4A --- Wednesday, October 17, 2012 The Michigan Daily - michigandaily.cot 4A - Wednesday, October17, 2012 The Michigan Daily - michigandailycom 0 1 Midtigan &Ilj Edited and managed by students at the University of Michigan since 1890. 420 Maynard St. Ann Arbor, MI 48109 tothedaily@michigandaily.com TIMOTHY RABB. JOSEPH LICHTERMAN and ADRIENNE ROBERTS ANDREW WEINER EDITOR IN CHIEF EDITORIAL PAGE EDITORS MANAGING EDITOR Unsigned editorials reflect the official position of the Daily's editorial board. All other signed articles and illustrations represent solely the views of their authors. Necessary mod1fications Politicial debates lack substance and accuracy f the recent presidential and vice presidential debates have accomplished anything, they've proven that the American public continually struggles to interpret the candidates's rhet- oric. There have now been three debates, and the common thread is that specific and comprehensive answers are infrequent. The candi- dates have thus far quickly reverted to usual talking points on the growing problems that face America, such as Medicare and the war in Afghanistan. These political debates lack the substance that they should be providing to the American public. Debates aren't efficient- ly structured and their.format should be modified so candidates can discuss a variety of important issues more in depth. Unity from tragedy This past week, the story of Malala Yousafzai has dom- inated most major news ietworks. The 14-year-old girl was shot by Tal- iban militants for raising her voice against their repressive policies. She was advocating for the simple right to eduac- tion. Apparent- ly, the Taliban HARSHA NAHATA saw her as a threat - she was shot at on her way home from school last week. Yousafzai is currently being treated for her wounds in the United Kingdom. What happened with Malala is nothing short of a tragedy. But maybe the only positive that comes out of tragedies like this is an oppor- tunity for us all to rally together, to unify. And in this case, that is exact- ly what has been done. The international community has responded with unanimous condem- nation, and multiple nations have offered help with Malala's treat- ment. Starting with an airlift offered by the United Arab Emirates to her final treatment in the United King- dom, there's been an overwhelming outpouring of support worldwide. The strongest voices of condem- nation have come from within Paki- stan itself. From lawyers, to media, to religious clerics to the citizens of Pakistan, there has been sharp criticism of the Taliban's targeting of Malala. People have taken to the streets in protest to show their sup- port. Lawyers took a day off from court to join in the protests. More than 50 Islamic scholars from the Sunni Ittehad Council condemned the attack. Deseret, a Pakistani newspaper, ran an editorial on Tuesday, Oct. 16, calling Malala a Pakistani hero. In fact, Pakistani media has so strongly condemned the attacks as to elicit threats from the Taliban themselves. Even Paki- stani President Zardari condemned the attack. The outcry hasn'f been limited to Pakistan. Around the world, news media, political figures and the pub- lic have voiced outrage over what happened to Malala. Beyond the contentious relationship that India and Pakistan might share, there were even protests in India against such horrific actions by the Taliban. In a way, this outcry is expected. You might be wondering why I'm spending so much space describ- ing ,something so obvious. Who wouldn't condemn such a horrific act? Regardless of what one may believe politically, ideologically or religiously, it's easy to agree that tar- geting a 14-year-old girl is hardly an acceptable practice. But what's sig- nificant is exactly that - that across national borders, religious ideals and political differences, with theecase of Malala Yousafzai, we all found something to agree on. In fact, if we look deeply, there are a lot of somethings we agree on. Most would agree that every child, boy or girl, should have access to education, that people should be free to speak their mind without fear of being killed, that people should be able to work, earn a living and pro- vide for their families. In short, in some ways, we can agree that there are basic things that go into a qual- ity standard of living that everyone should be able to enjoy. We only dis- agree on the best way to get there. And that's what tragedies such as this show us. They show us that we might be fiercely different inmany of our beliefs, but often time we're all fighting for the same thing: a better tomorrow than we have today. There's a lesson in the story of Malala. A lesson we can apply to the political situation in the -United States. There are lots of political and social issues we argue about today. And given the partisan political cli- mate ofthe United States,you'd think that the Republicans and Democrats agree on next to nothing. We're all fighting for the same thing: abetter tomorrow. a But in the end, both parties want the same thing - a better future for this country. None of the candidates disagree that we want American youth to have top quality education, that we want people to be employed, that we want safe and structurally soundroads and infrastructure,that we want to return to having the best and most competitive workforce in the world. We don't disagree on these end goals; we only disagree on how to get there. In ohe midst of an election sea- son, politicians would rather have us focus on what we disagree on than what we see eye-to-eye on. But the truth is, if we keep focusing on 'what we disagree about, we won't ever be able to solve the problems at hand. It's sad that time and time again it takes us a tragedy to realize this, but underneath all the ways in which we identify as different from one another, there are basics that we can agree on. And in this election season, keeping in mind Malala's story, perhaps we should look for the areas we agree on so we can make valuable compromises. -Harsha Nahata can be reached at hnahata@umich.edu. The first two debates demonstrated how inconsequential they have become in recent years. In the first presidential debate, mod- erator Jim Lehrer failed to foster a struc- tured debate. Both candidates exceeded time limits, failed to provide direct answers to questions and repeatedly spoke over Lehrer. While Martha Raddatz proved to be a better moderator, Vice President Joe Biden and Paul Ryan failed to provide direct and complete answers to some questions. Future debates could be improved by hav- ing fact-checking take place at the event. In the first presidential debate, President Obama and Republican presidential nominee Mitt Romney argued about whether or not the fiscal claims they'd made along the cam- paign trail were correct. This process took up a large portion of the debate and detracted from policy. If someone was there to verify the validity of the candidates's claims, mod- erators could speed up the debate and actu- ally discuss important issues that pertain to the campaign. This will force candidates to know the truth and allow voters to make informed decisions. It also may be time to give moderators more authority in debates. In the vice presi- dential debate, the candidates were allowed to stray from the actual questions and move to their respective talking points, which has become an important feature of politics. If the candidates are allowed to simply talk over the moderator, the debate will have no structure and trickier issues can be avoided. After all, the whole point of a debate is to per- suade the public as best you can with the time you're alloted. If that element is eliminated, debates will become media events for the candidates as opposed to an opportunity to properly evaluate candidates. The American public will choose its next president on Nov. 6. However, it's unlike- ly that the political debates will provide people the information they need to make informed decisions about two very differ- ent views of America's future. Going for- ward, if these changes are implemented, the presidential debates may again become relevant to the campaign cycle. In the end, the debates will be a much better resource for undecided voters. FOLLOW DAILY OPINION ON TWITTER Keep up with columnists, read Daily editorials, view cartoons and join in the debate. Check out @michdailyoped to get updates on Daily opinion content throughout the day. ALANA HOEYVIWP'T . EDITORIAL BOARD MEMBERS - Kaan Avdan, Sharik Bashir, Eli Cahan, Nirbhay Jain, Jesse Klein, Melanie Kruvelis,Patrick Maillet, Harsha Nahata, Timothy Rabb, Adrienne Roberts,Vanessa Rychlinski, Paul Sherman, Sarah Skaluba, Michael Spaeth; Gus Turner ALEX KULICKIVIV Fulfillment through respect A'game-changing' semester In Jeffrey McMahon's viewpoint, he responds to Bethany Biron's article on hook-up culture. The resulting flurry of Facebook activ- ity made it clear that many women on carpus are not pleased. They accurately pointed out that this example of benevolent sexism may come off as "nice," but it reinforces this idea that women aren't able to handle themselves and need men to take care of them. There are parts of McMahon's viewpoint that we should learn from. The piece clearly comes from an authentic place that is worth noting, regardless of if we agree with him. First, as he points out, he and many men par- ticipate in hook-up culture and aren't satis- fied. He also puts forward that men have a role to play in improving the gendered nature of relationships. What he missed, however, was that the alternative to hook-up culture doesn't have to be a 1950s white middle-class fantasy of marriage. So, this is a challenge for the men on campus (straight and not straight) who are or aren't satisfied, who want to be supportive of women and trans people, and want to be fulfilled in their sexual and/or romantic relationship to push a little more critically and imagine new possibilities. Here are a few starting points: Whoever you're involved with, treat them as a person. This applies to all people, but men often need the reminder. If you're "hook- ing up," whoever you're hooking up with is not just an object for your desire. You aren't entitled to have sex with anyone, and every- one comes in with their own wishes and a need for respect of their bodies. It also means that if you're involved emotionally, it's not necessarily your responsibility to take care of them. There's a difference between caring for someone and taking care of them. Caring for someone involves respecting their needs, honoring them as a person and knowing that they are capable human beings. We all need care, no matter our gender. Taking care of someone, means that you're assuming they need something from you, and often comes with the expectation that they owe you. Challenge yourself to find what works for you, acknowledge what works for other people and dare to be different. As McMa- hon points out, the hook-up culture isn't for everyone. It's for some people when it's negotiated intentionally. Some people want to have sex, some people want to have some sort of emotional involvement, some of our peers are happily married. Most people have some combination of those desires and oth- ers. What matters is that you're able to sift through all of the peer pressure and expecta- tions to find what you want. It might change tomorrow. Your best friend might want some- thing different. You're going to have to think about it more than once. And you can't just figure it out-you have to have the courage to be different, to feel weird and to voice that dif- ference. For some of us, this means struggling with expectations that are part of daunting systems of racism, sexism and heterosexism. And then, assuming you want something that involves other people, you have to go through the process again to ensure you're both clear on what the other person wants. Give up some of your masculine power. As men, we often don't feel powerful, but it's in those moments when we don't feel powerful that we often grasp for control. So when you feel vulnerable or confused, open up to your friends, especially if they're also men. And start listening to women and trans people. It's easy to write off what others say in order to defend yourself, but listen and understand first. To take this even further, acknowledge that listening requires the work of encour- aging voices that aren't always heard. We're bombarded by images of hook-up culture and unequal power dynamics in relationships. So take a minute to acknowledge what's not being expressed with words. If we want to have sexual-romantic and sexual-non-romantic relationships that are fulfilling, it's time to dig deeper than all the images available to us, whether they seem "nice" or not, and find ways to relate to each other without demeaning each other. Alex Kulick is an LSA senior. Andrea Alajbegovic, LSA senior; Noel Gordon, LSA senior; Brock Grosso, Public Policy senior; Blake Mackie, LSA junior; Amy Navvab, LSA senior; and Nora Stephens, LSA senior also contributed. When I decided to do the Semes- ter In Detroit program last spring, I was met with laughter by many of my family and friends. "Oh, so you're going home for the summer" and "What do they have to teach you about Detroit?" were common responses. In reality, hailing from the city of Detroit didn't disqualify me from gaining valuable experi- ences through SID. And similarly, never having been to Detroit doesn't disqualify you. Neither does being afraid of Detroit. Or knowing a lot about Detroit. This program is a game-changer, an experience that can shape not only the rest of your academic career, but your life. It was the internship that first caught my attention - a chance to gain valuable work experience from innovative and prestigious growing companies and non-profit organiza- tions. SID's reputation helped me get an internship at Pewabic Pottery, a non-profit ceramics organization, and gave my supervisor the con- fidence to give me a great amount of freedom and responsibility in my work. From hosting television crews to climbing in fish tanks at the Belle Isle Aquarium, the expe- rience I gained from my internship was priceless and escorted me into a new way of engaging with my city through the professional world. For anyone, the SID internship is a snap- shot into what working in Detroit, or any other similar environment, might be like. Class, often the greatest burden in a student's life, was the glue that brought all the richness of the SID experiences together. Instead of detracting from our engagement in the city, our classes were the place where we could process our experi- ences and learn about the city in a way that would deepen and shape our interactions going forward. From the first night sleeping on the floor of a church during orienta- tion, to the last night of the program laying on my apartment floor talking until sunrise, my SID crew was the absolute best part of the whole expe- rience. Each person had a unique background, interests and relation- ship to the city and together we had a diversity 'that provided for the most interesting group experience I've been a part of. Despite our dif- ferences, the SID group had a com- mitment to supporting one another's endeavors and learning about their passions. Not a personal success has gone by, even now, that hasn't been celebrated by the group. Wherever' you're at, SID has something for you. A place to learn. To network. To risk. To grow. If I could do it again, I would, but since I can't, I'd love to see you go. Apply by Oct. 26 for the winter semester, and if you still need some convincing, there is an info session at 7 p.m. in Mason Hall G437 on Thursday, Oct. 18. Alana Hoey is a junior in the School of Art and Design. 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