0 0 0 00 QUOTES OF THE WEEK I know all too well what the "I forgave them all tradition demands must because it's in my blood, happen to me." and it's in my heart for - DIDAR ERDAL, a 23-year-old gay man from the Lord Jesus Christ." To the Reeds' joy and bewil- derment, though, that fight never came. On Aug. 11, 2009, Marvin and Deshawn went to court for what they thought was going to be a routine appeal. But the prosecu- tor simply stood up and dismissed all charges - there was no case, and therefore, never should have been. It took the judicial system nine years to realize 'hat they had made an appalling mistake. WHEN THE WORLD WENT ON WITHOUT THEM That Aug. 11 court date, too, played out like a surreal dream - but a happy one, the happiest there ever was. The first thing on the Reeds' minds upon being freed: fam- ily, food and all the comforts of the home that they had been taken from all those years ago. Deshawn was craving lasagna and salad, while Marvin wanted to eata little bit of everything. "Whatever they sat in front of my face, I was going to eat it," Marvin said. The Reeds' family and friends were more than happy to oblige their wishes at a welcome home party they threw for the men. Even though the justice system had writ- ten off the Reeds' claims of inno- cence for years, Deshawn said they never lost the support of their com- munity. "After so many years, usually people forget about it," he said. "It's on the back burner. Like forget that, and lose hope, but they never lost hope." Deshawn's children were the most ecstatic about their father's release. Deshawn described the reunion with his kids as "a bunch of tears." Marvin said that Deshawn's youngest son - who never knew his father outside of prison visiting rooms - still refuses to get off his father's lap. But after the party ended, the Reeds were leftwith the task of dust- ing off what remained of their long- stalled personal lives. While they were suffering the horrible monot- ony of prison, the outside world had kept changing. The World Trade Towers in New York had fallen. A costly United States war had begun. There was now a black president in the White House. Even once-simple daily activities had become barely recognizable. Fresh out of jail, Marvin ran into a he encountered a self-checkout sta- tion for the first time. Deshawn,, meanwhile, couldn't wrap his head around society's obsession with text messaging. But what had most drastically changed for the Reeds were their families. Faced with the prospect of waiting two decades to continue their relationships, Marvin's wife and Deshawn's fianc6 had both left them. Deshawn's toddlers had grown into older children who he really didn't know. He had missed the birth of his youngest son, now eight years old. Both the uncle and the nephew had missed funerals of relatives and close friends they never got to say goodbye to. But on top of the pain of missed moments, the Reeds had to deal with the practical problem of sup- porting themselves. After granting the men their freedom, the state jus- tice system released them without further assistance. If it weren't for their supportive family, the Reeds said they would be homeless., "We'dbe onthestreets,"Deshawn said. "We'd be livin' with somebody up under a bridge somewhere. We'd be in a box. We'd be somewhere, livin' in a vacant house." Now four months out of jail, the two are slowly piecing their lives back together. "It's like turtle steps," Deshawn said. For Marvin, getting back on his feet is a clerical headache. He is in the process of re-obtaining vital forms of identification like his birth certificate and Social Security Card, which were taken from him in pris- on and never returned. Without those documents, he faces even a harder time reestablishinghis claim to Social Security money that he had depended on before prison. After he was found guilty, he lost his right to those benefits and now must nego- tiate a tangled web of bureaucracy to get them back - a challenge that his learning disability makes even harder. Today, he receives $200 in food stamps every month, but noth- ing else. Having remarried a few months ago, Marvin said he's lucky he has his wife to support him. Deshawn also struggles with depends on his family financially, since household funds had beentight to begin with. He wants to support his children like he had before the incarceration, but with his decade- old resume and the state's record- high unemployment rates, finding a way to do that has been slow. "The man's supposed to be the one take care of the household, and we not in the position because we got eight years taken out of our lives and just got kicked back out to soci- ety with nothing," Deshawn said. RECLAIMING DREAMS DEFERRED The thought of his children made Deshawn fight harder to get out of prison. It had always been his desire to make sure his children had better opportunities than he had, and the last thing he wanted was for them to grow up without a father. Deshawn, who only finished school through the ninth grade, is determined to see his children escape an environment that so often sets people up to fail. It hurts him to think that if he hadn't been falsely convicted, he would be working in real estate with his brother and their ambition to send their children to private school might have been realized. "It was our dream," he said. "It really weren't about me no more. When those kids came, it was about them kids." But Deshawn is grateful that he escaped his sentence with time to help his children on the road to success. During his time in prison, their grades had slipped and they had been actingup in school.But his children, ranging in age from 8to 12 years old, are still young enough to overcome much of the disadvantage of having an incarcerated father - something that would have got- ten harder with every passing year Deshawn was in jail. "Now my kids can be happy, and they can get on the right track and they can go and have a future instead of with this hanging over their head like this for some more years," Deshawn said. But getting back on track is easi- er said than done, especially in the same environment that allowed Deshawn and Marvin to go to jail in the first place. With not enough money to move out of Ecorse, the Reeds expressed resentment at being stuck in the city. "We gotta go back to the same neighborhood who put us in this predicament," Deshawn said. "You know, you see the same officers who lied on you, and they smirk at you, and they do things, but you gotta be around these people. You don't want to, but you have no choice." Despite their rightful freedom, the Reeds live in constant fear that they could be re-incarcerated at any moment. Deshawn makes it a point to meet the owners and managers of places he frequents, like the local gym, so that he can build trust with people around town. Marvin said he calls his sister four to five times a day so that someone always knows of his whereabouts in case he needs to prove his alibi. "I really don't feel comfortable because I think someone else is going to tryto do somethinglike that again, so I just want to make sure that next time, I have some kind of way to prove (my innocence)," Mar- vin said. While the Reeds will never forget the circumstances that led to their incarceration, they have forgiven Gholston, the drive-by shooting vic- tim who wrongly identified them as the driver and shooter in the attack. After Deshawn's release, Gholston visited to apologize. The two former schoolmates made amends by going out to the club. "He apologized several times to the point I told him that I accept your apology," Deshawn said. "You don't have to apologize. Let's go on with our life and put that behind us, and let's just move forward because we out, but you still in the condition that you in." While the Reeds have endured years of heartache and encountered an array of obstacles, they said they don't harbor bitterness over the time they have lost. It could be a lot worse -they, and the Innocence Clinic students, well know there are other innocent people still suffering in prison right now. "When I even feel like I'm getting bitter, I think of all the other inno- cent ones in prison that I met that don't have the opportunity to get the representation and get the bless- ing me and Marvin got," Deshawn said. The road to reclaiming the lives they lost a decade ago still has many bumps ahead, but Deshawn still wants to realize the career aspira- tions he had started to pursue in his 20s. He would like to obtain his real estate license and use the dis- mal economy to his advantage by purchasing depreciated houses that should rebound in value after the repression. Butmostly, Marvin and Deshawn aren't too worried about kicking into hyper speed to try to make up for lost time. After spending the last eight Christmases in prison, they want to spend this holiday season savoring every moment with their family. "Prison makes you appreciate the small things," Deshawn said. "Not living your life watching your back every second of a minute, every minute of an hour, every day of the year. You can justbe around normal people and you're just free." TALKING POINTS Three things you can talk about this week: 1. Maurice Clemmons 2. Med Grow Cannabis College 3. White House security And three things you can't: 1. Tiger Woods sexting 2. Republican "purity tests" 3. The Salahis - BY TH E NUMBERS The number of civilians who were murdered in election-related violence in the Philippines last week The number of murder counts faced by Andal Ampatuan Jr., a Philippine city mayor who allegedly helped spur the violence The number of people who have been implicated in acts of violence Istanbul, explaining the brutality faced by gay men in Turkey, whose conservative Islamic families view homosexuality as an affront to their honor. A gay man was recently killed there by his father in what was called the country's first gay honor killing. "It's inappropriate at best." - LENNY KING, a 52-year-old homeless man from Akron, Ohio, explaining why he forgave some teenagers who set him and his sleeping mattress on fire last year. King suffered burns from the incident - LENNY ADAIR, a man from Mooresville, Ind., describing the conduct of a 41-year-old former high school softball coach who was taped on a cell phone getting his toes sucked by a player. The teacher, Jody Monaghan, has also been accused of sending unseemly texts and groping high school girls. YOUTUBE VIDEO OF THE WEEK A carp's nightmare If you ever feel like irritating animal rights activists, this is a pretty effective way to do it. Last week, organizations like PETA, an animal rights group, pub- licly condemned this video, which features a group of people eating a live fish in a Chinese restaurant. According to a story in The Daily Telegraph, the chef had fried only part of the carp, placing a wet towel over its head to ensure it kept breathing during the cooking pro- cess. . The video begins with the carp lying helplessly on a plate, its head and tail intact while the middle is visibly fried. The people begin poking and prodding the fish with their chopsticks, playing with its lips and mouth. Suddenly, after more poking, the fish's gills-expand and its body writhes. The crowd utters sounds of amazed delight, as if they're surprised that it's actu- ally alive. Before long, someone starts to devour the carp with a set of chop- sticks. With each new piece of flesh that's extracted from the body, the carp's squirming increases. Meanwhile, the laughing crowd seems to get progressively louder, which makes it appear as if these people are really, really enjoying eating this carp alive. Maybe you shouldn't watch this video. BRIAN TENGEL Ve, THEME PARTY SUGGESTION "I Day of rest - Thanksgiving is over, but you're probably still nursing your wounds from Black Fri- day. The lingering sleep deprivation, bruises, aches, perhaps even broken bones. No one ever said bargain shopping was easy. Before finals start, you should host a rest and relaxation gathering. You should watch movies, drink tea, and lounge around in your pajamas all day-anything to minimize your physical and mental activity. Throwing this party? Let us know. TheStatement@umich.edu STUDY OF THE WEEK Obesity produces 100,000 cancer cases annually Obesity is the cause of more than 100,000 cases of cancer in the United States every year, according to a study published by the Ameri- can Institute for Cancer Research. The study used research from AICR findings that examined the relationship between physical activity, diet, weight and cancer, and also evaluated surveys about obesity and cancer. The researchers then calculated the percentage of certain cancers that could be prevented if people in the U.S. remained fit. In the study, the researchers found that an excess of body fat causes almost half the incidences of endometrial cancer (which involves the uterus) and one third of esophageal cancer cases. Moreover, if people stayed healthy, cases of pancreatic cancer could be reduced by 28 per- cent and those of kidney cancer by 24 percent, the study found. Other researchers estimated that diseases related to obesity are responsible for $147 billion, or 10 percent, of U.S. medical spending. - BRIAN TENGEL ource: CNN