2B - Thursday, February 13, 2014 The Michigan Daily - michigandaily.com 2B - Thursday, February 13, 2014 The Michigan Daily - michigandailycom Looking into Pride Night at Necto baked.buzzed.bored. In this series, three Daily Arts writers in varying states of mind visit the same place and write about their experiences. this week's destination: Sochi Olympics Opening Ceremony We found love in a safer place - the famed A2nightclub, By NATALIE GADBOIS Senior Arts Editor We're all familiar with straight spaces, even if we don't know the term. The frat par- ties, where a combination of Heaven Hill and Drake creates the assumption that any boy can grind up against any girl. College bars, where ladies pay half price for shots on Thurs- day nights, the owners finding ways to make girls "loose," and ways to entice the men to show up. House parties, social circles and even classrooms; so many function under the assumption that unless you say otherwise, you're straight, and that's that. These pervasive straight spaces are what made the idea of spending a Friday at Pride Night at Necto nightclub all the more intriguing - and, to be honest, a little disconcert- ing. The getting ready process was the same - dashing on make-up, confirming with my roommate that my outfit was the perfect combination of cute and edgy, consuming fiery substances from chipped Costa Rican shot glasses - but the destination was so differ- ent from what I knew. Pride Night was started in 1984 and has remained .a nightlife fixture in the gay community in Ann Arbor since then, voted multiple times as the best gay club in the Metro Detroitarea. The large club, located on East Liberty, has two dance rooms, both with live DJs, with the famous Red Room downstairs playing ret- ro-pop hits with accompany- ing videos - mainly Beyonci and '80s dance-pop the night I was there. The crowd is filled with closely dancing couples, the gender composition more heavily male than any party I had ever been to before. Both rooms feature accessible stag- es and stripper poles, which guests are encouraged to hop on to. Necto touts itself as the place to be on a Friday night for the gay community, an association that comes with some complexities and some questions. How do you define a safe space for gays? And once defined, how do you success- fully construct that space? LSA junior Schuyler Robin- son believes that a "gay space" is "a place kind of free of judg- ment, because as gay people we sometimes deal with stig- ma and feel judged solely by being ourselves." Robinson argues that while Necto is a fun place, some- where to dance and let loose, it isn't the inclusive safe space it can be represented as. He has seen straight female friends be harassed and targeted with language that discriminates them just as props for their gay friends. In an effort to clas- sify Pride Night as a common ground for the gay community, sometimes other identities can become marginalized. "Because people feel so comfortable and so non-tar- geted, they almost feel like their words aren't account- able," Robinson said. "Because they are in their space, they are not the minority there." Similarly, LSA senior Tay- lor Portela, a volunteer at the Spectrum Center, agrees that Necto is the best place to go dance, but is wary to define it as a safe space. "Necto is a beautiful, ter- rifying place," Portela said. "It is a gay space, but at the same time it's a gay space with a twist, so when I bring women of any orientation and identity they still are actively harassed." Portela defines the distinc- tion between a gay space and a queer space, holding that gay spaces are often dominated by gay white males, while queer spaces are more inclusive of women and racial minorities. Pride Night, he argues, is dis- tinctly a gay space - an unfor- tunate limitation for the club. "At Necto there are just a ton of white cisgenders; gay white men, dancing and doing their thing - which is fine. It's good. I mean, I am one of them," Portela said. "But at the same time my friends of color get harassed, women get harassed ..." Neither Portela nor Robin- son believes that Necto nec- essarily promotes healthy connections in a way safe spaces ought to. The pound- ing music and dark rooms make conversation difficult, so the club becomes marked as the hookup place - though he's gone many nights, Robin- son can't recall ever making a real friend or fostering a rela- tionship with someone he met at Necto. "You walk in (and) there's music, its dark - it's not so conducive to welcoming peo- ple." "It's like the gay version of Rick's," Portela said. Rick's: an Ann Arbor bas- tion of drunken hookups and texts-from-last-night anecdotes. But is it problem- atic when the predominant nighttime gay space in Ann Arbor promotes that culture? Though they reiterate that Necto is a fun space (a state- ment I agree with entirely), at times its frenetic, hyper-sex- ualized atmosphere can per- petuate limiting stereotypes about the gay community. "(Necto) feeds into the ste- reotype that gay people are obsessed with bodies, about putting out a good self-image rather than trying to connect with someone," Robinson said. Portela affirms this, but doesn't think this depiction of gay culture is wholly nega- tive. "Gay culture is very much built around some stereo- types, yes, but part of gay cul- ture - gay white male culture - is having song-tunes and Whitney Houston playing in the background, the'80s synth pop blast really loud," he said. "While (Necto) is affirming of some stereotypes, it points toward a larger gay culture, like the club culture that is in this atmosphere." Both men were excited about the opening of a new gay night in town, Candy Bar, located at Live Nightclub. The event premiered last Thurs- day, and Robinson and Portela each hailed it as a more inclu- sive but still fun environment. On opening night, Candy Bar had ahost and DJs, and featured a drag queen performance from former contestants on the real- ity show "RuPaul's Drag Race." "(Candy Bar is a) much bet- ter space, because at Necto you can't hear anyone, so I think people can connect more and get to know each other better at that space," Robinson said. "And it was really fun. The DJ played great music, all the atti- tudes just seemed much more positive." Though Candy Bar only hosted its inaugural night a week ago, Portela finds the combination of this event with Necto to be promising for Ann Arbor's gay and queer commu- nity. "I really like the set up of Live, so that was, atmosphere- wise, very enjoyable," Portela said. "(It's) a really nice space because it was people of more than just one or two identi- ties who filled the space, and I didn't hear afterwards of any real threatening or harassment going on." With the induction of Candy Bar, Ann Arbor is growing as a destination for gay nightlife scenes, a relief for students who currently feel limited in predominantly straight spac- es. However, the complexity behind Necto proves that just the construction of a gay space is not enough - an inclusive environment comes from the clientele and the set up of the space itself. But wherever you choose to go, it's Friday night, it's -20 degrees out, and every- one just wants to have fun. 0 I refuse to believe Russia actually looks like this. I also refuse to believe that we're "bobsledding past these tragedies," Bob Costas. This floating girl is horrifying. Why does that balloon have eyes? Fuck Putin Free Pussy Riot. Matt Lauer's beard looks like chaotic pubes. Putin looks constipated. The people who dress like lights who dress like the flag are freaking me out. Why are these so long? Cool blue dress it's not like you blend into the floor or anything. This is really overwhelming. I'm really tired right now and I want to nap but no space is available to lay down. Lie down? Become horizontal. The ceremony is getting kind of shitty. Wait they're skating. Nevermind, great job. This is still real- ly stressing me out. MATT LAUER SHUT UP ABOUT BREAKFAST. Goodnight from Russia. -DAILYARTS WRITER Matt Lauer always brings us down. The actual Matt Lauer, not the nickname one. So far we've seen a white horse, some creepy people dressed in colored light suits, like that movie with Olivia Wilde when they went to a different techno world. I Googled it, that movie was called TRON. Then all of the countries come out. Germany is like a rainbow Care Bear. My friend Aaron Carter can't stop laughing every time the word Russia is spoken. That's concerning. Alec has been quiet for 45 minutes. That's uncomfortable. Putin is so angry cause the fifth ring didn't open. Bob Costas is telling me that Putin is in total control. I believe him. Throughout there is a little girl who keeps floating, and I wonder about her past. She makes me sad. There were some bouncy castles shaped like mosques for a while, but I was eating my first Pizza Bob's chipati, so I was distracted. We fast-forwarded because this is boring and Alec and Aaron are about to fall asleep. Now these women have jelly fish on their heads, and the music from Harry Potter is playing in the background. Or from "Black Swan." I don't know. That's my consensus on this opening cer- emony. I just don't know. But Meredith Vieira is going to give me the answers after the commercial break. Take home: Matt Lauer is a breakfast whore. Goodnight from Russia. -DAILYARTS WRITER As Aaron Carter and I arrive at Hilary Duff's apartment, it's clear we are all in for an interesting night. After spending a longer than necessary amount of time choosing a restaurant to order dinner from, and lamenting over the fact that Arts Editor @NotAkshaySeth will in fact not be joining us, we get down to business. With a wine glass in hand, Hilary looks on as Aaron gets in the right "state of mind" for his portion of the assignment. Now, with everyone ready, it's time to watch the Olympics opening ceremony. The first sequence, complete with sweeping landscape shots and beautiful scenery, confuses each of us in distinct ways. As Aaron puts it, "this is definitely not what Russia looks like." As the ceremony presses on, nothing can compare to our Pizza Bob's chipatis. In Hilary's words, it was the best thing she's ever eaten. As we continue to chow down, Meredith Vieira's clear animosity towards Sochi was the only thing we could talk about. No disrespect to Matt Lauer or the stunning visuals orchestrated by some of Russia's top talents, but Meredith's consistently passive aggressive commen- tary overshadowed anything else that happened on NBC - at least for these three drunk, sober and high students. It's really the only thing I'll remember when this is all over. And with that, I'll bid you a goodbye from Russia. - ALEC STERN FOLLOW US. WE HAVE AN ACCOUNT ON THE TWITTER MACHINE. @MICHIGANDAILY TRAILER REVIEW EPISODE REVIEW Here's what LA Weekly has to say about Jonathan Glazer, director of "Under The Skin": "We may finally have an heir to Kubrick." Under That's a Compli- the Skin ment with A24 a capital C. Out in April, "Under The Skin" looks intensely unnerving with a sort of slow horror that's heavy on creepy imagery, including dark waters and close-ups of Scarlett Johans- son's lips. Johansson ("Her") stars as an alien sent by an unknown organization to prey on lonely hitchhikers through seduc- tion, but the film doesn't seem to just be horror. It's hard to pin down its genre, because the trailer shows very little regarding the plot. It seems to engage itself in a challenge to show After its lukewarm premiere last month, "House of Lies" has been on a fast, furious andfunny course cor- rection. Following the red- House of hot fourth season of Lies "Shame- "Soldier' less," "House of Showtime Lies" is a perfectly on-brand comedy - Showtime's smartest and best half-hour offering. Its latestepisode, "Sol- diers," was a welcome return to form, promising a bright future A24 aswe hit the midseason mark. the current trend of trailers Perhaps no episode of giving away as much plot as "House of Lies" showcased possible - so much that we the strange, amiable antics of often feel as if we've already Doug (Josh Lawson, "Romanti- seen the entire movie after cally Challenged") better than watchiig the preview. For "Soldiers." Alongside recurring "Under The Skin," our sole guest star Jenny Slate ("Kroll takeaway is a deep, in-the-gut Show"), Lawson was laugh-out- sense of dread and unease. loud funny, even overshadow- -KAREN YUAN ing his formidable costars Don a series of images each eerier than the last. There are hints of romance, sci-fi thriller and even drama, all wrapped up in an art-house package. Though we may not understand the storyline, "Under The Skin" 's trailer is a refreshing break from Cheadle ("Iron Man 3") and Kristen Bell ("Frozen"). "Soldiers" takes Kaan and Associates out of the office and onto the golf course, as they work to break up the moguls of a profitable clothing company. Elsewhere, Clyde (Ben Schwartz, "Parks and Recreation") enlists the help of a former flame (Eliza Coupe, "Happy Endings") to get back in Marty Kaan's good graces. It's the first episode of a major arc for Coupe, whose three seasons on ABC's "Happy Endings" SHOWTIME solidified her status as a top-tier sitcom actress. Clyde's move also brings us another step closer to reuniting all four leads after their surprising, tumultu- ous breakup in last year's finale. Whereas the future of "House of Lies" seemed shaky after its so-so season opener, the comedy is back on solid footing in "Soldiers." In fact, with its authentic drama, intel- ligent storytelling and frequent laughs, "House of Lies"has never been so good. -ALEC STERN