w w w www . w v VU One moment, decades of progress f I reduce my mother and sis- ter's college experiences to just a few sentences, they have similar profiles. Both were admit- ted into elite private universities (Harvard for my sister, Williams College for my mother), both were (or are) serious students and both are people ofcolor. But there are a few important differences. For one, my mother is black and my sister, like myself, is biracial. For another, my mother went to college in the '70s, while my sister is a freshman this year. I didn't realize how profound a dif- ference her race would make in Isabel's college experience until my family dropped her off in Cam- bridge last month. In the past, my parents seldom talked about their experiences of race relations during college. But when they did, they mentioned how the divides were very strict. If you were black and didn't hang around with the few other black kids a lot, you were criticized. My sister and I find this difficult to relate to, since in neither of our academic careers had we ever experienced anything like it and we had both gone to very diverse schools. The first change we noticed was when my parents and I were wait- ing to meet my sister and drop her things off at her dorm room. Dur- ing prefrosh move-in, parents must drive to the Harvard football sta- dium and wait in a long line of cars leading to the Yard, where each student's family gets thirty min- utes to unload outside the dorms. We were in our cars, waiting in the line, looking around and making abrupt observations about the other families ("Looks like a lot of people from New Jersey," I noted from the license plates in line) when I saw that behind our rental minivan was a silver Mercedes and two black adults in front. "Mom, look, we're not the only black family here," I said. "Where?" my mom asked, and looked around until she saw where I was pointing. It may have been the 21st century, but there was a part of all of us that hadn't expected to see black and minority students at Harvard. We- were excited. The column of vehicles was mov- ing every few minutes, so there were a lot of people getting out and strolling around. My mom got out of the car and played it cool. The lady in the other car took the bait, exit- ing her car after a few moments. I stayed inside, behind the tinted she and the other mother had gravi- windows, watching my mother and tated toward each other among the the other mother talking. My mom many parents around them:because did a lot of nodding, some smiling, they both were women of color who a little laughing and then more nod- went to top colleges in a time when ding. They talked about their Har- such places were a lot less accepting of that. Their children knew this was big, but not quite as much as they did. W ith a daughter After about 10 minutes, the line of cars started to move and the con- at Harvard, my versation was over. My mom got back in. I was behind the wheel by trailblazing then, with my dad reading in the back, and we started to move for- black mother is ward. The lady, my mom recounted, was Lauren, a lawyer and mother of validated. four from New Jersey. She was tak- ing her daughter to college for the first time, too. My mom recalled the whole vard-bound children, where they conversation with a laid-back were from (the other mother was contentment. She had wondered a Harvard alum), how long it had whether this moment would hap- taken them to get there, how many pen when she was in college, when kids they had, what their kids want- she graduated, and when her kids ed to study and how proud they were born: would she end up back were of their families. It was all the at an Ivy League school talking to usual parental jabber, but under it other black parents the way she all, my mom later explained, she just had? Now she knew the answer felt a tacit acknowledgement that was yes. She had expected to meet this was a big moment and they had a lot of middle-class or upper-mid-. come a long way. That's why, in what dle-class parents, and maybe even seemed almost like cosmic fashion, some famous Harvard parents, but not as many black Harvard par- ents. This assumption came more from the traditional stereotype of what kind of family sends a child to Harvard. My mom had gone to the elite Williams College, after all. She was one of less than two dozen black students there, and by my mom's senior year, a large fraction of them had dropped out. So it was reassuring for my mother, who had grown up in the more modest ech- elons of America, to know she had worked hard and gotten into a top- notch school - and that years later, she wouldn't need scholarships or financial aid to send her children to this kind of school. When we were getting ready to leave Isabel to catch our flight back to Chicago, my mom cried and hugged us both. Most of her tears came from sending her last child off to college, but I suspect a few of them were also for being able to send her daughter to a school she had wished she could go to. She knew that the divisiveness that had colored her college years wouldn't loom as large for her daughter, if it even made an appearance at all. -Daniel Strauss is a staff writer for The Statement. ANNARBOR.COM Wickram said. 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