The Michigan Daily — michigandaily.com Wednesday, September 20, 2017 — 5A Arts FOREIGN FAMILY COLLECTIVE Paramore commands the crowd at the Fox Theater At first, the screaming was so deafening that for a moment I was actually afraid. Then the moment passed, and I remembered where I was and what was going on. I was at a concert. The intermission after the opening act of Best Coast was over, and all seven members of Paramore had just run out onto the stage. Paramore is tied to an interesting brand of fan culture. Older bands typically spearhead devoted groups of longtime listeners, many of whom know the band’s history and can list every album chronologically, whereas the concerts of more recent groups are often attended by younger fans who are primarily excited about material from the last few years. Paramore walks the line comfortably between these two groups, which is part of why their concerts are always so much fun: there are people who just started listening to them (thanks to singles like “Ain’t It Fun” and “Still Into You”), and people who have followed their journey all the way back since Riot!, and even All We Know Is Falling. No matter which side of the aisle you fall on, though, the level of energy at their live shows is undeniable. The pop punk band kicked off Friday night’s concert with “Hard Times,” the foot- stomping single off their newest album, After Laughter. From there they plunged straight through consecutive, roof-raising performances of hits like “Ignorance,” “Still Into You” and “Daydreaming.” The show never seemed to falter — Paramore has so many catchy songs from so many successful records that every opening chord progression seemed to throw the crowd into a frenzy. The band skated easily between their own songs, with equal enthusiasm for older hits like “That’s What You Get” as for newer ones like “Forgiveness” and “Brick By Boring Brick.” Hayley Williams herself was a force of inexorable energy. She strutted around the stage, flipped her hair and weight- lifted the microphone stand with one hand, all without losing the dynamic force of her vocal performance. The entire night, Williams commanded an intriguing and telling presence, in that the audience’s mood always felt mirrored to her own. When she was on her feet, jumping and shouting along to her own lyrics, so was everyone else; people cheered at the top of their lungs, and bouncy balls pinballed around the lower level of the theater. And when she settled back down momentarily to thank us for coming and to talk about her feelings, we settled, too. “This is one of those nights where it feels like you don’t know how this happened, it’s like it’s not deserved,” she said. “It feels like a really special night to talk about feelings.” There were a few intimate moments like this. Part of it came through the music itself — during slower songs like “26” and “Hate to See Your Heart Break,” audience members closed their eyes and swayed, waving the lights from their phones back and forth in the air. But a big part of it came from Williams herself; every sentence she uttered came off as truly genuine, and when she talked to the audience as one might a friend, she managed to make even The Fox’s huge venue seem intimate. When she spoke of the band’s appreciation for how far their fans have taken them since Riot!, one got the sense that she really was speaking from the heart. “I want you to close your eyes and imagine yourself ten years ago,” she said at one point. “Ten years ago, it was 2007 — that’s math — and it was a very different time, especially for good old bands like us. And we just so happened to put out our second record, it was called Riot!, that year, and we set out across the United States of America on the Warped Tour ... And it was beautiful because that year, we met so many of you. It was a big year for us.” By the time the show was over, there were plenty of fun moments to look back on: a cover of Fleetwood Mac’s “Everywhere,” the moment Paramore invited a fan onstage to sing the end of “Misery Business” and the fact that they dedicated the show, “like every show we play in Detroit,” to a fan named Papa Smurf who once gave Williams a pair of earrings in 2005. But what resonated perhaps the most was the band’s genuine effort to include the audience in the fun of the performance as much as they could. Williams closed out the encore by introducing the rest of the performers: Justin York, Logan McKenzie, Joe Mullen, Joey Howard, Taylor York and Zac Farro. “And all together, we represent something that’s bigger than each one of us alone,” she finished. “So who are we?” And when the audience shouted back, “We are Paramore!” it sounded as if, in that moment, everyone in the whole theater was telling the truth. LAURA DZUBAY Daily Arts Writer Paramore Fox Theater Friday, September 15 CONCERT REVIEW REPUBLIC In pursuit of self agency: ‘I and Love and You’ and me Whenever life starts to get a little too heavy and days start to feel a little too long, I have a propensity to lose sight of myself. My interests, my footing, my breath — they all just evaporate in this haze of, “Why does everything always have to happen at once?” It’s paralyzing, this feeling of being in a funk but also needing to conquer the world. It’s in these times, this time, that I often turn to a certain pair of brothers to pluck me out. Directed by Judd Apatow and Michael Bonfiglio, the documentary “May it Last: A Portrait of the Avett Brothers” trails the band during the making of their 2016 album True Sadness. It’ll hit HBO in early 2018, and it had a one- night-only showing on Tuesday, Sept. 12 at various theaters across the country. God bless the Michigan Theater for being one of them. The summer after I graduated from high school (I sincerely wish I could refer to a less cliché time in my life), I saw the Avett Brothers, an Americana group, live. Despite having seen half of their set at a festival in 2015, I wasn’t super into their music yet. But in this setting, at that particular point in my life, something shifted. I felt so out of control of my future that I just let their performance move me. I can’t say I went home that night and cried, because “cried” isn’t a strong enough word. I was weeping. That whole summer was full of hesitation, and it was an introduction to varying degrees of sadness and self-doubt that I hadn’t known before. Even with close friends, I had always felt a little out of place. My high school experience was somewhat unconventional, and there were moments when it got pretty lonely. When I listened — really listened — to the Avett Brothers that night, it was as if this whole new dimension of life just opened itself for me. Fearlessness, love, sorrow, heartbreak, freedom, agency — all of these feelings were just sitting there, waiting for me to claim them. They turned into possibilities and dreams and finally, thank whoever’s up there helping me out, I was awake for them. Now, almost a year and a half later, this documentary about the Brothers comes out. I know they don’t know me, and they didn’t know I needed them, but it’s really like they knew I needed them. The Avett Brothers are my reset button. Hearing their writing process and seeing the dynamic between Seth and Scott, I felt like myself again. From “Open Ended Life” from Magpie and the Dandelion, 2013: “I spent my whole life talking to convince everyone / That I was something else / And the part that kind of hurts / Is I think it finally worked.” These lyrics are poignant and eloquent on a level I can only ever hope to reach. I started to think of all these moments when I got hurt by vibrating on everyone else’s frequency but my own. It’s not worth it. I keep having this same revelation, and someday I hope it sticks (maybe that’s what my thirties are for). Until the time comes, I have this album to revisit whenever the chain tugs at me. My dear love, my aching pain, my loyal friend: “I and Love and You.” The Avett Brothers wreck me like no one else can, and this album, this song, these lyrics, are the epicenter of this. “Dumbed down and numbed by time and age / Your dreams to catch the world, the cage / The highway sets the traveler’s stage / All exits look the same / Three words that became hard to say / I and love and you.” I’ll repeat it over and over again until the world stops spinning: I and love and you. They’re lyrics that have grown with me and will eternally continue to do so. From big dreams, to baby dreams, to crushed dreams, this documentary fed me perspective, and it showed me how to breathe again — grateful and boundless. So, I’ll go. I’ll listen to “Head Full of Doubt / Road Full of Promise” and start living the visions I drum up when times gets hectic and I feel inadequate. I’ll listen to “Murder in the City” and remember my mom and how much I miss eating her food and watching “Gilmore Girls” together. I’ll listen to “True Sadness” and let myself experience pure moments of just that. I just listen, and my heart thanks me. ARYA NAIDU Daily Arts Writer COMMUNITY CULTURE NOTEBOOK “First They Killed My Father,” directed by Angelina Jolie (“By the Sea”) is one of the most heartbreaking movies of the year. Telling the autobiographical story of Loung Ung (who co-wrote the screenplay with Jolie and wrote the memoir upon which the film is based) and featuring an all-Cambodian cast, the film is an epic and disturbing recreation of one of the most horrifying events of the 20th century. Beginning in 1975, the film chronicles the story of Loung Ung and her family as they are forced to deal with an increasingly terrible series of events due to the rise of the communist regime of the Khmer Rouge. Fearing they will be targeted due to their family’s connections to the previous government, they flee to the countryside where they end up forced to work in a series of labor camps. The family is slowly torn apart as the genocide ramps up its terror. Films about genocide are tricky. With a personal investment in this story, Jolie fills every frame of the film with this sense of hopelessness and confusion that is as unnerving as it is compelling. The audience will find itself hard-pressed to look away as the atrocities begin to pile up and the sadness of the characters’s situation begins to hit home. The music by Marco Beltrami (“The Hurt Locker”) imbues the film with a sense of terror as well as a sense of scale. The scale of this film is stunning. Aerial shots of thousands of people walking convey the sheer number of people affected by the Cambodian genocide in a way that forces the audience to grapple with the subject matter , and realize what it would be like to be forced from your home and lose everyone and everything that ever mattered to you. This is not a happy film. It is not a film you watch to “enjoy” in any real sense of the word. It is a film that forces its audience to look inside themselves and ask why their country didn’t do anything, why their country should’ve done something and if either they or their country are doing anything now. There are terrible atrocities in the vein of the genocides of the 20th century being committed around the world today and by and large the western world is content to deal with its own problems and do nothing. In light of that, “First They Killed My Father” is not just an extremely important film but also extremely timely one. As extremist groups of all kinds continue to cause terror and fear all across the globe it is important now more thAn ever not to forget what happened in Cambodia in the ’70s. Americans did not pay any attention then. With “First They Killed My Father,” Jolie and Ung are doing their part to make sure that this time, they will. IAN HARRIS Daily Arts Writer NETFLIX ‘They Killed My Father’ proves disturbing & tragic “First They Killed My Father” Netflix FILM REVIEW FILM REVIEW