w w w 8B The Michigan Daily - Wednesday, October 24, 2007 WenedyOcoer24 007 h icia 6Diy 5 the psychology of sex Reena Liberman is an Ann Arbor sex therapist certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. Here, she speaks candidly about the psychology of hanky panky. Inhibitions that limit your sexual pleasure have many origins. They include concerns about privacy, inexperience, belief systems, sex education, misinformation, unrealistic expectations about arousal and orgasm, body image and sexual history. Self- consciousness about one's performance, also known as spectatoring, can be distracting to the point of preventing arousal. Thej dg Sarah Zearfoss has read every application to the Univer- sity Law School since March 2001, when she became of assistant dean for admissions. A 1992 Law School alum, Zearfoss said she was too anxious to sleep for four months after taking on the demanding position. At first, she didn't quite know what her job required. Today she's figured it out, and even if she does find time to sleep, she spends many of her waking hours tirelessly poring over applications - employing a work ethic she credits to her Michigan education. Here, Zearfoss breaks down the path of an application, advises potential applicants on what not to do and explains why the Law School will survive the affirmative action ban. . This great guy I know heard my LSAT score and said, "I'll bet you have a chance of getting into Michigan." Being on the East Coast, I didn't even know what Michigan was. " Once we receive an application, it gets put in its own file. The read- ers in the office get a stack of files each week, and after they make comments on each application, I take them home. I can make a quick decision on about one-fourth of the applications. But the vast majority of applications take longer. It's sort of like shopping; I need to come back to it, think about it. * Students panic when they hear that my decision on their application can take between five minutes and several weeks. But I've looked at 40,000 applications. I'm really good at picking out the top ones. " There are so many weird applications. One guy wrote around the edge of the application, "you are the only school for me." And appli- cants love to send in gimmicks. For example, we'll get a basketball and the implication is, "the ball's in your court." My staff gets really frus- trated because basketballs are pretty hard to file away. " The dean of admissions at Bryn Mawr College wrote a personal note on my acceptance letter. I remember feeling so good about that. I write a little note on each law school acceptance because I'm invested by the time I'm ready to make an offer. I can't stop now because everyone ,nV~t xknows I do it. . The number of applications we've received so far this year from black students is exactly the same number it was one year r rago today. . In the coming years there will be fewer minority stu- dents at this school. But Prop 2 won't have the same dramatic effect it did at Berkeley and UCLA. This is because Michigan is one of the few schools that uses the LSAT as is intended - as a guideline, not a cut oft. A TIP FOR DEVELOPING YOUR Rustication (ruhs-ti-key-shuhn): Architectural masonry featuring large squares of rough stone COCKTAIL PARTY VERNACULAR with deep-set mortar or finished edges. ANSWERS, Page 10B