0 S v 6B - The Michigan Daily - Weekend Magazine - Thursday, September 26, 2002 Uncommon disorders often overlooked, undiagnosed The Michigan Daily - Weekend Magazine - BETHANY ROOT - F IT'S NOT SCOTTISH A ONE PAIR OF PANTSANE 6 A HEFTY DOSE OF HEALINI By Rebecca Ramsey Daily Arts Writer On Saturday afternoon, while many students were at the football game, a handful of health-conscious men worked out in the weight room at the CCRB. This may strike some as odd, since people often assume that football is the greatest love a guy can have. Oth- ers may think that these guys are just really devoted to their health. "Most people think thatguys who work out a lot are helping their bodies by making them more muscular and strong," said Laurence Panglinan, an Engineering junior who claims to work out as much as he can, even during foot- ball games. "But a girl who works out on the elliptical machine for an hour is seen to be obsessed with exercise and harmful to her body." The definition of "healthy" is heavily distorted. Eating disorders are misunder- stood, as most people assume that women are the only ones who suffer. Unpublicized problems such as anorexia and bulimia among males and compul- sive exercising have recently been recog- nized as fairly common disorders. Stacey Pearson, eating disorder spe- cialist from University Counseling and Psychological Services, has noticed that eating disorders among men are becom- ing more and more common. "Ten percent of people diagnosed with bulimia are males," she said. "But since there are people who do not fall under the full criteria for bulimia, there are many more men out there who are disordered eaters and restrict themselves from certain foods." Pearson also noted that the amount of men seeking help for eating disorders is increasing at the University. "At college, there is normal developmental stuff that leads to eating disorders, such as identi- ty issues, trying to find who you are. Eating disorders can help people identi- fy with themselves and take control of their body to counter any outside insecu- rities," she explained. College forces students to make adjustments that may be too demanding. "The competition is elevated so much at- college that one can feel that if they can- not control their grades, they need to control themselves," said Dr. Maria Beye, an Ann Arbor eating disorder spe- cialist. "They may not be the smartest, but they can be the thinnest. However, this idea can get carried away and one may then think they aren't thin enough." The difference between men and women when it comes to eating disor- ders seems to be psychological. "The sense of long-term ineffective- ness is not present with men, they can temporarily feel insecure" insisted See DISORDERS, Page 16B 'm leeeeeeaving on a jet plane ... or two ... or three. Instead of being dramatically whisked off to Scotland in one fell swoop, I get to make a slightly more stress- ful (and slightly less glamorous) trip through four airports. Right now, I'm mostly worried about how I'm going to navigate my way through this worldly obsta- cle course while juggling my horri- bly overstuffed luggage. I can only hope I'll show a little more grace and balance than I did in junior high Phys. Ed. on gymnastics day (I was more apt to hurdle into the horse rather than over it). It's a wearisome task, trying to cram your whole world, or at least a year's worth of stuff, into two checked bags, a carry-on and a "personal item." Crumbling under the pressure, there were many times that I decided to take a break and go shopping in order to ease my nerves and buy a few more things that wouldn't fit in my luggage. I couldn't ignore my duties for long, though. Every time I walked into my room, I was reminded by the sight of my suitcase, hunched on the bed with its mouth agape, growling "FEED ME!" Eventually, I succumbed to its hungry protests and gave it sustenance in the form of countless sweaters and pairs of shoes (but according to the OIP guideline, only one pair of pants). I hoped I wouldn't end up overfeed- ing the poor thing. I finally squeezed as much as I could into the bag's already bulging belly, and crossed my fingers that it wouldn't, WANT TO WRITE FOR WEEKEND? EMAIL WUKEN02K2@ UNMICILEDU uh, purge its contents before I arrived at my destination. However, hidden at the bottom of my suitcase of worries, under- neath the lightweight frills con- cerning packing and airport-hopping, linger articles of anxiety that are more substantial. Tomorrow, I am flying for the first time since Sept. 11, 2001. The thing is, I have realized that my. petty worries about packing have overshadowed any concern about personal safety. One reason for my preoccupation with trivialities may be that because of all the additional securi- ty, I just feel safer. But I think there is something else involved here. I can't help but liken it to a situ- ation in my personal life. My dad has been in the hospital for more than five months, and as his doc- tors like to remind my family (when they talk to us at all, that is), he's not out of the woods yet. So what does this have to do with anything? Maybe nothing. But it is becoming increasingly appar- ent to me that public and personal tragedies are made from the same substance. All I know is that while I'm ask- ing myself how I can worry so much more about making my flight than about my own personal safety, especially so soon after the anniversary of the attacks, I feel somewhat guilty, as if I'm forget- ting the tragedies. And while I'm asking myself how I can leave my family to study abroad and gallivant across Europe, I feel even more guilty, as if I'm forgetting my dad. I'm an anxious person, and sometimes I feel like worrying must be one of my favorite hob- bies. But I've been thinking a lot about this lately, and I've come to echo the conclusion of Robert Frost: "I have learned one thing about life: It goes on." Time keeps flowing, and sooner or later, people have to flow with it or risk becoming frozen in a wave of grief and fear. The world turns, and Americans have to move with it, even if they can only do so by letting everyday trivialities increas- ingly eclipse memories of tragedy. My life progresses, and I have to move with it, even if it means that my heart will break in the process. But I don't believe that distance, mental or physical, precludes empathy. Millions of people will be boarding planes in years to come, and although their minds may be preoccupied with minor details of the journey, I believe that their hearts will be in the right place. Likewise, soon I will be halfway around the world from my dad, but the distance will only increase my love and concern. We can't, and shouldn't, forget - but we also shouldn't let the memories tie us down and keep us from achieving happiness in the pres- ent. Thus, after a year of hesitation and sadness, Americans are finally starting to go on with their lives. And after a summer of sorrow and frustration, I'm starting to go on with mine. It won't be easy in either case, but America will heal, and God-willing, so will my dad, my family and my heart. Because I fervently believe that if there is anything that is just as certain as the fact that life goes on, then it's the fact the people are strong enough to go along for the ride. Or maybe I'm just trying to make myself feel better. Despite all of these stresses, large and small, I am looking for- ward to my time in Scotland. As I FRANK PAYNE/Daily Exercise is fine In moderation; just don't go nuts. 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