Page 6-Thursday, May 29, 1980-The Michigan Daily Mental health, life after death discussed by Dr. Kubler-Ross 4 I By JOYCE FRIEDEN There is no place in this country where people can go to look after their mental health, according to Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. "There are spas to look after your physical health,, and colleges to take care of the academic aspects, but there are few places people can go just to let out all their emotions," she said. Kubler-Ross, noted authority on death and dying, made her remarks yesterday during the second part of a two-day seminar on death and dying. Her talk was sponsored by the School of Nursing's Department of Continuing Education and was directed at nurses and nursing students. KUBLER-ROSS spoke on "Death of a Child" and mentioned that children are easier to talk with about death than adults. "Children are a thousand times easier to communicate with... they, say what they think in beautiful sym- bolic language," she said.. Kubler-Ross cited crayon drawings as one method by which children reveal what they know. She said that a "hospital artist" (one who draws pic- tures of body parts for operations) in England discovered that "when the children were given crayons and paper, their drawings told in what part of the body their illness was, whether they would go into remission or relapse, and how long they had to live." KUBLER-ROSS said that parental attitudes about death are often tran- sferred unconsciously to their children. "You may tell a child that people go to heaven (and are happy) when they die, but then when a friend or relative dies, you carry on like it was a great tragedy. The child won't believe what you say because your actions speak louder than your words," she said. "It is the adult's discomfort with death and a lack of motivation on the part of adults to ex- plain it to children that accounts for so many children who have lost faith in God and religion." Children with dying relatives should be allowed to visit them in the hospital no matter how the patient looks, Kubler-Ross said. "What the children imagine about what it's like in the hospital is far worse than anything they could see in real life," she said. "As long as you share the windstorms' (bad times) with love, your children won't be hurt by them - it will prepare them to live in the cold, hard world." Kubler-Ross also discussed life after death. "When you die, you become aware of everything that happens around you, including a shedding of your physical body," she said. "Nurses See KUBLER-ROSS, Page10 for \Nhatever jungle you're in . olive: s~ - drab-1 f_ {'knC SHARON LUNNE HANLEY of St. Croix, Virgin Islands, holds her diploma aloft yesterday after receiving it at graduation exercises at the U.S. Naval Academy. She was one of 55 women who became the first female graduates of the academy. First women military graduates honored By The Associated Press "AND WHEN they throw their hats Pentagon brass paid tribute yester- into the air and put that gold bar on day as more than 200 women became their collar, they will have earned just the first of their sex to graduate from as smart a salute and just as much the nation's three- top military respect as any other graduate." academies and pin on bars as officers in At West Point, 61 women and 809 men the Army, Navy, Air Force, and Marine graduated out of a class that started Corps. four years ago with 119 women and "They have met the test," said Adm. 1,361 men. One other woman will be Thomas Hayward, chief of naval commissioned in June, after summer operations, who was commencement school. speaker at the U.S. Naval Academy at The 178-year-old academy was Annapolis, Md. "They have driven rocked in 1976 by a major cheating themselves in an environment that was scandal and criticized a year later in a far more stress-filled than that endured Pentagon report for "resistance to by most of their male counterparts. change. . . and a lack of honor." Registration protested in downtown A2 peace vigil 4 4 (ContinuedfromPage3) the U.S. is becoming "more and more militaristic, jingoistic, and intolerant of other countries." Joseph Volk, president of -the American Friends Service Committee, urged listeners to write their legislators to indicate opposition to the registration plan. "We've never had registration very long before we've had a draft, and we've never had the draft long before we've had war," Volk said. "Draft registration is a totally un- necessary inventory of our 18- and 19- year-olds," said Tom Schumacher, spokesman for the Wesley Foundation. Schumacher stressed that conscription strikes people at a crucial point in their lives. Vietnam War draft counselor Suzan- ne Day said she decided to speak out against the draft registration plan based on her experiences and because she has two teenage children. "We slip- ped into Vietnam very quietly," she cautioned. Day suggested that a rethinking of the "Cold War Strategy" could solve U.S. political problems. 4 NtWSUMMtK GULKS NUW IN 25% off all MADEWELL FATIGUES TODAY and FRIDAY 4