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cars and his grandfather," reports
Dr. Tisdale.
Ettie Handelman, of Farmington
Hills, spends her winters in Rori-
da but is never too far away from
her 11 grandchildren.
"I do different things with the
grandchildren depending on their
personality," says Mrs. Handelman.
"I love to bond with them and I
put forth considerable effort to be
very visible in their lives, because
that bonding doesn't happen by it-
self. When I'm with them, I give
up all my activities and devote my
time to them whether it's in Sara-
sota or here in Michigan."
"I want them to know who I
am, as a Jewish mother and grand-
mother, carrying on the Jewish
ethics and traditions," she contin-
ues. "I see myself as their role mod-
el for an older person, to help them
understand that as you age you can
remain active and interested in life,
participate in the Jewish commu-
nity, and be an integral part of the
family. I don't preach, I don't sit
in judgment and I won't give ad-
vice.
"Fortunately, I have the energy
to do the things I want to do and
go to places that interest me. Being
a grandparent is a mindset; you just
have to make up your mind about
what kind of grandparent you want
to be and how you want to spend
your time." III
Play Areas
The Jewish Community Center
Maple/Drake 810-661-3680 Jimmy Pleads Morris 810-967-4030
Southfield Parks and Recreation 810-424-9022
Southfield Center for the Arts 810-354-4717
Oak Park Community Center 810-691-7555
West Bloomfield Civic Center 810-334-5660
Kensington MetroPark Farm Center 810-635-1561
Kensington Nature Center 810-685-0603
Independence Oaks Nature Center 810-625-6473
Marshlands Museum & Nature Center 313-379-5020
Seven Ponds Nature Center 810-796-3200
Nature Center of MetroBeac.h Metropark 810-463-4332
Marvin's Marvelous Mechanical Museum 810-626-5020
Bubbie-Zadie and Kinder Camp 810-661-0600
Recommended books
Grandparents as Parents: A Survival Guide for Raising a Second
Family, by Syble de Toledo and Deborah Edler Brown
The Encyclopedia of Grandparents: Hundreds of Ideas to Enter-
tain Your Grandchildren, by Rosemary and Peter Dalton
The Magic of Grandparenting, by Charmaine Ciardi, Cathy Orme
and Carolyn Quatrano
Grandparenting: A New Challenge, by Helen Gonski
Contemporary Grandparenting, by Arthur Kornhaber, M.D.
The Grandparent Book, by Linda White, M.D.