4 - The Michigan Daily - Friday, March 14, 2003 OP/ED Ulie A11d9u agtiI t~ 420 MAYNARD STREET ANN ARBOR, MI 48109 letters@michigandaily.com EDITED AND MANAGED BY STUDENTS AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN SINCE 1890 LouIE MEIZLISH Editor in Chief AUBREY HENRETTY ZAC PESKOWITZ Editorial Page Editors Unless otherwise noted, unsigned editorials reflect the opinion of the majority of the Daily's editorial board. All other articles, letters and cartoons do not necessarily reflect the opinion of The Michigan Daily. NOTABLE QUOTABLE " He thinks he's higher than God." -Louree Gayler, stepdaughter of Brian Mitchell, who police have identified as Elizabeth Smart's kidnapper, as quoted by CNN.com. SAM BUTLER T-11 SOAPBOX T. ve..been e rotes+ ono So vmUC" Skittles knew the truth HUSSAIN RAHIM NARCOLEPTIC INSOMNIA have often observed one topic where all remnants of progres- sive speech and ideals go flying out of the prover- bial window. In a class I had last semester, I noticed that despite all the dialogues on social justice and racial conflicts we had, once we discussed interracial dating, the pretenses came down and the truth came out. Save the disabled, or the poor or even become a gay ally, but don't date a white girl or anyone outside your race. From that day to now I wonder what polarizes people about this topic. What about interracial dating is so taboo and incendiary even in 2003? Miscegenation, interracial dating, cohabita- tion, mulatto baby-making, bystanders hating, ethnic denigration. Besides rhyming, these words have something else in common, they are certain to start an interesting conversation. As a caveat, I must make clear that I am not referring to hook-ups and happy time in which people engage, quell their curiosity and latent desires or people who date exclusively interracially because it's cool or they can meet football players, but true meaningful relation- ships in which one person is committed to another. My one female "friend" (a whole other column ...) told me a big part of the appeal was the "don't tell daddy" factor in which people engage in interracial relation- ships because it is risque and potentially shunned by their parents. "Guess who's com- ing to dinner ..." But the fun of hiding it is the main interest here because ultimately these people will marry someone of their own race. Then there are those with seemingly cos- mopolitan parents who are all for the other races except for when it pertains to their child. Sadly, even I am in this group because a parent of mine is often somewhat irked by constant jokes of them babysitting my mixed children. While starting random conversations and arguments, the qualms range from the "I want someone who knows my life and experiences" to "marriage is hard enough without adding extra problems." Not to mention the people who say their fathers would be less than happy with their new discovery. Well I can tell you that love doesn't conquer all, and it will not save the world. Yet I still have definite prob- lems with this logic. It relies on a basis that true understanding can only transpire within races and not between; blind mass stereotypes and that being a different race than your partner can only be a hindrance in life. What lies at the core of all these problems is a profound misunder- standing between all ethnic groups about every- thing. This is what leads to the statements of "Can you rap?" or "Wow, I can't believe you listen to that!" It is one thing to drink at the same water fountains or use the same bath- rooms and it is something entirely different to know someone within the confines of a rela- tionship. Interracial dating is desegregation on the most personal sphere. In what other envi- ronment or institution can you learn so much about a person, their struggles and their life than in a relationship? Orgo discussion? I am in no way advocating the abandon- ment of intra-racial dating. And interracial dat- ing is not the panacea of racism. Throughout your life, you will meet whomever you meet, people of the same and different races. What I am advocating is the opening of minds, mud- dying of bloodlines, abandonment of comfort zones, increasingly, specific sub-divisions and judgment of others based on their actions. The thing that makes interracial dating so fun, or maybe not fun, is the melange of looks and reactions you will surely create once you navi- gate the public with your partner. It is quite simple to arouse the ire of your ethnic group. I know. And while it is often hard to gauge what one owes to his or her community opposed to one's self, especially as a minority, I know that people owe more to their own lives than to that of their parents and free advice-givers. Maybe there is a reason why yesterday's Census indicates that more unmarried couples are interracial than married couples. It could be they are more liberal and don't mind living together unmarried, or maybe they still have the secret ape of society's racism on their backs. Tyreek and Amber still can't hold hands and skip in the local Mississippi diner. This campus isn't as progressive as everyone believes, and neither is this country. If they are, they're too busy worrying about what Mom and onlookers think. Skittles provide more than a great candy. They give a life philosophy. Taste the Rainbow. Rahim can be reached athrahim@umich.edu. V LETTER TO THE EDITOR -4 Allowing SAFE to read victims' names direspectfu TO THE DAILY: The goal of the Conference on the Holo- caust is to demonstrate the importance of tol- erance, educate our community about the horrors that arise through racial and ethnic prejudices and most importantly, to encour- age students to take a stand against genocide. The annual 24-hour Holocaust vigil and read- ing of names of victims is devoted to remem- bering and honoring those who perished at the hands of Hitler and the Nazis. I have been forced to think about what this means in the past few days after having learned that Stu- dents Allied for Freedom and Equality had requested to sign up for an hour time slot to read names one day after it invited Norman Finkelstein to give the keynote address at their 1st Annual Free Palestine Banquet. It is for this reason that I denied SAFE's request to participate as a group in the vigil. I would feel hypocritical and, more importantly, disrespectful to those affected by the Holo- caust if I had agreed to let SAFE co-sponsor a Holocaust commemoration vigil after it invit- ed Finkelstein to speak on campus earlier this week. Finkelstein's presence on campus offended and hurt many in the Jewish commu- nity, especially as his lecture took place during a week devoted to Holocaust education and commemoration. SAFE has every right to bring him to campus, but I do not believe it then has a right to expect to participate as an organization in the vigil. I do not assume that Finkelstein's skepticism of the sincerity of Holocaust commemoration or his references to Elie Wiesel as the "resident clown" for the Holocaust "circus" are representative of every SAFE member's attitude; however, actions speak louder than words. On Tuesday night, he spokeuabout the Israeli-Palestinian conflict; however, inviting a man who has written that the Holocaust is "used to justify criminal poli- cies of the Israeli state and U.S. support for these policies" sends a clear message: SAFE either agrees with Finkelstein or is at least willing to ignore a dominant aspect of his ide- ology in favor of his other beliefs. Additionally, SAFE has a recent history of promoting Holocaust denial. In March 2002, the Muslim Student Association held a conference, "Perspectives on the Muslim World." SAFE sponsored a table that sold Roger Garaudy's book, "The Founding Myths of Modern Israel." The book includes a chapter entitled "The Myth of the Holo- caust," which states that the fact that 6 mil- lion Jews were killed during the Holocaust is a gross exaggeration and that what Hitler did does not warrant the label "genocide." I have already said that I would feel hypo- critical and disrespectful if I were to agree to SAFE's participation; but frankly I would hope that those members of SAFE who decided to promote a Holocaust denial book would feel the same. Although I could not in good conscience attach SAFE's name to the vigil, I have informed SAFE that any individ- ual members who wish to remember the Holocaust are encouraged and welcomed to participate. I assume that anyone who would take the time to read the names of Holocaust victims does so out of a sincere belief in the significance of remembering the Holocaust. COURTNEY RANGEN LSA senior Chair, Conference on the Holocaust VIEWPOINT Disarming our security BY CHRIS MILLER "Has 'oderint dum metuant' really become our motto?" Career diplomat John Brady Kiesling chose to invoke the Roman states- man Cicero in his letter of resignation to Sec- retary of State Colin Powell last month. Expressing disgust with the haphazard manner President Bush has pursued war with Iraq, Kiesling decided to resign rather than contin- ue to represent the administration's policies and violate his own conscience; he could not be a part of a foreign policy that he sees as being based more and more on the Caesar-era premise "let them hate as long as they fear." Has American foreign policy really retrenched into the fear-based objectives of the ancient Roman empire? While it may not be the actual intent of the administration, it is rapidly becoming the result. In their Javert- esque pursuit of Saddam Hussein, Bush and those who advise him appear to have threat- ened the international system in a way that would have been unfathomable in days after Sept. 11, when newspapers, dignitaries and common citizens around the globe made state- ments similar to headline of the French news- paper Le Monde on Sept. 12: "We are all Americans now!" The attitude of the United States toward Iraa has taken on the twin auras demise. Administration officials are correct in their charges that the United Nations has become a swamp of ineffectiveness; the ghosts of Bosnia and Rwanda can testify to this. U.N.- led soldiers literally stood by silently during the biggest European massacre since the Holocaust at Srebrenica, a U.N.-declared "safe haven" for Bosnian Muslims. Similarly, the U.N. peace- keeping director in 1994 ignored a report from his field commander in Rwanda that a massive campaign of genocide was about to commence. Then U.N. Peacekeeping~Director Kofi Annan has since moved on to bigger and better things, while hundreds of thousands of Rwandans were murdered with machetes. The United States is now discovering first hand why the United Nations has turned a blind eye to genocide and why Saddam Hus- sein has been permitted to violate or ignore 17 different U.N. resolutions, including Resolu- tion 1441, passed in November. The United Nations is as weak as its members, and partic- ularly the five nations with veto power, want it to be. With deadlock characterizing the status quo, it takes tremendous effort on everyone's part to realize concrete action. Rather than approaching the crisis at hand in such a sophis- ticated manner, though, the administration is taking the opposite path. It may be true that France, Germany and Russia have motives rooted in self-interest as well as ones rooted in now back down and not remove Hussein, American prestige and influence will take a precipitous hit that will encourage current threats like North Korea, as well as spawn new ones as third world despots and terror organizations take solace in our inaction That said, will force ultimately be needed to disarm Saddam? The answer is very likely yes. Not once has Saddam followed universally-rec- ognized mores of both humanity and the inter- national system, and he shows no likelihood of ever doing so; however, the administration is mistaking a long term necessity for an immedi- ate threat. Saddam is not such a clear and pre- sent danger to justify our rash and perilous course of action. If the United States goes ahead into Iraq without fiat from the international community, at best the impertinence of the United Nations and the enmity of much of the world looms. If an unsanctioned invasion of Iraq turns into bloody house-to-house fighting, the damage done will reach far, far beyond the United States and may be impossible to repair. While it is true the potential for the administra- tion's best case scenario of a lightning victory and inspiring democracy throughout Middle East does exist, the lurking nightmare scenario demands we have the United Nations sanction an invasion to help rebut bin Laden-type extremists, rebuild Iraq and preserve the current international order. Bush's actions have created 0 THE BOONDOCKS i -UC nr-, r r Ar , A,,[niul, A' , 0 I. YES 1T I! ?ATS A4iV I NE W rN Y VON UT - vOU'RE 1