“Josh wanted to be a teacher, and he wanted to be a coach,” Eilender said.
“That’s what his mom is doing, trying to help kids, trying to save a single life.
That’s what shines through for me the most, because that’s what Josh would
have wanted.”
Buckner said though she certainly wasn’t obligated to publicize the manner
in which her son died, she felt compelled to.
“There was no question that I needed people to know what happened,
because it was so frightening to me,” Buckner said. “I had no clue that kids were
abusing adderall as a party drug. I did not know about this issue of co-ingestion.”
The message, whether it’s through the foundation’s work, the simple fact of
Levine’s death, or both, is having an effect. Levine’s friends approached Buckner
at his funeral to tell her that though they’d co-ingested previously, those days
were over.
Others didn’t have to say a thing — Buckner said she could tell just from the
look in their eyes. It also took her son’s death for Buckner to realize exactly the
type of person he was — as charitable and selfless as he was, he’s also remem-
bered for being charitable and selfless in the most understated way possible.
“I can’t tell you how many girls told me that he would walk them home at
night,” Buckner said. “That he would literally give them the coat off his back if
they needed it. To hear that those were the type of things that he was doing was
pretty breathtaking.
In the months before his death, Levine had worked as a substitute teachers
at West Bloomfield High School and had thoughts of becoming a credentialed
teacher.
“What happened to our family was cataclysmic.”
The cataclysm isn’t over. Barely a year has passed since Levine’s death, and
Buckner knows there’s still work to be done.
“When you walk around (Michigan’s campus) on a football Saturday, it’s just
unbelievable,” Buckner said. “Now the kids, I heard, will snort Adderall first
thing in the morning,” allowing them to drink unimpeded throughout the day.
This Saturday, and on hundreds of Saturdays in the years to come, students
will wake up early, and they’ll drink. Buckner isn’t much of a drinker herself.
She’s not thrilled about the alcohol — in and of itself, the binge drinking of alco-
hol alone is its own health issue, one that isn’t discussed enough on college cam-
puses across the country.
But if Buckner has her way, maybe — just maybe — they’ll stick to alcohol, and
have a plan to quit drinking while they still have their wits. She’s taking things
one step at a time.
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