4B -Thursday, October 10, 2013 The Michigan Daily - michiganclaily.com 4B - Thursday, October10, 2013 The Michigan Daily - michigandaily.com :' '- -- , --- - __ i ..: i I .. _ -, Each week we take shots at the biggest developments in the entertainment world. Here's what hit (and missed) this week. Mattel reveals "The Hunger Games: Catching Fire"-inspired Barbie dolls at New York Comic-Con an't stop Cyrus told Matt he's too old to be . on "Today" & vril Lavigne and her husband Chad Krueger release duet, "Let Me Go" 'vsigrvy 'Nieruz AUT AND PROUD Aut Bar crafts inclusive community I .oalJbar nff ewrs LU G By The t unshade light is rich int resonanr white- blue la the win( reads: \ proud.. and Aut Co-P' Bar "st A-CU UCUV11C Z5 newly burgeoning term "LGBTQ- Space for all IA," his turn of phrase implies an all-inclusive outlook for the future. identities It provides a place of safety for the community - a piece of common SEAN CZARNECKI ground over light brunch, beer or Daily Film Editor laughs at the bar. "Gay, straight, lesbian, transgen- bar's windows are tall and der, cross-dresser - you name it," ed. No drape is drawn. No said restaurant server Robert King. dimmed. One can see its "People come in here, and they feel erior from outside - the comfortable." t golden walls, black-and- King motioned toward the pho- photo portraits, hanging tos on the wall. He doesn't believe ups. Stamped at the base of most customers even realize dows is white lettering that they're photos of gay people, if it 'atit\ and proud. Out and even crosses their minds. It's 4 p.m. in Kerrytown, At 4 p.m., Sam Cash is working, Bar has just opened. too. He's bartended here now for wrer Keith Orr calls Aut six years. raight friendly." Like the "It's like a gay 'Cheers,' " Cash said. "At first, I always thought gay bars were like,you know,just danc- ing and everyone going crazy. "It's the only gay bar in town, but I don't think people really see it like that. It stands on its own - the place with the patio, the place with the good brunch. I guess maybe when they opened, it was alittle bit different." Before 1995, when Aut Bar opened, another gay bar was already in business. But its conduct toward -customers disturbed Orr. At a time when the AIDS epidemic was at its peak, it was "painfully obvious" to him that the bar wasn't gay-owned. "Across the nation, bars were where fundraising was happen- ing and where information was being disseminated and sometimes where you were finding out if peo- ple were alive or dead," Orr said. "Our local gay bar refused to do anything, to have AIDS mentioned - any fundraising - not even a col- lection jar." Orr and his partner, Martin Contreras, had already been run- ning a Mexican restaurant when it became apparent that a new bar was needed, one unashamed of its demographic and rooted in the struggle of the community. "Straight folks are absolutely welcome," Orr said, "as long as they understand that it's a safe place for the gay community. And we need safe places - still." The placeinwhich Aut Bar rests, Braun Court, is a hub for LGBTQ activism. Next door stands Orr's second business, the Common Language Bookstore, and next to that, the Jim Toy Community Cen- ter. Looking out through Aut Bar's *1 Aut Bar hosts karaoke every Tuesday and trivia every Thursday. windows, across the patio, you can see Shout, a venue that the Michi- gan International Gay Rodeo Asso- ciation rents outeach year. Orr elaborated on the urgency of activism as a whole. "It energizes people and reaf- firms them," he said. "If you're an NRA member, all you have to do is turn on the TV or go to the multi- plex, and you get reaffirmed every minute of every day. If you're a gay man, you don't necessarily have that constant reaffirmation in soci- ety." One of the ways by which Aut Bar revitalizes the community is OUTFest - a celebration of National Coming Out Day. When Orr and Contreras came into business, they took over the cel- ebration from the Washtenaw Rainbow Action Project, rebrand- ed it and moved it into the Kerry- town area. "The first year, it was all about having a free event that had enough sponsorship to cover the expenses," Orr said. "Each year, we added more fundraising com- ponents (such as) a silent auction, sponsorships (and) we rented vendor booths, even selling little trinkets like rainbow beads. It all adds up. "One year," Orr added, "we raised up to $22,000 after expens- es." Aut Bar also hosts events for the HIV/AIDS Resource Center that services Jackson, Lenaw- ee, Livingston and Washtenaw Counties. This fall, it'll hold a wine raffle. From each of their participants, the bar asks for a single bottle of wine, which they collect and put into one big pot, and for as little as $5, winner takes all. "I love it because it's a very democratic event," Orr said. "We use a lot of people to raise a lot of money, each giving a little bit. This is my favorite type of fund- raising. ... And we call it an Ann Arbor Wine Seller because you get an instant wine cellar if you win." Their most famous fundraiser occurred in 2001, in the upstag- ing of Fred Phelps, leader of the Westboro Baptist Church, when he decided to picket their busi- ness. They pledged to pay a dol- lar every minute Phelps protested outside the bar. They reached out to their email list to do the same. "Let him stay as long as he wants," Orr said. Within one minute, somebody had pledged a dollar. Where some fundraisers take a whole year to plan, this was planned in half an hour. They ended up raising $7,500 in one day, in one hour. "If you answer hate with hate," Orr said, "hate wins." Though the bar is empty at 4 p.m., its workers are still about. Outside, the weather grows cold, each hour dimming into evening into night, each more drizzling and bitter than the last. But inside the bar, it's warm. King-was more than happy to tour the upstairs bar. The floor, the walls, the entire room is col- ored in black and white and blue. As he explained, the room follows the color motifs of the Leather Pride Flag. King talked about himself for a while; he explained why he came to Ann Arbor, where the community is strong and vibrant, and he spoke about how work used to be a four- to five-day-a-week routine. Now, he comes to work five or six days a week. Then, we shook hands - kara- oke is on Tuesdays, he said, trivia on Thursdays - and I went out. ,