The Michigan Daily - michigandailycom Tuesday, February 18, 2014 - 7 JOHNS. CHRISTENSEN/JasperSailfin Photography JOHN S. CHRISTENSEN/Jasper Sailfin PHOTOGRAPH Marshall first heard of his father's death from his cousin Aaron. Incoming recruit Lawrence Marshall suffered the tragedy of losing his father and grandfather in the two months before his senior season in high school. By JASON RUBINSTEIN Daily Sports Writer awrence Marshall woke up on July 13, 2013 ready to fulfill his high school community service requirement., The Michigan football commit spent many of his sumner days doing just that. This time he noticed some- thing peculiar: a man in the park he was cleaning was wearing an Omega Psi Phi shirt - the same fraternity his father, Lawrence Marshall Sr., had been a part of. The 6-foot-4, 240-pound defensive end couldn't get that image out of his head. Throughout the day, he kept thinking about his father. Not for any particular reason, but even in the most mundane of times, he returned to that image. After completing his service, Marshall went to a family cookout at his uncle's house. Several of his friends and closest family members would be there, though his father never planned on not attending. As soon as Marshall got to the barbeque he thought of the same omega symbol. He couldn't get his father out of his head. He didn't know why. The image lingered and lingered. That's when his phone rang. Marshall didn't know what to feel. "That was the worst day ever. It was so hard. It was one of the worst days I've ever had," Marshall said. People coming to the party looked at him with a peculiar face. His friends were joking with him, saying, "Lawrence, you mad your girlfriend broke up with you or something?" But he wasn't saying a word. After the initial shock had died down, Marshall asked his grandma to take him home, and in the car, he finally broke the devastating news. He couldn't muster the strength to go back to the barbeque even to tell his mom - his grandma had to do the painful task. Lawrence Sr. had shaped Marshall. He was the one who introduced Marshall to football and made him stick with it. He was the one who helped keep him disciplined inside the classroom and out. But he was gone now Marshall didn't know what to do. Aaron was out of town, but he was on the next flight home. "It was hard on him, as it would be on anybody," Aaron said. "It was hard for me not to be there for him, but in a way he needed to deal with it on his Own.I "It was good his father ... Lawrence has seen alot." ess than two months later, Marshall's wounds reopened. This time his grandmother had called arshall had always his mom at 5:30 a.m. urging been one of the best Marshall and his mom torush to -WL.football players in the hospital. the area. His talent and work Marshall's grandfather had ethic comes from his father, who always had a history of being in always pushed him to play and and out of the hospital. It wasn't allowed Marshall's older broth- out of the ordinary for him tobe ers and cousins tobe relentless there. This time, though, it had a with him when playing. sense of urgency. Lawrence Sr. knew his son Marshall and his mom rushed would get beaten up but also to the hospital and found his knew it would benefit him in the grandfather lying in a bed, long run. And it clearly did. receiving The one con- CPR. He had stant through- just suffered a out Marshall's heart attack. "He's playig football The doctors 1 career was asked the Mar- for not only now gone. He shalls, what .f never played they wanted to himself, but for a game with- do. They could h £ 1 out his father either let the his family. or grandfather doctors con- watching. tinue attend- Football has ing to him, or always been an allow him to try and recover on escape for Marshall. And it was his own, hoping for a miracle. only fitting that just days after Marshall's grandma had elected his grandfather's death, South- for the latter - she didn't want field High School would be play- her husband to suffer anymore. ing state power, rival Detroit After the decision, the doctors Cass Tech in the season opener. allowed the family to enter the Moments before the game, room. Marshall stood by his Marshall, who wore an R.IP. grandfather's side, grasping patch under his eye, looked up his hand. He was watching the into the sky and asked his father electrocardiographic heart and grandfather to look over monitor beep and beep. Things him. seemed normal for a second. Southfield ended LIp losing But then Marshall witnessed the battle, 17-16, but Marshall a second tragedy right in front of felt relieved. He felt, despite the him - he watched the machine loss, his loved ones were looking go flatline. over him and were proud of the "I just saw someone next effort he put in. to me die," Marshall said. "I It reflected in his play was thinking 'What else could throughout the year. Marshall happen to me?'" completed his senior season Added Aaron: "He said it was with 68 tackles, eight sacks, one of the toughest things he 18 quarterback hurries, three ever did, because he was there forced fumbles, a fumble when they actually pulled the recovery and a safety. plug. For a 17-year old kid to see "If you watch him on the that right after having to bury football field and throughout life, he has that kin his shoulder, unde it's bigger than h said. "He's playing himself, but for his f keep the legacy goit Added Marshall: a lot of weight this I got way better wi and more explosiv mark on the QB. La I hit the QB, he jus sacked. When I hit year, he either fum or something happe Something happe Marshall was pla father. He was pla grandfather. HeN because football together. fter Marshal successful se question his commitment to P were growing. Mars committed to Michi 11, 2013, well before the Wolverines' season. Michigan went 7-6 and was struggling to hold other committed recruits, while in-state rival Michigan State won the Rose Bowl. After all, Marshall had decommitted from once before. The d decoittitted from February less than giving Urban Meyec "I was in Urban N and he was showin rings," Marshall sai The rings were Marshall to commi But behind the urg to consider other d of chip on see what other schools had to rstands that offer, the shine of bling soon tim," Aaron started to fade. for not only The loyalty of the Michigan family and to staff gave Marshall a new ng." perspective on recruiting. "I picked up He wanted more of a family season, and atmosphere, and that's exactly th my hands what the Wolverines offered. e. I left a Michigan coach Brady Hoke st year when and other staff members made t fell and got sure to do anything to help t the QB this Marshall get through his fam- bled the ball ily emergencies. The coach- ned." ing staff attended the funerals tned because and did everything they could ying for his to keep Marshall's outlook .ying for his positive. The lackluster sea- was playing son didn't matter to Marshall kept them because a homely feeling meant everything to him. "Michigan had my back: That's why I stayed committed," Marshall said. "Though they 11's had a bad season, their loyalty to enior season, me was unbelievable when I was ns about in a time of need. They came Michigan to the funeral. They don't have hall had to do that. All they have to do gan May is send a text saying 'Sorry for your loss.' It really touched me that they were there for ,michigan me and was has had my a big reason that I stayed back. That's committed to Michigan." why I stayed Marshall signed his committed." letter of intent to Michigan on Feb. 5 and wants to make went to the front porch and sat with his hands over his eyes. Tears rushed down his face uncon- that I wasn't there because "That was the he was able to let out his worst day ever." emotions and cope with it himself. I got trollably. He home the next was speechless. day and we handled a lot of stuff The call was from his cousin together." Aaron Marshall, 31, whom Aaron had let Marshall know Marshall considers to be his it was going to be OK and gave best friend. Aaron was calling him the support he needed. to tell Marshall his father had It wasn't easy to move on for been found dead at his house Marshall, but he felt this was a after having complications with sign from God. diabetes, a disease Lawrence Sr. Marshall had to cope with had for many years, but nothing this himself, and he found that had ever come of it. Marshall with football. a university efensive end Ohio State in a week after r his pledge. vleyer's office ag me all his id. enough for t on the spot. ing of Aaron schools and an instant impact. Not just for himself or Michigan, but for his father, grandfather and anyone who carries the Marshall name. Because if Marshall knows anything, it's that his family won't be always be there. Because somewhere that image of a man in an Omega Psi Phi shirt still lingers in his mind. Because somehow Marshall has to cope. JOHN S. CHRISTENSEN/Jasper Salfin Photography Marshall decommitted from Ohio State and eventually chose Michigan. Nfi tea:' COURTESY OF SOUTHFIELD HIGH SCHOOL i , 2 I totaling 68 tackles, eight sacks, three forced fumbles, 18 hurries, a fumble recovery and a safety. ,