40 OPINION Tuesday, June 19, 1984 Page 6 The Michigan Daily Ehe Et wan Badg Vol. XCIV, No. 19-S 94 Years of Editorial Freedom Managed and Edited by Students at The University of Michigan Editorials represent a majority opinion of the Daily Editorial Board Don't cry for me, Raul Alfonsin? PRESIDENT REAGAN says his admin- istration is committed to encouraging democracy in Latin America. In light. of an announcement last week by the U.S. Treasury Department, Argentina's President Raul Alfonsin could tell a different story. On Friday, the Treasury Department refused to give Argentina any more time to negotiate for a $300 million loan from the United States government. This breakdown in negotiations means that Argentina may well have to accept the harsh terms sought by the International Monetary Fund for the repayment of Argentina's enormous foreign debt. It was only last year that Alfonsin won an election which returned Argentina to civilian rule for the first time in eight years. Although Alfonsin is a popular president, the new Argentine concensus for a return to democracy is percarious. One of the greatest threats to the new government is the huge amount of money-much of it borrowed by the now-defunct Argentine military junta-owed to the IMF and to American banks. But the cutbacks in Argentine government spending sought by the IMF could so reduce the stan- dard of living and increase the dissension of interest groups in Argentina that the fragile concensus could evaporate. It is only natural, after President Reagan's considerable rhetoric on the virtues of Latin American democracy, that Argentina would turn to the United States for assistance in a moment of need.' Yet what the Argentines have found is an American government far more concerned with the interests of American banks and domestic budget deficits than with encouraging the continuation of a popularly elected government. The Reagan administration, the IMF, and the American banks are desperately trying to avoid an outright Argentine default on the loans, which could have disasterous con- sequences for the international banking com- munity. In working toward this goal, however, the administration is ignoring the real and substantial American interest in the success of the Alfonsin government. Allowing a debtor nation wide latitude in setting its own repayment schedule might set a bad precedent, but forcing the current Argentine government to its knees would be far worse. It would be better to err on the side of democracy. Wasserman NE SUMME COUQT I66Iewn -DTHE RULES A WELL-FOUNDEDF £AQ OF ? sE cUTION o (bLi TICAL E&GEC-S WH OWANT To TAY IN VOR COUNTRY IS NOT GNOUGH- N~THE U.S, (Y HAT kVMD OP EVIPNCE A NO 1TG oN WCOULD BE eNOv& a O WaDyCTATOD ad You 'ye comea long way, Dad 0 0 0 0 0 I. By William Beeman American fathers could just be the most exotic in the world, compared with their counterpar- ts in other countries. It may be difficult to think of the likes of Dagwood Bumstead, Willie Loman and Ward Cleaver as exotic. But compared with fathering roles in other societies, even these stereotyped fathers from American culture carry out enormously difficult, complex sets of tasks in their family relations. THE EXOTICISM of Americar fatherhood stems from the man3 different roles which fathers must play. In other societies, fathers' roles in the family are unidimensional, clear-cut and predefined. The American father in the 1980s, by contrast, must largely define his own role within the family, and he is unlikely to get help from any quarter in working out how he must behave. To compound this dilemma, he must fulfill more than one role for his wife and children-a problem not faced by his Japanese, Latin- American or European counter- parts. In some matrilineal societies, such as the Navajo Indians and many South Pacific peoples, the father is primarily a benign friend to his children, not a disciplinarian. First-line advice and control is exercised by the mother's brother. AMONG NATIVE Amazonian tribal peoples, the father takes on primary child care at an early age and fills many of the roles Americans think of as motherly. " In France, a man may acknowledge the children he has fathered by a woman to whom he is not married without regularizing his relationship with that mother, thus making his children aware that they are just the result of a sexual liasion. In some areas of Tibet and Nepal, children may have multiple fathers-mothers may marry more than one man at on- ce. ALL OF THESE varieties of fatherhood may seem exotic to Americans until we realize that' American fathers must in- creasingly fulfill all of the above roles in family life in order to be successful. It was after World War II that matters changed drastcally. Immigration, new social models, multiple wage- earners in the family and increased mobility for women and children were all new forces working to thrust fathers into utterly new and difficult pat- terns of expected behavior. Suddenly, as in matrilineal societies, fathers found them- selves having to be friends with their children. Psychologists told them that withour warm sup- pportive relationships, they would damage their children's mental health. LIKE AMAZONIAN fathers, many found that with working wives they had to take on many of the tasks of child care. In the last decade, the house husband. has emerged as a recognizable, if not always entirely welcome, category of father. Fathers also are having to come to terms with their sexual and emotional identities in marriage. With divorce rates now equaling marriage rates in many parts of the U.S., there of- ten is no other way to explain to children why a marriage is breaking up except that adults have sexual and emotional feelings which sometimes change. Finally, like Tibetian fathers, American men may have to share their children with one or more other men-husbands or boyfriends of their divorced wives. IN ADDITION, American fathers no longer are allowed to be remote and private. Modern men are expected to share their work problems, infirmities, financial woes and irrational fears with their families in a modern openness that would have made their grandfathers' blood curdle. Becoming an American father can be particularly wrenching for persons coming from societies where fathers' roles were more clear-cut. "My father was boss," claims an American college ad- ministrator who was born in Cuba. "Life was simple for him. He told us what todo, and we did it. Now my son is 15, and he is earning his own money. He is becoming independent, and I don't have any clear sense of how to relate to him." The result is an infinitely in- teresting challenge for some modern fathers, but for others enormous strain and confusion. Nevertheless, American society still is in formation. Most new fathering roles are viewed as change in a positive direction, despite the confusion they may produce. Immigration, social, and technological change-the forces affecting the institution of fatherhood today-are continuing unabated. Whatever fathers are today, we can be assured that their roles will become even more complex and interesting as we move into the 21st century. Beeman wrote this story for the Pacific News Service. He is an anthropologist who teaches it Brown University. 0