, plans changed in the biggest of ways. One of the leads of the play, Dorne Lefere, dropped out due to a family emergency. Director Dave Reinke had to make a decision. Reinke made only one phone call for someone to take on the role and learn the entire pro- duction in just a few weeks: Gary Weinstein, ...…
…KIDNAPPING; JEWISH JEANS, COLLEGE JEOPARDY, A CLEVER SCAMMER Suspicion is an original eight-episode Apple TV+ series that begins stream- ing on Feb. 4. It’s based on False Flag, an Israeli series. Uma Thurman plays a busi- nesswoman whose son is kidnapped. If Suspicion follows False Flag, as I expect it will, several “total- ly ordinary” persons will be accused of being involved in the crime, and the mys- tery will be — are they i...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 57 CAREGIVER SERIES 2 PM, FEB. 3 Taking care of a loved one can be difficult. So can ensuring your own needs are being met during this chal- lenging time. It’s easy to feel isolated, but Jewish Family Service and Jewish Senior Life are here to offer family care- givers support, comfort and a sense of community. Learn how to “Take a Breath Brake” with Rabbi Elimelech Goldberg, a virtual presentation. Info: jfsdetro...…
…58 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 SPOTLIGHT (JTA) F ollowing a social media outcry, Barnes & Noble has removed The Protocols of the Elders of Zion from its website. Twitter users began tweeting Jan. 25 about an online listing on the book- sellers’ site, which had been offering the famously fab- ricated antisemitic text for $24.95. The retailer said in a statement to the Jewish Telegraphic Agency that the book was fed automatically to the...…
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…60 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 GARY ABRAMOVITZ, 79, of Farmington Hills, died Jan. 26, 2022. He is survived by his beloved wife, SueAnne Abramovitz; daughter and son-in-law, Robyn and Timothy Klouse; son and daughter-in- law, Michael and Tammy Abramovitz; grandchildren, Harry Abramovitz, Isaac Abramovitz, Benjamin Klouse; sister and brother-in- law, Eileen (Bill) Glogower; many other loving family members and friends. Gary was the g...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 61 B rigadier General Norman Ralph Thorpe (USAF Ret.), 87, of Birmingham, died on Jan. 24, 2022. He was born in 1934 in Carlinville, Ill. In his early years, he was raised by his mother, Imogene Thorpe, and grand- mother, Carrie Hayes. These strong women instilled in him an incredible work ethic and an appreciation of equality and fairness. Although the family was small and came from mod- est means, Norm love...…
…62 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 his best four-legged friend, Teddy. Mr. Fynke was the devoted son of the late Iris Ann Fynke and the late Richard Fynke; dear son-in-law of the late Joyce Rosett. Interment was at Beth El Memorial Park. Contributions may be made to Dr. Dennis D. and Flora Kerner Kovan Memorial Fund, Children’s Hospital of Michigan-Main Campus, 3901 Beaubien, Detroit, MI 48201, yourchildrensfoundation.org/ ways-to-give. If...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 63 continued on page 65 F or nearly a quarter- century, Arthur Tarnow was a United States District Court Judge in Detroit. A person of great empathy who cared about the disadvantaged, Judge Tarnow would daily box half his lunch and give it to homeless people on nearby Downtown streets. The judge’s empathy would also extend to the criminal defendants he sent to prison, explains his wife, Jackie Tarnow. “When ...…
…64 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 OBITUARIES OF BLESSED MEMORY S aul Shepsol Saulson, 93, of Franklin, died Jan. 13, 2022. A friend described Saul as “The finest of men. A man’s man balanced with sensitivity and humility. A gem. Very dig- nified, never haughty. Grace, kindness and values to the highest degree. Tall in stature and in morals. ” His family saw him as “opti- mistic and adventuresome, fun-loving and curious, deter- mined and di...…
…FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 | 65 and daughters-in-law, Marc and Ellen Lipton, Craig and Miriam Lipton, Eric (John Gormley) Lifschitz; daughter and son-in-law, Jody (Geoff Kretchmer) Lipton; grandchildren, Corey, Celia, Noah, Emma, Eli and Esme, who all loved and will miss her. Mrs. Lipton was predeceased by her beloved husband, Bill Lipton; brother, Sheldon (Rhonda and Carli) Levine; her parents, Elkan and Betty Levine. Interment took ...…
…OBITUARIES OF BLESSED MEMORY 66 | FEBRUARY 3 • 2022 c. 1980 MARVIN ALAN OLESHANSKY, 75, of Silver Springs, Md., died Jan. 20, 2022. He is survived by his wife, Joyce (nee Schoenheimer); children, Jacob, James and Celia; brothers and sisters-in-law, William and Marlene, and David and Deborah; and their families. Interment was at Machpelah Cemetery. Contributions may be made to a charity of one’s choice. Arrangements by Ir...…
