4 - The Michigan Daily - Friday, February 14, 2003 OP/ED Ubei *Itditgu arug 420 MAYNARD STREET ANN ARBOR, MI 48109 letters@michigandaily.com EDITED AND MANAGED BY STUDENTS AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN SINCE 1890 LOUIE MEIZLISH Editor in Chief AUBREY HENRETTY ZAC PESKOWITZ Editorial Page Editors Unless otherwise noted, unsigned editorials reflect the opinion of the majority of the Daily's editorial board. All other articles, letters and cartoons do not necessarily reflect the opinion of The Michigan Daily. NOTABLE QUOTABLE Legacy admissions give more to kids who already have more." - Sen. John Edwards (D-N.C.), on higher education admissions policies, as reported yesterday by The New York Times. SAM BUTLER TinE SOAPBOX S. 4is Soday=w _ o,11yy? yY- +t , r's one. --a- Z ss 4-aW iSS My Valentine to the house DAVID ENDERS WEIRD SCIENCE AM B E I R U T, Lebanon - I left for Beirut this week to spend my final semester abroad. In doing so, I became the ;... first of my roommates to officially depart Ann ' Arbor. Leaving college doesn't really bug me. I've said it before: If these really are the best years of my life, I'll kill myself by the time I'm 30. But I will miss the guys. A lot of my friends balked when I told them I was living, during my senior year of college, with five people who not only attended the same high school I did but the same middle school. It is a little odd. Most people I know try to get as far away from high school classmates as they can when they attend college. For a while, I did the same, save for living with Mike in the residence halls freshman year. I asked him to room with me because I was afraid if I went in blind there was a chance, however slim, I would get for a roommate another one of our classmates whom I couldn't stand. For the most part, though, I stayed away from people from high school when I got to col- lege. I still saw my roommates in Grand Rapids during vacations and occasionally at school, but mostly because we had football tickets together. I'm not sure what exactly brought me back. I guess I felt I had proven to myself I could survive without the comfort of people I had known for so long. More likely I was tired of a string of roommates I didn't know so well, who only after I had moved in revealed habits ranging from cocaine to sere- nading any girl I brought into the apartment with really bad '80s songs strummed on an out-of-tune guitar. My female friends would often refuse to come to my apartment during second semester of that year, and bringing dates home became out of the question. The strange thing is, my roommates and I have virtually nothing in common save our shared years in school. Andrew is the engi- neer who abstains from drinking and smok- ing and drew up the plans for the fire pole to take us from the third to the second floor when we heard our house was going to be torn down at the end of the year. He was even thoughtful enough to equip it with a trap door so none of the rest of us would fall down the hole while intoxicated.* Mike is the alpha male. He became the de facto coach of our intramural football team, which caused Josh to quit because he felt Mike was taking it too seriously. (Mike still stands by his decision to bench Josh, whose best play of the season was showing up late for the first game of the playoffs, just in time to give our team five players and avoid a double forfeit and save our season.) Josh is in the Business School. He's the only person I know who beatboxes in the shower. He never turns off the Food Channel and can tell you, on sight and at great distance, what year a pair of Air Jordans came out. Matt studies econ. I think he's all roided up, he swears he's not. We don't agree on much, and when he tells me he doesn't like a girl I'm dating I usually assume I'm dating the right kind of girl. Matt threw Josh through a door once in high school. When Mike gets drunk and starts a row, he runs to get Matt. Aaron studies psychology and Buddhism. He's headed to Tibet this summer. Catch his show freeform radio show at 1 a.m. Mondays on WCBN. The closest thing to a real theory on how the whole thing worked is that our disparate dispositions created some sort of balance. Sometimes I wondered if it was really as good as I made it out to be, but then one of our other friends would come over to the house sit next to me on the couch just to lis- ten to us bullshit. We know just how far to push each other. None of us ever hit on a girl one of the others brought home and we've played baseball in our living room. The dynamic was so comfortable we apparently set off matronly urges. A couple girls I know tried to adopt us like a tribe of Lost Boys. This is the first column this year I haven't written while sitting on our ratty sofa, smok- ing pot, feet propped on the coffee table that is no longer with us as a result of my going away party, weaving snippets of the conver- sation into whatever I'm complaining about. Sorry, guys, if I left some dishes in the sink. * Alas, the fire pole never materialized. Our slum - I mean, landlord, decided to rent the place out again. Enders can be reached at denders@umich.edu. LETTERS TO THE EDITOR MSA has abandoned the best interests of Ann Arbor tenants To THE DAILY: As the counseling director of the Ann Arbor Tenants Union, I am extremely dis- pleased with the Michigan Student Assem- bly's frequent mischaracterization of our organization. For over 30 years, the AATU has served University students and the Ann Arbor commu- nity by informing tenants of their rights and pro- tecting them from corrupt landlord practices. Now, MSA is using its "mandate" of student opinion (obtained through less than a quarter of the student vote) to deny the AATU funding for Winter semester. This action will have the immediate effect of denying University students benefits they have enjoyed long before any cur- rent MSA member was even born. MSA attempts to justify this decision with a series of statistics comparing the AATU's spending with the number of students we counsel per month. This statistic is terribly misleading because direct counseling consti- tutes a mere fraction of the services we pro- vide. The AATU has spoken at numerous residence hall events, set up counseling tables at the Michigan Union, and distributed hun- dreds of pamphlets helping University stu- dents rent an apartment for the first time. Furthermore, the majority of our spending results from MSA's decision to kick the AATU out of its office in the Union last spring. This action had two devastating con- sequences for the AATU. First, it decreased our intake by moving us to an unfamiliar location in the William Monroe Trotter House. Second, it required us to reprint all of our materials with the new AATU phone number and address. Leave it to MSA to punch a hole in the ship, and then blame the captain when it sinks. By effectively destroying the Ann Arbor Tenants Union, this year's MSA will establish a shameful legacy, and deprive Michigan tenants of an important ally for years to come. JEFF HoMumH Director of Counseling Ann Arbor Tenants Union Student Legal Services is not a viable substitute for the role of the AATU To THE DAILY: I was saddened to come across Joe Bern- stein's comment comparing Student Legal Services to the Ann Arbor Tenants Union in the Daily, AATU fights to keep funding, (02/12/03). He might believe that SLS is superior to the AATU because it supposedly "provides the same thing better and for free," but if SLS were to completely take over the AATU's tenant counseling duties, it would deprive many enthusiastic and interested students like myself of the oppor- tunity to counsel other students on impor- tant and prevalent matters. Mostly out of an interest in law and counseling, and partly out of a feeling of exploitation by a former landlord, I started volunteering with the AATU in October. I am proud to be part of the diligent team of people who has counseled every single stu- dent who has requested help in the past four months. Being able to learn about landlord- tenant laws and applying that knowledge to assist my peers has been a gratifying experi- ence, and has served as preparation for me and my possible future in law. The fact that Student Legal Services is staffed by lawyers rather than students does not necessarily make it a better resource for students than the AATU. Aside from giving students the chance to volunteer and gain experience in counseling, the AATU allows student tenants to approach peers who special- ize in landlord-tenant laws with problems and questions that do not require the assistance of a lawyer. My only hope is that MSA will real- ize how incredible and valuable the AATU is for student tenants and volunteers alike. CINDY PARK LSA senior VIEWPOINT 'U' should celebrate V-Day with education, activism BY ELSA MERSEREAU Look around you. Pick out five females. Statistics show that at least one of those five women will be victims of sexual assault at some point during their college careers. In America, a woman is raped every two min- utes. Around the world, one in three women have been beaten, coerced into sex or abused. Seventy-five percent of female rape victims require medical care after the attack. Internationally, two million girls between the ages of two and fifteen are introduced into the commercial sex market. By the time you finish reading this article a dozen women in America will be battered. Violence against women is happening everywhere. It is local and specific. It does not distinguish between class or race or age or locality. Rape doesn't exclusively take place in back alleys; it occurs in homes, tion. As a result, women spend most of their lives recovering from, resisting or surviving violence rather than creating and thriving. These facts are the reason why this cam- pus and thousands of other locations world- wide proclaim today as V-Day. Today, the University joins the global movement to stop violence against women and girls. V- Day has become a palpable energy, a fierce catalyst that promotes creative events to increase awareness, raise money and revital- ize the spirit of existing anti-violence orga- nizations. V-Day is an organized response against violence toward women. It is a vision of a world where women live safely and freely. The supporters of V-Day demand that rape, incest, battery, genital mutilation and sex slavery must end now. It is an unstoppable movement and community. The mission of V-Day is simple. It demands that the violence must end. It proclaims Valen- tinP'c Flav, 'c, VJ'lox, uil the xvinleonca otnnc 3:00 p.m. this international feminist activist will transform 1800 Chemistry Building into her vision: "V-World" where all women live in safety, no longer fearing violence. In V- World, where there exists no violence, women and children will be allowed to be born in China, India and Korea; safe in their 4 beds at home in the United States, Europe and Asia; eating ice cream in Afghanistan; keeping their clitorises in Africa and Asia; voting in Kuwait; openly flirting in Jordan; safe at parties on college campuses; driving cars in Saudi Arabia; securely walking home from work in Mexico; enjoying sex; celebrat- ing their desires; loving their bodies; thriving in an empowering world. I encourage you to imagine your own V- World. I challenge you to take a stand in the fight against violence. Get involved at today's V-Day rally, educate yourself during Eve Ensler's lecture, celebrate women at the pro- THE BOONDOCKS AARON McGRt WR