2B — February 17, 2020 SportsMonday The Michigan Daily — michigandaily.com In 2017, just after Mel Pearson was hired as the Michigan hockey coach, he went to Red Berenson’s house and had what he called the best conversation of his life. The two sat on the deck in Beren- son’s backyard and talked for two hours, about anything and everything. It was a beauti- ful night, Pearson recalled, and they sipped drinks. A weight appeared to be lifted off Berenson’s shoul- ders. “After all those years of hockey, I think he just finally relaxed,” Pearson said this Wednesday. For years, when Pear- son worked under Beren- son as an assistant coach, he had seen him in the crucible, up close. They had coached Michigan to 10 Fro- zen Fours and two national titles together before Pearson left in 2011 to coach Michigan Tech. Berenson would stay in his job until he was 77 years old, finishing his career with a 13-19-1 season, his worst since his first year behind the bench, back in 1985. There’s always a conflict in coaching. Be it recruiting, on-ice performance, an off-ice issue or something else entirely — it always comes back to the head coach. For 33 years, it always came back to Berenson. All that was over now. A few hours before Pearson recalled that conversation, Beren- son sat at a desk in his Weiden- bach Hall office, talking about a packed schedule. The night before, he’d played hockey with the Michigan alumni team at Yost Ice Arena, on the rink with his name inscribed on it, like he does every Tuesday. On Wednesday night, he planned to go to a high school hockey game to see one of his grandkids. On Saturday, he’d play another game in Howell, with the Red Wing alumni team. On Mon- day night, he’ll be in Detroit to watch Michigan play Michigan State. Michigan didn’t play at Yost this weekend, but at home games, Berenson sits in the athletic director’s box now, entertaining donors or merely spending time with his wife, Joy. He still feels pulled toward the ice. He was asked if it was nice to have the stress off him without coaching — without being in con- stant conflict. “Well, it was fine and I have no regrets,” Berenson said. “So it was good.” Then he moved into talking about how he still feels invested in the team. Really, the question went unanswered. He holds a job in the ath- letic department, helping endow scholarships in the hockey program — a project he started back in the late-1990s when Tom Goss was the athletic director. He’s close to finishing. To some extent, he’s relaxed more, but the Berenson who Pearson saw that night three years ago, after officially handing off a job synony- mous with his name for three decades, hasn’t moved away from everything, at least not com- pletely. Pearson notices the com- petitiveness simmering beneath the surface, calm but clear. “I don’t feel like I’m not in hock- ey anymore,” Berenson said. *** For years when Berenson coached, he preached the idea of a life after hockey. He was born in 1939, near the end of the Great Depression and he says his parents’ culture “was just survival.” Berenson inherited that. And wanted to get away from it. In an age where education was frowned upon in some hockey circles, Berenson went to college, choosing Michigan over Denver because, he said, “some of the guys that went to Denver, I just didn’t have a lot of respect for them as students.” Years later, he completed an MBA, driving back to Ann Arbor for class the day after the Canadiens’ Stanley Cup celebration parade in 1965. While hockey players drank in the locker rooms, Beren- son quit an offseason office job at Molson Breweries because there was too much drinking. He wore a helmet when doing so carried a stigma. Berenson played for 17 seasons, coached in the NHL for six, then in col- lege for 33. The last three years have been the closest thing to a life after hockey he’s had, yet last week he found himself at a hockey rink nearly every day, eating popcorn and watching Michigan practice from a seat in the corner of Yost. “I came back here and I had no idea I’d be here 30-something years, but it just worked out that way,” Berenson said. “While I’ve been here, I’ve been able to digest that feeling that this life after hockey has already started, but I’m right in the middle of hockey.” This year, Berenson plans to get away from everything the same way he has for the last 50 years. He’ll get a group of friends together, pack up the car and drive north. They’ll spend 7-10 days in canoes, portaging rapids they can’t make it through and camping at night, isolated from the rest of the world. In an office filled with reminders of his hockey achievements, Berenson’s favorite photo is of himself, shirtless and bearded, wearing sunglasses and standing in a canoe on the Missinaibi River. He picked up the hobby while he played, discovering he had an interest in the outdoors and, during the offseason, real time on his hands to explore it. The physicality of it appeals to him. So does the remoteness. He did it with the same group of three or four friends for years, and as a coach, he used to invite graduating seniors as well, using it as a bonding event. One year, when current Michigan assistant Bill Muckalt went, his canoe partner, Deke, tore his Achilles. There was no discussion of cutting the trip short. On the last day, Muckalt recalled, Berenson paddled off into the Lake Superior sunset. “I’m with Deke like, ‘If we dump this canoe, we’re dead.’ Cause the water’s freezing,” Muckalt said. Still, they made it through each day, setting up camp and listening to the Stanley Cup Finals on the radio at night. “That’s the worst real injury that we’ve had,” Berenson said. “And yet it wasn’t life-threatening. It was just, it was inconvenient.” He’s not looking for overly tough trips anymore. Last year, the wind was in his face the whole time and there were too many portages. Some of the mainstays who did the trips for years have dropped off. Last year, Kent Brothers, an ex-player who went on a trip nearly three decades ago after graduating, called Berenson out of the blue and asked to go again. They loved having him. Berenson doesn’t reach out to players each year anymore, though. At some point, they didn’t seem interested in something like that. “They know that I go and if they want to go, they can call,” Berenson said. Two Saturdays ago, Luke Glenden- ing came back to Yost to visit. His career embodies the traits Berenson values, the ones he saw less and less of as time passed by. Glendening came to Michigan in 2008, recruited as a walk-on. He played four years, earning a degree and getting good enough to earn an NHL spot as an undrafted free agent. He’s in his seventh year with the Detroit Red Wings now, but when his career ends, he’ll have a degree to fall back on. Berenson paints Glendening in con- trast with Josh Norris, another former Michigan player who left after last sea- son, as a sophomore. He’s with the AHL’s Belleville Senators now, a minor-league affiliate of Ottawa. Berenson doesn’t understand why. “Now, he’s probably happy in the minors,” Berenson said. “But as an advi- sor and his coach, I would’ve said, you’ll get to the NHL just as fast by staying in school. ... You don’t know how long you’re gonna play hockey.” Norris never played for Berenson, though he was recruited by him. But the old coach sees him as a part of a trend, ever-growing, that started in the mid- 2000s, when certain players started to come to Michigan thinking they had it figured out. A recruit named Steve Guolla once asked Berenson if he could wait on a decision after being offered. Berenson rescinded the offer, making the decision for him. He wanted a group of four-year players who wanted nothing more than to be in Ann Arbor, lining up behind each other for playing time. Things were regimented, just the way Berenson, an old-school coach who comes from an old- school background, wanted them. Unmistakably, Berenson is a man of his age, both in how he handled his pro- gram and in his personal life. He keeps things to himself. When Pearson’s father passed away, he found a photo of him and Berenson together, on an All-Star team in Hum- boldt, Saskatchewan in the late-1950s. Berenson had told Pearson he knew his father. Neither man had said anything to Pearson about having played together. *** The current senior class is Berenson’s last. Once they graduate, there will be no one left on Michigan’s roster who played for him, only those he recruited and called after the 2017 season, telling them he wouldn’t be there. He’ll lose something in that — it’s easy to pick up on the way Berenson speaks about his former players. He watches the NHL constantly, and it’s hard to believe he isn’t doing that to keep an eye on them. Last week, he came into the Yost offices and asked Pearson if he knew Andrew Cogliano would play his 1,000th NHL game on Thursday. Pearson had no idea. But Berenson keeps up with these things. The last players with ties to his reign leaving won’t end the connection Beren- son feels with the program. Pearson, Muckalt, volunteer assistant Matt Hun- wick and player development coach Steve Shields all played or coached under him. When Pearson brings recruits in now, he tries to make sure they meet Berenson. He still comes into the offices to talk a couple times a week, meeting with the coaches or just with Pearson in an unof- ficial advisoral capacity. Once in a long while, he’ll talk to Pearson after a game. No one feels he’s stepping on toes — the staff values any advice he has, and he doesn’t want to overstep. When Pearson took over, he made sure there was still a stall for him in the coach’s locker room. “He’s got such a good way about him,” Pearson said. “Not forcing or telling you anything to do. You just start talking about something and then you get into some coaching or maybe a player, or if you have a discipline issue, or maybe a player isn’t playing up to their potential or whatnot, how you deal with it.” As for his current role, Berenson is unsure when he’ll leave it. “Year to year, I don’t have a plan,” Berenson said. “As long as I’m healthy and fit and alert, if it works for Warde, and if it doesn’t work for him, I’m fine. I’ll be fine without this. But I’ll still be a fan.” Even though his passion for hockey is as strong as ever, Berenson relishes having more time to spend with his fam- ily now. He and Joy have always done trips in their AirStream, driving across Canada to visit family, and that hasn’t changed. Last summer, to celebrate their 60th anniversary, the family got together and stayed at the Grand Hotel on Macki- nac Island. The island is remote and isolated, the way Berenson likes it. There are no cars — just bikes and horses to get around — and the whole family was there, as far removed from the hockey world as could be. ETHAN SEARS Managing Sports Editor RED BERENSON’S