4- The Michigan Daily - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 OPINION ahle firto %gttn tti1g COLIN DALY "fill DoNN M. FRESARD Editor in Chief EMILY BEAM CHRISTOPHER ZBROZEK Editorial Page Editors ASHLEY DINGES Managing Editor EDITED AND MANAGED BY STUDENTS AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN SINCE 1890 420 MAYNARD STREET ANN ARBOR, MI 48109 tothedaily@michigandaily.com NOTABLE QUOTABLE ' ' If you're thinking about leaving at some time in the future, now would be a good time to do it." - New White House chief of staff Josh Bolton, addressing staff at a meeting yesterday morn- ing, as reported yesterday on CNN.com. UNEMPLOYED mIS SUMMER? HANG Ou Wr 4 DARIY OPMwN. E-MA sYi@AuaPALY.co ~ Mk o,. 1 '-. Unsigned editorials reflect the official position of the Daily's editorial board. All other signed articles and illustrations represent solely the views of their author. A letter to Ms. Jordan DAVID BETTS h P lNTIFICAIONS ear Ms. Jordan, The first time I looked at you I knew I wasn't in high school any- more. You were too beautiful; your pres- ence was too great. I'll never forget the first time our eyes met: You flashed a smile as I left the CCRB during the summer before my fresh- man year. At the time, I had no idea that a look like that was an invitation to say hi. When we finally did speak, you were incredibly sweet. Not once did you give the impression that you wanted to get rid of me, and that meant a lot. When we first started hanging out, you were way too cool. As my freshman year officially began, you seemed to know I wasn't ready to settle down. You were fine with me going new places, meeting new people and leaving you some weekends to explore what campus had to offer. I needed to get out and experiment with life, though sometimes I wonder if it was my youthful curiosity that prevented us from ever being in a real, long-term relationship. Your patience and encouragement over the past four years have allowed me to grow so much. You introduced me to so many new peo- ple; you showed me how talented I was; you helped me to find my passions. That I aspire to be a writer is in no small measure due to you. You know how much time I have spent sitting alone in an empty corner of the world, scribbling away. Now you know that my scrib- bling was due, in part, to you understanding and appreciating my quasi-philosophical ram- blings. Not only did you encourage me to write, but you also provided me with constant subject matter. I have tried - and thus far failed - to describe your beauty, I have explored the role of friends in my life, and I have contemplated the best way to deal with the emotions of a woman. You helped me discover how cathar- tic writing could be - not to mention helping me to become comfortable using words like cathartic. Ms. Jordan, I must confess that I have motives for writing this other than praise. I'm concerned about you - I have been for the last few months now. I have discussed some of this with you in person, but there is more I need to get off my chest. You are not the same as you once were. I know after graduation we are both mov- ing on in life: I'm going back home to live with my family and contemplate the universe; you are staying here on campus and assuming more responsibility with the University. As I leave campus, another anonymous ex-under- grad, you may become one of the most promi- nent faces of the institution. You are about to go through a transformation process that will make you the envy of your peers. I'm happy for you, but I'm also concerned. I'm concerned with the company you keep. The new people you run with are extremely self- interested; they hang with you because of what they may gain. Many of them are power-hungry gossips, trampling on the feelings of people you have known for years. I see you try to be sym- pathetic to those friends you have hurt, but you come off insensitive and cold. Under the guise of ending this phase of your life right, you are losing some of the charm of old. It's true that there will always be people you don't get along with, but now it's differ- ent than before. You are much more likely to talk behind somebody's back. You seem to rel- ish chastising people for no apparent reason. You're not Bobby Knight; you're not the type to criticize with the goal of inspiring improve- ment. The change in your character is one of the reasons I am around so little these days. Now I hang with you more out of obligation than anything else. Since you've been so good to me throughout college, I feel almost required to try to help you out. Interestingly enough, I spend a lot of time consoling those individuals you have hurt. Maybe it's my fault you have acted so harsh- ly recently. Perhaps I should have been more proactive in confronting the behaviors I didn't like, perhaps I should have been more emo- tionally invested in you, perhaps I should have stopped associating with you altogether. I could sit here for hours and mull over how things could have been different, but that wouldn't be productive. Kicking myself about past hypothetical situations has become one of my best time-wasting mechanisms. It's far too easy to transition from legitimately trying to learn from prior situations to worthlessly ruminating over all the could'ves, would'ves, should'ves. It was with you that I discovered Ben Folds Five. Right now I can't help but think of their song "Smoke." Hopefully our memories do not end up as those in the song: thrown in the fire, only to be found as smoke traveling through the air. If our memories do become smoke, it'll be your fault. Despite how little I can stand you right now, I'll always cherish our memories. Actually, after this college thing is all over for me, I hope to see you again someday. I wish you nothing but success in your new life. I'll miss you, Mosher Jordan Hall. Betts can be reached at djmbetts@umich.edu. Send all letters to the editor to tot hedaily ~michigandaily. corn. LETTERS TO THE EDITOR M-agination film only manages to disappoint To THE DAILY: This past Thursday night, M-agination Films brought the campus community togeth- er in hopes of celebrating artistic expression at the University. It is with great regret, how- ever, that this letter is written not to applaud the efforts of the students who put this show on, but rather to express sincere disappoint- ment. The short film titled "Junctions of Fury" depicted a patriotic American pursuing and killing terrorists in the name of the United States. To the disbelief of many in the audi- ence, the terrorists wore white towels around their heads. It is a shame that the University Activities Center, which presented the short films, would promote the insular view that killing "towel heads" is comical or even sym- bolic of the war on terror. The towels allude to an unnecessary stereotype that encourages racial insensitivity towards Arabs. This depic- tion is hurtful and painful to this community due to recent scrutiny post-Sept. 11. Arabs at the University find themselves struggling to defend an often misrepresented culture. This short film further assailed this culture by falsely depicting Arabs as anti-American, thus perpetuating another destructive stereo- type. In the future, it may be in the best interest of M-agination Films, the University Activi- ties Center and the Arabs on campus if a con- scious effort were made to avoid alienating anyone at a University-sponsored event. Sirene Abou-Chakra LSA junior The letter writer is a member of the Arab Student Association's executive board and is writing on behalf of the organization. A2 community unites to fight abuse of restaurant workers To THE DAILY: More than 120 students and community m-marcr -nty n - etl Ato hear the ctrtta- the faces of the immigrants when I take a pic- ture - they probably have never seen a flash before." In December, Tucker cut his finger while working and received 10 stitches for it. However, he never received any compensa- tion. Add to all this to the fact that many workers in Ann Arbor's restaurants receive four dollars an hour or less - below the minimum wage. This is not to say the actual minimum wage is just - it is not - but it is at least the law. Our right, as patrons, is to know whether the food we buy is safe and whether those who pre- pare and serve it are treated fairly. We demand our right. In fact, more than a thousand of us so far have pledged that we will patronize restau- rants that embrace safe and fair employment and we will avoid restaurants that do not. And we are just beginning. We, the Restaurant Workplace Project of Ann Arbor, are a coalition of students, res- taurant workers, progressive owners and the broader community. Together, we call upon all of Ann Arbor's restaurants to race not to the bottom, but to the top. Dae Keun Andres Kwon LSA senior The letter writer is a founding member of the Restaurant Workplace Project of Ann Arbor and a former Daily reporter. 'Being privileged does not make one guilty' TO THE DAILY: I truly empathize with Mara Gay and find it disgusting that someone on our campus would think that the situation at Duke is any sort of humorous matter (Duke and Michi- gan, 04/17/06). Gay correctly highlights that prejudice and privilege are not limited to cer- tain sections of America but do in fact exist nationwide. These issues, however, will not simply vanish even if charges are brought and a conviction is obtained. Deeper institutional problems exist in this country that need fur- ther examination if any sort of progress is to be made. T rscipA. in the cme villana nd attended 1el- ed diversity that I could not find near home. Now, I may never know for certain what happened that night at Duke, but I do know this - being privileged does not make one guilty of a crime. To assume that all 46 of the white team members are equally as involved as Gay implies only perpetuates the notion of prejudg- ment, which she claims to want to eliminate. To eradicate prejudice, a truly noble goal, we must continue to subscribe to the conviction that we are all innocent until proven guilty. Rob Ungar LSA junior Flood fiend: Fess up - or you will feel guilty forever To THE DAILY: As a resident of West Quad's Wenley House, I would like to thank the housing staff for all that they have done for us. The flood could not have come at a worse time, but all the support we have received has lightened the burden. Our instructors also deserve our thanks because they have been extremely understanding and helpful. On the other hand, I urge whoever caused the flood to admit it. In the short term you may save some money, but by not coming forward you clearly have no character, something with which you will have to deal the rest of your life. Andrew Bracken LSA sophomore Big House should consider alternative expansion To THE DAILY: I want to state how greatly I am opposed to private luxury boxes at the Big House. It is bad enough that Athletic Director Bill Mar- tin has made it nearly impossible for us to afford Michigan football tickets now with his "donate or don't come to our games" plan, but now I realize that I can no longer afford to take my kids to the Big House to see a foot- ball game. Obtaining tickets is now reserved for the wealthy and corporations. 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