The Michigan Daily — michigandaily.com b-side Thursday, February 27, 2020 — 5B They populate hallways of high schools across the country, sauntering to class in their flannels and flared jeans. They cry “like this if you’re a ’90s kid,” while bopping out to hip hop music on a vintage Walkman. These lost souls were “born in the wrong generation” and yearn for days gone by. Fixating on any time period from the 1960s to the 1990s, these angsty teenagers often proclaim that the times in question were “better days” and that these past eras produced the last truly “good” music. Oftentimes, such individuals are dismissed by their peers as those kids who can’t stop talking about “My So-Called Life” or “Sabrina the Teenage Witch.” Of course, the ’90s saw events like Y2K, the OJ trial and a presidential impeachment. But we also have this decade to thank for beanie baby hoards, those slap bracelets that got banned and “Space Jam.” What if these displaced dreamers really were born in the wrong generation, and the past, particularly the ’90s, truly was a better time? Stephen Chbosky’s “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” made me consider this question. Published in 1999, the epistolary tale takes the reader on a journey with Charlie through his first year of high school and “the world of first dates, family dramas, and new friends,” as stated in the novel. “Perks” is quintessentially ’90s, filled with grunge, angst and feeling infinite. I am not a ’90s kid, but Charlie’s experience truly resonated with me and brought me back to my own high school years. In many ways, his journey was my journey, and reading Chbosky’s novel reminded me of the loneliness, vulnerability and love that characterized my life. The story is transcendent and universal, “both happy and sad” and written from the perspective of a boy who is “still trying to figure out how that could be.” You could say I was lonely in the ninth grade. Following the dissolution of a close friendship, and overwhelmed by my own nervousness, I had a difficult time making friends. I was quiet and shy, terrified by the prospect of talking to new people but racked with a yearning for human connection. It wasn’t a great phase of my life, but it was a formative one nonetheless. And Chbosky captures the essence of this period nearly perfectly. Early in the book, Charlie timidly befriends Patrick and Sam, both seniors, and becomes close friends with them. But before this connection is made, and after conflicts arise between the friends, Charlie’s isolation takes center stage. The hopelessness and rumination that characterized many of my days trapped alone in my head are depicted with a scary accuracy. At one point, Charlie is promised a call from his friend Patrick after a mishap, but Charlie doesn’t receive one. This one event begins to taint the rest of his thoughts, and he becomes increasingly distressed the more he stews in his own worries. That sort of poisonous anxiety, the kind that paralyzes you and seeps into the rest of your existence, is not new to me. That Chbosky is able to capture this inimitable feeling of nervous isolation only speaks more to the universality of his book. Thankfully, much like Charlie, I was able to find truly life-saving friends during the ninth grade, and coincidentally, the friends I made as a ninth grader were all older than me as well. Emotional insecurity and anxiety don’t go away overnight, though, even with new friends, and growing into appreciating these friends is a process in and of itself. It’s a process of teenage growth that I haven’t seen depicted often. Here, “Perks” once again captures an aspect of my adolescence with precision and grace. Charlie’s quiet sentimentality is both beautiful and familiar. When Charlie is first invited to hang out with Sam and Patrick’s friends, I saw a part of myself in him. He passively intakes his surroundings, absorbing the presence of new, strange and wonderful people just existing. “That was me once,” I thought. I remember when I was invited to a house party for the first time, and though I wasn’t fed any pot brownies and we only listened to “Kidz Bop” while we face painted, my emotional state in those moments was similar to Charlie’s. Anything felt possible, and the depths of love ripped my chest open, baring my soul for whatever pain or joy might come. But I got much more time with my friends than Charlie does with his: My friends were only a year older than me, whereas Charlie’s are three years older. But this doesn’t matter, because even though Charlie’s journey of friendship with Patrick and Sam moved to a new stage much sooner than my journey did, both Charlie and I hold an acute awareness of the rarity and beauty of friendship. Our explicit acknowledgement and tranquil acceptance of the impermanence of these times amplified the highs of love and companionship. There were times when I became so acutely aware of how great it was to have friends that I simply cried out of joy and thankfulness. Such sentimentality is familiar to Charlie, and on this level I connected with him. I distinctly remember a moment driving home from my friend’s house in the eleventh grade. It was the last year everyone in our friend group would all be in high school, and graduation was approaching quickly. I came to a stoplight and considered this fact for the thousandth time, but while I was thinking, a pretty song came on. I don’t remember the song, only that it was one I recommended to one of my friends. But I remember that I just started laughing. Then crying. Love washed over me, and I reflected on all the times I felt infinite with them. I still reminisce on these times, but coming to terms with the passage of time helped me grow beyond who I was before I met these people. I am still awkward and shy, and sometimes I avoid going to the same hair stylist more than once because I have already asked them every question in my arsenal the first time they cut my hair. But I am not afraid anymore. I carry on with the memories of those I love in my heart. Steven Chbosky’s “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” is transcendent, and it spoke to me and my experiences over two decades after it was originally published. Each generation is defined by the culture in which they grew up in. The hippies of the ’60s, the angsty adolescents of the ’90s, the political revolutionaries of the 2010s. It is inevitable, necessary, even, to move beyond the past, but there is also value in what has been lost. “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” reminded me of this. So slip into those Dr. Martens and that flannel and jam out to some Salt-N-Pepa, and embrace being born in the wrong generation. Embrace the ability to look back on remnants of times gone by while still being able to appreciate what made those times special. The wisdom to be found in them is timeless. “Perks” in particular reminds us all to be aware of limitless joy and opportunity, and, most of all, helps us to remember to feel infinite. The perks of being a ’90s kid: Chbosky’s timeless novel SUMMIT ENTERTAINMENT The World Wide Web. Scrunchies. Y2K. Pogs. The Clinton-Lewinsky scandal. Sitcoms. Need I say more? It’s the ’90s. Many of my contemporaries and I were either unborn or too young to soak in the iconic ’90s culture that oozed out of every fleeting moment, but that doesn’t seem to matter too much. The ’90s, while we may never truly relive it, is still so culturally relevant nearly two decades later that it doesn’t feel like we missed out on anything. Scrunchies came back in full force, Dr. Martens might never go away and you can hear iterations of “I did not have sexual relations with that woman” in nearly any reality TV show or celebrity scandal today. The unambiguous nature of the ’90s makes it easily imitated today and many aspects of pop culture take advantage of this fact. Shows like “Bojack Horseman” have created picture-perfect parodies of the classic ’90s situation comedy format through “Horsin’ Around,” a template for what these shows used to offer to the community. Through its simple yet precise usage of “live” studio audiences, cheesy catchphrases and limited filming sets, the essence of iconic sitcoms like “Full House” and “Family Matters” are flawlessly captured. For those who grew up with them, this combination of features elicits warm feelings of nostalgia and coziness. You’re bundled up on the couch with your preferred sitcom on, humming along to the theme song, knowing that no matter what conflict arises in this episode, everything’s going to be okay in about half an hour. And yet, there’s a level of harsh reality that simmers beneath the feel-good appearance of sitcoms. This optimistic facade is the illusion that modern television has tried to take down. We’ve entered a phase in our culture where mindless consumption is frequent yet frowned upon, and many new shows have tried to incorporate social commentary into their plot lines to make television consumption a little more meaningful. Shows like “Bojack” centered their entire plot on how unrealistic the idea of quick conflict resolution is in real life. Hardly anything in real life is ever resolved within a half-hour time span, and these shows know this. A lot of us do too. Yet sitcoms, especially those made in the ’90s, gained so much traction and are held close to the hearts of many to this day. Why is this? Simply put, sitcoms are comforting for the very reason that makes them criticized by modern audiences. Their lack of realism, in the wake of decades of war and uncertainty, provided a source of repetition and structure that people lacked in their day-to-day lives. Superficially, most people only remember the positives when it comes to the ’90s. That is, the Spice Girls, barrettes and “Clueless.” We often ignore the negative things — like war, genocide and the Los Angeles riots — that likely brought about the necessity of these positives. There’s a reason why people needed sitcoms to distract them. Reality television plays a similar role in modern society. When it comes down to it, nothing that happens in either genre is necessarily groundbreaking or surprising. They both take place on someone’s couch, kitchen island or bar down the street. Most of the episodes are predictable and the plotlines are shallow. If there is any deeper meaning, it’s subtle and hidden under layers of petty drama and clever quips. It’s this consistency we often look for when we’re in times of distress — similar to how I crave shows that I’ve already seen when life becomes just a little too much. Distraction is a coping mechanism, and “woke culture” tries to make us feel guilty about this very natural phenomenon. To a certain extent, there’s not much we can do about the macro, uncontrollable dangers we face at every waking moment. We can tote around our reusable straws and take shorter showers, but what is there to do about nuclear war? About natural disasters? In recent decades, we have been faced with so much change and imminent doom (which I know aren’t exactly new) that we’re left with two options: choose to remain blissfully ignorant, or take on large-scale burdens like they’re our own. Most people, understandably, choose the former. These shows transport us to a world we wish we could live in, where our most difficult problems are having two dates to the dance or not having a jacuzzi. And change, whether positive or negative, is constant and difficult for anyone to endure too much of. I’m certainly not suggesting that you hole up and mindlessly consume until your brain melts, but don’t feel so guilty about ignoring the tick tick ticking of the Doomsday clock by watching a bit of brainless television. Sometimes all we need to cope is a half- hour episode of television where likeable and predictable characters chat around the dinner table and, no matter what, no matter how nasty things get, everything’s going to be okay. ‘Last Week Tonight’ makes sense of the political chaos Last Week Tonight “Welcome! Welcome! Welcome!” John Oliver exclaims with his signature opener as he introduces his newest season as host of HBO’s “Last Week Tonight.” Over the past seven years, the late-night comedy program has become known for its savvy political satire, cementing itself as a staple of late- night comedy. In its first show of the new decade, Oliver was quick to note what global events transpired during the show’s nearly two-month hiatus: “We nearly went to war with Iran, the UK elected ‘BOJO’ Prime Minister and the Coronavirus has started spreading around the world, and if you happen to feel like you’re getting sick right now you DO have it and you only have hours to live.” “Last Week Tonight,” more so than other late-night programs, has been able to maintain a steady, high-quality production of informational comedy through formatted segments that debut every Sunday. The show’s noticeably consistent strengths are its larger segments, those which tend to grapple with relevant issues without sacrificing comedic material. In a late-night landscape where seemingly every comedian has a Trump impression, Oliver and his writing staff lay off the easy dunks in order to make an even greater political statement. While the show’s segments can be bleak in topic, each weekly piece intends to expand upon a political issue that may be unknown to the general public. In past seasons, segments have created social action that has ranged from harassing FCC commissioner Ajit Pai over net neutrality to a highly- publicized legal battle with a West Virginia coal CEO. From the vantage point of February 2020, there is still no guarantee that HBO will renew “Last Week Tonight” for additional seasons. HBO has been generous to give “Last Week Tonight’s” creators expanded agency in the show’s production. Oliver has expressed that he has “full creative freedom, including free reign to criticize corporations.” After all, HBO is owned by AT&T. Whereas conflict of interest could present an issue when discussing the prevalence of matters like robocalls or joking about the demise of “Game of Thrones,” (which also aired on HBO), “Last Week Tonight” maintains its “No B.S.” slant. In particular, his new season represents a turn for the series as John Oliver recently obtained dual citizenship with the United States and the United Kingdom. While the question of Oliver’s citizenship was never an important factor in his expertise as a host, his backstory as an immigrant sets his comedic backstory apart. His new American identity grants a more personal, caring tone than in seasons past. Despite the inherently depressing flaws of American society which he carefully lays out every week, John Oliver believes he is a patriot, holding a soft spot for the ideals and pursuits of a more perfect union. “It was a big deal,” he stated in a recent interview with Stephen Colbert on “The Late Show,” “not just choosing America, but choosing America NOW.” The landscape for this year’s season of “Last Week Tonight” should present many ripe prospects with the inevitable fallouts from Brexit, the summer Olympics in Tokyo, the upcoming Democratic National Convention and, of course, the Presidential Election. How Oliver intends to use his new perspectives from U.S. citizenship in order to engage audiences is sure to be provocative and hilarious, culminating in the continuation of the finest that satire television currently offers. That’s just so long as Ajit Pai and the FCC have nothing else to say about it. The ’90s sitcoms weren’t great, but we needed them TV REVIEW B-SIDE: TV B-SIDE: BOOKS TATE LAFRENIER Daily Arts Writer SOHPIA YOON Daily TV Editor MAXWELL BARNES For The Daily These shows transport us to a world we wish we could live in, where our most difficult problems are having two dates to the prom or not having a jacuzzi It is inevitable, necessary, even, to move beyond the past, but there is also value in what has been lost