Opinion The Michigan Daily — michigandaily.com 4A — Monday, October 3, 2016 Open letter to the U of M community THE BLACK LEADERSHIP COUNCIL | OP-ED T o the University of Michigan Community: In light of recent events, both on and off campus, we are deeply disturbed by the hateful and blatant racism put forth by people who label themselves the alt-right. It troubles us that the individuals of the Black community at the University of Michigan targeted by these posters and flyers are not only being stereotyped by incorrect data, but are also being made to feel unvalued and unwelcomed on the University campus. We acknowledge the statements and appreciate the actions made by both the University and student activists on campus. We understand the University has not yet found the individual or individuals responsible for this cowardly act. However, we wish to bring attention to the fact that there is an alt-right blog that has used the University’s name in its title. Not only does this blog use phrases such as “harass,” “viscously attack” and “humiliate and destroy,” it also states that there is a potential Alt-Right Club at the University. While freedom of speech is important, all student organizations are required to adhere to the University’s Nondiscrimination Policy, which includes all online media, like blogs. We call upon the University to fulfill its obligations stated in the “Discrimination and Harassment Policy” and the University’s “Procedural Guidelines for Handling Discrimination and Harassment Complaints.” We request the University enforce its commitment to prevent and eliminate impermissible discrimination and harassment of students by conducting a formal investigation of the incident in accordance with the Procedural Guidelines; eliminating both the potential Alt-Right University of Michigan Club and corresponding online blog; monitoring posting walls, boards and other University advertising spaces daily; and formally condemning the alt- right as a hate group. While taking these actions would help in the short term, it is imperative to long-term and sustainable success that all members of the University community, whether they are students or staff, act in a way that is conducive to realizing the vision for “a campus environment where all students, faculty, and staff feel welcomed and valued. ...” as outlined in the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion plan. In order for this vision to be realized, our responses must transcend written statements and lead to concrete action. The issues and problems surrounding campus climate are too great for a single group to take on alone. As University President Mark Schlissel stated during the Black Student Union meeting on Sept. 29, it is necessary that we work together. While we desire to solve the issues surrounding campus climate, we recognize that a solution to such a large problem will take time. We need time to heal. We need time to listen to and receive input from all members of the Black community to understand what they need, not just what we think they need. Above all, we need time to not only discuss how we can work together to bring about change, but to also discuss what unity in the Black community looks like outside of tragedy and pain. Though we are leaders of various Black student organizations, we do not speak for the entire Black community; we speak so the members of the Black community know that their individual voices matter, that their individual lives matter. The Black Leadership Council at the University of Michigan. LAURA SCHINAGLE Managing Editor 420 Maynard St. Ann Arbor, MI 48109 tothedaily@michigandaily.com Edited and managed by students at the University of Michigan since 1890. SHOHAM GEVA Editor in Chief CLAIRE BRYAN and REGAN DETWILER Editorial Page Editors Unsigned editorials reflect the official position of the Daily’s Editorial Board. All other signed articles and illustrations represent solely the views of their authors. Carolyn Ayaub Claire Bryan Regan Detwiler Caitlin Heenan Jeremy Kaplan Ben Keller Minsoo Kim Payton Luokkala Kit Maher Madeline Nowicki Anna Polumbo-Levy Jason Rowland Lauren Schandevel Kevin Sweitzer Rebecca Tarnopol Ashley Tjhung Stephanie Trierweiler EDITORIAL BOARD MEMBERS I n perhaps one of the most memorable lines from the comical first presidential debate, candidate Hillary Clinton captured all of the qualms I have with Donald Trump: “Well, Donald, I know you live in your own reality, but that is not the facts.” If you didn’t watch the debate because of time constraints, I suggest finding an abridged version on YouTube and ramping up the speed to 1.5x (it actually helps Hillary’s incessant pausing). A word of advice: Try not to get frustrated by Trump’s repeated mansplaining. A PBS article cites 51 interruptions by Donald Trump, as opposed to 17 interruptions by Hillary Clinton. Watching the debate, I tried to not get distracted by the constant interruptions, the incessant raising of voices and the unprofessional digs. As a junior in the Ford School, I focused my attention to all mentions of policy. But something about the way Donald Trump speaks occupied my brainpower. Trump’s speech is so unverifiable that he has complete liberty to say whatever he wants. And that kind of explains his rhetoric, right? By using words such as “perhaps,” “probably,” “private,” “maybe,” etc., etc., Trump is able to say practically whatever fits the moment without anyone proving him wrong. Take, for example, the moment when Clinton pointed out the architect in the audience who was stiffed by Trump after designing a clubhouse. Trump’s only response was, “Maybe he didn’t do a good job and I was unsatisfied with his work.” See that? It’s not that Donald Trump admits he was unsatisfied and didn’t pay the man, it’s that there’s a possibility he maybe wasn’t satisfied. In other words, he shifts the accountability from himself to no one. And that’s a dangerous trait for a presidential nominee. Another example of Trump- talk occurs when he’s asked about birtherism and healing the racial divide. “I think I’ve developed very, very good relationships over the last little while with the African- American community,” he said. “I think you can see that.” The content of this quote perfectly captures Donald Trump’s dismal engagement with African-American voters and communities “over the last little while.” But let’s look at his style of delivery of these so-called facts: “I think I’ve developed,” “I think you can see that.” Once again, we hear Trump abstractly state a pseudo- fact. It’s not that he’s saying, “I have developed X and Y relationships, as a matter of fact.” Rather, he’s playing with minds of voters with his unverifiable Trump-talk. But why does this matter? I argue that speech and rhetoric forecast the nation we will live in for the next four or more years. So we, the American electorate, must ask ourselves: What kind of nation do we want to live in? Do we want to live in fear for the next four years, forced to hide behind walls, scared of foreign ideas and enemies? Do we want to monopolize on freedom, liberty and equality while erecting borders and barriers? Or would we rather break down walls, lend a helping hand to our neighbors and work together toward a brighter, more tolerant future? Until we stop pointing fingers at the “Others,” and realize that we are the Others, we will continue to divide ourselves. A wall works both ways, and so does divisive rhetoric. Let’s work as a nation to turn our pointed fingers into extended hands to help those around us. Secretary Clinton put it best in her Democratic National Convention speech when she said, “No one gets through life alone. We have to look out for each other and lift each other up.” With job-searching in full swing, I look to the future with one particular goal in mind. My goal is to establish and strengthen empathy in governments at home and abroad. Empathy, once nourished and grown in the hearts of people, has the power to mitigate conflict, cast away hate and establish love. Empathy gives us the ability to see ourselves in the eyes of our opponents and realize that we’re all not so different. We stand on a common ground, albeit sometimes opposite sides of that ground. But we learn to walk from birth so we can meet in the middle and compromise with our fellow humans. Empathy helps us, as President Obama said at the DNC, conduct a “contest of ideas that pushes our country forward.” In fact, empathy is at the heart of democracy. Now, empathy doesn’t call on people to hold hands, dance around the proverbial campfire and sing “Kumbaya.” Empathy helps us communicate our concerns in a productive manner so that the women and men we electcan find solutions. How can we expect our communities to stay safe, and our friends and families to be content in a supposed Union, if we can’t hear each other out long enough to come to a compromise? To quote The Rolling Stones, “You can’t always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, well you just might find, you get what you need.” So what do we need, America? Well, as I examine the two nominees, I conclude that they’re not running for the same position. No, in fact we have two offices up for grabs. While Secretary Clinton is running for the traditional office of the president of the United States of America, I believe Donald Trump has his eyes set on a new position: president of the Divided States of America. I call upon my fellow Americans to work toward union, not division. Exercise your right to vote and vote with empathy in mind. Remember, we are the Others. Come Nov. 8, I’ll be voting with my Muslim community’s slogan in mind: Love for All, Hatred for None. For a complete list of 24 student organization signees and additional references, visit michigandaily.com. CLARISSA DONELLY- DEROVEN I ’ve always had a morbid curiosity with stalking dead strangers on the internet. The first dead stranger I remember stalking was Anna Svidersky. Svidersky was a 17-year-old girl who lived in Vancouver, Wash., and was originally from a small town in Russia. She worked at a McDonald’s and was stabbed to death at work less than a week before her 18th birthday by a random schizophrenic man who was also a convicted sex offender. I found out about Svidersky’s murder during the summer of 2008 when I was 12 and had made a habit out of watching sad videos on YouTube, specifically videos set to Avril Lavigne background music — I was very moody. I watched as many slideshows of Svidersky set to pop-emo music as I could find. After that, I scoured her MySpace page and consumed unhealthy amounts of news stories about her murder. I don’t know why I still know so much about Anna Svidersky. It’s really weird, and it actually makes me feel sort of gross. But what’s even more unsettling is that I still do things like this: I have an informal list of dead people I don’t know whose Facebooks I go to when I’ve run out of live people to stalk. Looking at dead strangers’ Facebook pages feels like a kind of pseudo-coping: I use others’ tragedies in order to simulate my own sadness. But I don’t actually know the people, so I don’t actually care. It’s like poverty porn, only it’s others’-pain-and-suffering-in- order-to-give-myself-an-artificial- and-controlled-emotional- response-and-also-assuage-my- distasteful-curiosity porn. This strange (and potentially offensive) habit of mine probably has something to do with the strangeness of internet immortality. But it likely has more to do with me as a person and with my socialization in a culture that’s incredibly uncomfortable with non-ironic emotional expression. Emotional expressions make me feel awkward: crying in front of people, grieving, expressing gratitude, admiring beauty, admitting love, etc. Sometimes when I’m about to cry in public, in order to avoid it or to deflect attention away from myself I say — ironically, of course — that I’ve built a reputation for myself as someone who doesn’t outwardly express her emotions. Emotional expressions make me uncomfortable because I have a hard time “doing” my emotions in a way that feels honest. Usually it feels like an “Am I actually feeling this? Or am I just doing this because we have a greeting card industry and I watch a lot of TV and when everyone else performs this emotion it always looks like this?” sort of way. I’m thinking about all this because last Friday my really good friend had a stroke, and I’m having a hard time “processing.” Among other things, this friend and I have oddly built our relationship around this distaste for emotional expression. Neither of us are “huggers,” and usually instead of saying that someone hurt or upset us we say they’re “being a fuckhead.” We have an almost pathological aversion to sentiment, and I don’t think that makes us unique. In fact, I think an aversion to sentiment is actually a uniting factor for people our age in this specific cultural moment, and I think meme culture best exemplifies this. Memes are about heavy stuff: racism, sexism, breaking up with partners, feeling like you’re wasting your life, being overworked, underpaid and exhausted, etc. These are serious things that we have serious feelings about. But memes are also ironic. There’s no such thing as a serious meme — I mean there is, but it’s ironic about the fact that it’s serious. Memes take our emotions about heavy things, which at times can feel debilitating and all-encompassing and even embarrassing, and pairs them with a silly photo in order to make us laugh about our pain, in order to make the emotion digestible. The use of irony as a coping mechanism is nothing new, and it’s nothing that’s necessarily problematic. I like irony a lot of the time, but I worry that our use of irony has become too layered, that it’s become a totality: And by that I mean that we literally can’t say anything serious anymore. (Also, I’m not the first person to worry about this. Check out David Foster Wallace’s essay E Unibus Pluram: Television and U.S. Fiction.) When people say serious things, they (we) worry about sounding cliché. This is a hard thing to worry about because it’s mostly true: Almost everything that isn’t ironic can sound cliché. We have too many behavioral referents, too many cultural examples of people acting out this emotion and this situation for us to feel like we actually decided how we wanted to have and feel and show this emotion. So it feels phony and dishonest to say anything serious, even if you mean it, because you’re unable to articulate if you really feel this way and want to do this thing to express this emotion, or if you’re just doing it because that’s how you’ve seen it done before and how you feel like you’re supposed to do it. It’s a crisis of authenticity. It’s an alienation from the self where we don’t see ourselves as human individuals with agency, but rather subjects within an ideology that says feelings and sentiment are lame, and there’s no way to not be cliché except by being ironic. We see no other way out, so we oblige. Consuming dead strangers’ Facebook pages doesn’t require me to have serious emotions; in fact, I can list it off as an ironic activity I do when I’m asked about that sort of thing. But I think I use it as a way to prove to myself that I can do emotional expression, that I can privately, genuinely feel a thing and that it’s not all just a performance. But when an actual sad thing happens in my life, I don’t know what to do with all my feelings. I get stuck in a cycle of wondering if I actually feel this way or if I’m just performing my sadness this way because this is what it looks like when other people do it. So I don’t cry and I try to avoid talking about the fragility of human life. I say stupid things about meme culture and stalk dead strangers on Facebook. I get stuck in irony. My problem with emotional expression CLARISSA DONELLY-DEROVEN | COLUMN Clarissa Donnelly-DeRoven can be reached at cedon@umich.edu. Divided states of America IBRAHIM IJAZ | OP-ED Ibrahim Ijaz is a public policy junior. A s someone who firmly believes in the value of aid work and service to others, and providing I spent last summer working at a Buddhist nunnery where I performed intensive community- based inquiry to create comprehensive examples of good communication with local people as a means of improving the conduct of foreign aid groups, I have a few important words to share in response to one of my classmate’s critical remarks on the matter. My classmate described her thoughts about “two realms of protecting human rights” like this: On one hand, you have the people who are tending to the injuries that the system inflicts on disadvantaged groups. On the other, you have the real heroes that are actively working to dismantle the roots of oppression and suffering inlaid in the system. She continued saying if we want to end injustice, we must go straight to the root; all other ventures only serve to detract from this overall goal, and play a major role in perpetuating human suffering. But what I think is even more “harmful” than attending to the damage inflicted by systematic abuse is attempting to fragment the solidarity of social justice workers by asserting that one category of social justice work is fundamentally more valuable than another. The point is not to victimize aid workers for “ignoring the roots of suffering,” nor is it to create a moral chasm between two groups that are fighting for the same purpose, the same humanity. Systematic change is, of course, our main priority on the path to ending human suffering in all shapes and forms. I do not refute this fact. I dream of a world in which the systematic factors that cause voices to cry out for help are destroyed so there are no reasons to cry out for help in the first place. Unfortunately, it will be a long and arduous process to arrive at a political, economic and legal infrastructure that flawlessly eradicates all of the internal factors that fuel this endless stream of injustices against humanity. Let alone a system that functions within all worldly borders. My point: We must all cooperate on a united front. We need the whole range of social justice workers to drive the movement forward. As we actively work to disassemble the overarching structures that are the root causes of suffering, we must simultaneously serve and pay active attention to the victims of these structural abuses. What’s more, we must ensure this aid is lasting and effective. We cannot simply ignore the human suffering of today in the name of completely eradicating human suffering in the future. Instead of victimizing aid workers and charity organizations for providing pseudo-aid, we should focus on improving the framework of the humanitarian aid sector so its overall impact is quantifiably beneficial. Most importantly, we must scrap the aged method of self-directed, imperialistic-style foreign-aid projects and instead dive deep into perspectives of the actual victims of systematic injustice. The problem is not humanitarian aid by itself, but rather the rampant lack of diligence that plagues this sector. A significant example of this is what has been occurring in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. For more than a century, the country has been overwhelmed by regional conflict and a deadly struggle for its vast mineral resources. The hunger for Congo’s abundant natural resources has been a chief driver of brutalities and conflict throughout the country’s history. In eastern Congo today, these mineral resources are funding several armed groups, and these groups use mass gang rape as a methodical tactic to control local populations, thus securing control of mines and trading routes. Dr. Denis Mukwege, a renowned gynecological surgeon in Congo who has helped perform more than 30,000 free operations for women who have experienced gang rape and sexual violence, and Michael Ramsdell, a filmmaker and devoted advocate of ending the conflict mineral crisis in Congo, encompass exactly what it means to cooperate on a united front against gross human rights violations. Mukwege and Ramsdell have formed a publicly visible coalition, one that unites the treatment of abuse victims and the gradual dismantling of the contemporary structures that inflicted these injuries. This coalition furthers their common goal infinitely more than working against each other could ever achieve. This coalition attends to suffering in the present and the future. Seeking what connects us HANNA DOUGHERTY | OP-ED Hanna Dougherty is an LSA junior. michigandaily.com Read more online at