The Michigan Daily - michigandaily.com Page 3A -Thursday, September 18, 2014 The Michigan Daily - michigandailycom Page 3A -Thursday, September18, 2014 be *idian 0atv Edited and managed by students at the University of Michigan since 1890. 420 Maynard St. Ann Arbor, MI 48109 tothedaily@michigandaily.com MEGAN MCDONALD PETER SHAHIN and DANIEL WANG KATIE BURKE EDITOR IN CHIEF EDITORIAL PAGE EDITORS MANAGING EDITOR Unsigned editorials reflect the official position of the Daily's editorial board. All other signed articles and illustrations represent solely the views of their authors. Defining the Michigan man n the wake of the Michigan men's basketball team's successful season last year, the news of both Mitch McGary's failed drug test and subsequent decision to leave for the NBA was startling. Failing they NCAA-administered drug test left McGary with a one-year suspension from play, and reportedly forced his hand in his decision to begin preparing for LAUREN a career in the NBA. MCCARTHY The University Athletic Department attempted to appeal the decision in early April, but was ultimately unsuccessful. Acornerstone ofthe Michiganbasketballteam, prominent leader and enormous personality was leaving campus - and the stpdents responded. Many defended McGary, claiming that the punishment did not fit the crime. It was argued that McGary had only smoked "just this once," and countless students and fans maintained that, nonetheless, McGary would forever in their eyes be considered a "Michigan Man". The definition of a "Michigan Man" is generally understood to be an upstanding, loyal and passionate individual; someone who is not only dedicated to the values of the University but who also embodies those virtues in his everyday actions. Bo Schembechler, the legendary Michigan football coach of 21 remarkable seasons, is universally regarded as a "Michigan Man" and remembered for his superior ethics. However, there are more "Michigan Men" out there who do not coach a sports team, and (sorry Bo)they hail from alloverthe country and planet. Too often is this term used to describe or commemorate the obvious candidates: the athletes who herald championships or the select few campus leaders who run Central Student Government. The University of Michigan has nea , 0,00 undergraduate students, more, than 15,000 graduate students, and yet for years on end those who often lead the discussion about who deserves to be categorized as a "Michigan Man" select from only a small pool of students when crowning whom they believe deserve to be categorized as "MichiganMen". I can't comfortably justify Mitch McGary as the epitome of a "Michigan Man", not when there are countless other students, alumni and faculty who are far more dedicated to the embodiment of true Michigan values. This campus is littered with unsung heroes and passionate leaders who deserve the recognition of the student body as well as student publications. They may not be lead scorers or team captains, and nonetheless the contributions they make to the University are oftentimes significantly more pertinent than almost winning a national championship. With a trend of personality journalism on the rise, many writers, publishers and producers are all too concerned with their own public image - trolling their social media sites and shamelessly promoting their articles or on-air appearances via their personal, online platforms. This industry is sliding into a worrisome environment of ownership, neglecting to focus on their subjects and their stories and too often inserting themselves into the discourse. In a community as expansively rich as this campus, I view it as wildly irresponsible not to invest the time and energy into seeking out the "Michigan Men"(and women) who I have heard of time and time again:the friend of a friend who has impacted many through his or her unfailing kindness and grace, the boyfriend of a sorority sister who started a revolutionary new student organization or the quiet classmate who subtly mentionstheir involvementin andutter devotion to social justice on campus. A "Michigan Man" (or woman) is an individual who is rooted in tradition, yet seeks innovation and strives for constant progress. He works within the rules, while also making the rules work for him. A "Michigan Man" takes full advantage of the opportunities provided by the Michigan community, while also lending a hand to those who may be less advantaged. A "Michigan Man" is intent on being a successful, well-educated and fair citizen who invests his time back into the betterment of the University. He takes pride in the institution as a whole, as well as his own personal accomplishments. A "Michigan Man" is a loyal, steadfast and true leader, who rises to the occasion and inspires others to do the same. Please assist me in finding these Michigan men and women on campus (students and faculty alike), and please e-mail me at laurmc@ umich.edu with suggestions. - LaurenMcCarthy can be reached at laurmc@umich.edu. HEMA KARUNAKARAM I T, There's half a tube of Fair and Lovely in the bottom drawer of my bathroom. I haven't used it in years, but I can't bring myself to throw it out. Scattered elsewhere among the drawersaretubesofFaireverMantra, Vicco Turmeric Fairness Cream, and Himalaya Fairness Cream, all in various states of usage. Part of me hates that I've used these products. I should be above all these superficial notions about ideal complexion by now. But part of me clings to them - clings to the insecurity I've had since I was a little girl about the color of my skin, clings to my subsequent obsession with lightening my skin and changing people's perceptions of me. I am Indian-American, and I am dark-skinned. To be specific, I'm closest to HTML color #A0522D, or what I call a "dull mocha." They say it's genetic; but save for my maternal grandfather, I'm the darkest person on both sides of my family. So? It's just the color of my skin - it's not who Iam. Or at least it shouldn't be. The societal preference for light skin is no new phenomenon in India. Billboards promoting fair skin are embellished with the face of actress Katrina Kaif - who is in fact half white. Commercials feature girls who've used fairness creams getting movie offers from the likes of noted director Rakesh Roshan. Matrimonial ads ubiquitously seek women who are not just smart and talented, but, more importantly, fair-skinned. These unrealistic expectations and their effects on the self-esteem of women in India has been well documented and frequently discussed. But the bias toward light skin isn't confined to India. It's traveled across the world to Indian-Americans as well, and has followed me for the 19 years I've lived in the U.S. This isn't a subject I generally feel comfortable discussing because it seems ridiculous that such notions persist in a country as diverse as the U.S. For all the education and awareness about equality found in America, Indian-Americans seem, too often, to still harbor this preference for the fair-skinned., Indians in America are proud to treat other races with respect, but they often overlook - or in fact perpetuate - the bias that occurs in our own community. Sure, there are plenty of Indian-American youths who proudly decry Fair and Lovely ads and eagerly support looking past skin color. But there are also obvious, unforgettable instances in which I'm reminded of how being dark is a bad thing. I have been told to my face, here in America, that some people will never find me attractive because my skin is too dark.,I have heard with my own ears, here in America, that character is the most important factor in assessing a potential Indian groom, but a potential Indian bride must first and foremost be fair- skinned, and therefore beautiful. I have seen people right in front of me, here in America, judge afair-skinned Indian as likely more intelligent and successful than a dark-skinned one. All the self-esteem promotion out there is great to see, to hear, to nod at - but it's not helpful in a world where people are still judged by their complexion. Young girls are repeatedly told not to idolize what they see in the media, because "no one actually looks like that." To that end, I don't think I've ever wanted to look like Katrina Kaif or Kareena Kapoor or any other fair-skinned Bollywood celebrity. My insecurity comes from frequently, being surrounded by Indian-Americans who are lighter than me and keenly being made aware of that fact. And thus I keep wishing I look more like my fairer peers. Because my skin isn't glowing against the lights like everyone else's when I'm on stage. Because I'm the least visible person in that picture taken outside at night. Because I can't borrow my friend's makeup, whose colors wouldn't suit me. These are simply facts that naturally arise from differences in complexion, but I've been brainwashed to repeatedly look at them in a negative light. When someone calls me "dark," I take it as an insult. The problem, I tell myself, isn't what they've said - it's my reaction. I reassure myself with the copious amounts of research I've done, almost obsessively, on, the science of complexion (jn short: you, Jncomfortable can darken your skin, but you can't lightenit). Ilookinthemirrorandtry to accept myself for who I am. And then I hear a joke the next day about me looking "dull" or "invisible." Cue the incessant water consumption, the herbal remedies, the salon face bleaching, and the use of one of those tubes from my drawers for another week or two. I know I'm so much more than the color of my skin, but somehow that one trait has become one of my primary identifying features over the years - and it's stuck as something wrong with myself that I can never change. I have dark brown eyes, black hair, long fingers, a birthmark above my left knee, and, medium- dark brown skin. That's what I look like, but it doesn't define me. I'm a student, a leader, a dancer, a writer, a musician, a daughter and a friend. That's what defines me, and that's who I hope people accept me as. But reality is not so simple. No amount of writing, discussing, or convincing will likely make me truly comfortable in my own skin. So for now I turn to the new Himalaya Clarifying Fairness Face Wash on my desk I bought yesterday, knowing fully well that it won't do anything for my complexion, but hoping anyway. Author's note: This piece has been nearly three years in the making, but it still rings just as true today as it was when I first wrote it. I had the opportunity to present a version of this piece at this year's Yoni Ki Baat monologue show - a big step in the long journey toward my self-acceptance. Finally, I am ready to take a giant leap, to be vulnerable in front of the largest audience in the world: the Internet. Although emotions may evolve over time, these words have an impact on me every time I read over them - reminding me that no matter where we go and no matter how we change, we carry our experiences forever in our back pockets. Michigan in Color is the Daily's opinion section designated asa space for and by students of color at the University of Michigan. To contribute your voice or find out more about MiC, e-mail michiganincolor@umich.edu. EDITORIAL BOARD MEMBERS Barry Belmont, David Harris, Rachel John, Nivedita Karki, Jacob Karafa, Jordyn Kay, Aarica Marsh, Megan McDonald, Victoria Noble, Melissa Scholke, Michael Schramm, Matthew Seligman, Paul Sherman, Allison Raeck, Linh Vu, Meher Walia, Mary Kate Winn, Daniel Wang, Derek Wolfe The power of place LINDSEY LAIRD I Arts as a means for womens issues In my opinion, art can be an extremely accessible, sensitive and diverse medium. If we are looking in the right places, we can find voices in art that are not typically included in mainstream discussions. One of these is the voice one of women, specifically women from other parts of the world that are operating under different cultural and social norms. The first artistI'mbringingto the forefront is Amanda Heng. Heng is a contemporary artist currently living in Singapore. Her exhibit seen above is entitled "Missing." The picture isn't incredibly clear, but the work is a collection of white paper mkch6 dresses in a black room. Heng created this piece as a memorial for the female victims of infanticide. Female infanticide is the killing of a female child before her first birthday. Selective female fetus abortion is considered female infanticide since it represents the same desire. Currently, female infanticide is a prominent phenomenon in places such as China, India, Taiwan, Korea, Bangladesh, Nepal and Pakistan. Though sex-selective abortion is illegal in most places worldwide, it remains a significant issue in countries where the rejection of females and desire for male children is deeply rooted in the cultural fabric. One source of this desire for male children is patrilocality, which is practiced in many of these countries. Patrilocality is the custom by which a woman leaves her birth family to join her husband's upon marriage. This allows sons to care for their aging parents while daughters aren't able to offer this security net to their family. Dowry payments upon a daughter's marriage are another custom that causes strain (though this time economic) on families with daughters. Additionally, the one child policy announced . in 1978 in China has drastically increased the number of female infanticide victims. With the possibility, nowadays, to determine the sex of a fetus prior to birth, sex-selective abortion is the most common form of female infanticide. Female infanticide offers us another lens through which to view the common Western and American feminist debate on abortion rights. If one were to enter into a discussion with a feminist living in one of the aforementioned societies,theirstanceonabortionwould probably be influenced by the prevalence of female infanticide. While notwantingto speak forthese women, I speculate that they wouldn't be as fervent in their advocacy for cheap, widespread access to abortion. Obviously, I'm not suggesting a regression of the progress the pro-choice movement has (or hasn't...) made in America and other countries. I'm simply suggesting that Western pro-choice movements are limited to their own cultural circumstances. Because of this, I'm advocating for us to incorporate into our stance on abortion the very real, yet different realitiesofwomenlivinginsocietiesandcultures thatplace greater importance onmale children You may be wondering why it is important for us to have these cultural sensitivities when thinking about issues such as abortion in the United States. For one, we need to recognize that our (America's/the West's) actions often have far-reaching consequences throughout the global realm. This, in and of itself, may be a problembut is often still the case nonetheless. As anexample, one can clearlyseethe influence of the West even in the origins of feminism in China in the late 19th and early 20th. Liang Qichao's 1897 essay entitled "On Women's Education" makes it very clear that much of the early thoughts on and progress made for women in China had to do with the West's approach to similar issues. An excerpt from his essay states, "If we were to have a small schoolboy from the West walk side by side with our majestic and aged official-scholars, the boy's varied knowledge and ambitions would certainly exhibit features with which our scholars could not compete" (Liu 194). This quote shows how Chinese scholars of this erawerebothcompetingwithandtryingtomimic the West. (For more essays and information on the beginnings of Chinese feminism reference "The Birth of Chinese Feminism" cited below). This pattern of influence is one to be cautious of even in the 21st century. Secondly, it's obviously important for us, as students and scholars, to broaden our knowledge of women's issues globally. This will only strengthen our own feminist movements and studies at home aswe attempt to take a more nuanced and culturally aware approach to issues such as abortion. - Lindsay Laird can be reached at lairdlk@umich.edu. n an intellectual sense, the University isn't lying when it boasts about diversity on campus. The sheer number of academic programs t available puts w even Harvard - sorry, the Michigan of ERIC the East - to FERGUSON shame, and creates a vibrant body of students with unique backgrounds and differing viewpoints. The University has its share of excitement as well - it has attracted President Barack Obama here three times since 2010, and a century-old obsession with football turns campus into a madhouse on a regular basis. All of this and more makes this town the most interesting place to live in (and, somehow, the second- best city in the United States for dating. Go figure). But Ann Arbor isn't always the best place to be for four full academic years. Study abroad and away programs provide unique opportunities to learn, intern, use language skills and mature on a personal level. These places offer students of all.majors new opportunities and a different brand of excitement than the norm, and thanks to copious amounts of scholarship funding, they have become increasingly accessible to students in recent years. In other words, all of us at Michigan face a question: If not Ann Arbor, where? For this American politics and international relations- obsessed Public' Policy major, Washington, D.C. was the only answer. I spent last winter taking classes and interning there through the Michigan in Washington Program, and it was the Holy Grail of off-campus undergraduate experiences. The work experience was interesting and useful, the classes were unique, and living in the heart of D.C. afforded me some of the best access I may ever get to its attractions - from congressional hearings and rallies on the Hill to events hosted by institutions such as the Bipartisan Policy Center and the Atlantic Council. It's hard to find flaws in the city to which you intend to move after graduation, but D.C. doesn't have the kinds of spaces good for thinking, reflectingand working without interruption that are spread all over the University's campus. The tradeoffs, though, more than made up for that particular weak point. In addition to the seats of all three branches of government, famed and historic landmarks like the Lincoln Memorial, the Smithsonian's National Air and Space Museum and the National Mall were all accessible on a whim. And in all of their fame and history, these places within a placechanged me in ways no internship, book or Mason Hall class could have possibly done. Let me give you an example. One frigid Thursday night late last January, my roommate and I decided to brave the cold and go down to the western end of the Mall. The city was nearly as dead at 11 p.m. as Ann Arbor usually is at 4 a m., and seemed about as safe. We made our way through the city, down past the long Reflecting Pool and to the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. It was my roommate's first time there, and he listened to Martin Luther King, Jr.'s "I Have A Dream" speech while standing where he once stood - a fitting act for a future civil rights lawyer. Afterwards, we moved on to what I wanted to see for the first time: the Vietnam Veterans Memorial. Few places in D.C., Ann Arbor or elsewhere compare to this, and entering it that night was one of the most powerful experiences I have ever had. As my roommate and I started walking along the Memorial Wall, it rose from just 8 inches to over 10 feet tall - the height of one American soldier's name to several, to dozens and then scores of names etched into a sober sea of burnished black granite. It immersed us in the memories of those lost in a war overwhelmingly rejected by a generation of college students, for whom conscription rendered it far too close to home. Even now, back home in Ann Arbor at last for a little while longer, it lingers in my mind as both a memorial and a reminder of how devastating governmental failure can be for nations at war. That night, those thousands of names seared the human costs of war into my mind in a new and very permanent way. I am a better person for it, and will (I hope) make a better policymaker someday as a result of that experience and my time in D.C. That place is my answer. What's yours? - Eric Ferguson can be reached at ericff@umich.edu. 0 A 0