16B - The W'higan [Waiy - Weekett tc. Magazine -- Thiursday, Oftbber 7,'1999, a, ax i m i il 41M 4 . i i ORM A RELATIONSHIPS' Continued from Page 5B "I met a guy online who I found out attended my high school for a semester before transferring," said Katieso I figured he must be pret- ty normal. We met in person, got along pretty well, and began dating. But he was a little off, and after about two weeks of dating he began sending me hate e-mail for no rea- son. I had to block his mail and his instant messages." "One time I met a guy off AOL in a coffee shop," said Trent, an LSA junior. "He started writing me e- mails about how much he liked me and how wonderful I was. So I stopped writing to him and he got mad and wrote me all these mean notes about how he thought I was different than that." He added, "Everyone online claims to be 6'2", blond, athletic and 'the model type.' When you meet them in real life, they're like 5', 300 pounds and ugly." Aaron had an experience similar to those of Katie and Trent. "This girl ... e-mailed me based on my pro- file," he said. "After awhile, I finally UM School of Music Dept of Theatre & Drama a quirky comedy by 0 7pe George F. Walker agreed to meet her. Her brother was having a party at his house and she invited me. I was going to go, when she flipped on me. She called me any sort of name you could think of and called for my public execution. Needless to say, I never went to see her." The three, however, added that they had made good friends through the Internet, and Katie and Aaron both reported they had been intro- duced to significant others through their once-online friends. Michelle never stumbled upon the sort of strange incidents that Katie, Trent, and Aaron did, but she's become iaded toward the idea of online relationships. "A guy instant messaged me and we started talking . a few months later, we began talk- ing on the phone," she said. "Eventually, we tried to work out a way to meet face-to-face, since he lived in another state. However, that never worked out and in hindsight, I'm glad it didn't. In the end I real- ized just how unrealistic and stupid the entire idea was ... I will never get involved in another online relation- ship." So, good idea or bad idea: Is there a final verdict'? The opinions differ, but anyone considering engaging in a relationship online should consider all the drawbacks, not just the appealing cloak of anonymity the Internet provides. SHOPPING Continued from Page 12B lars of discount over buying the same products from the stores. The only major benefit in these cases is conve- nience. But the world of internet com- puter sales is a quantum leap apart. Because computers are big-ticket items, there is more room for an internet company to play with the price and knock off some significant dineros. Companies like Affordable Computers can offer such ample discounts simply because the World Wide Web has exter- minated the cost of the go-between. "If we are doing a good job," said Elder, "our phone never rings, we just get an c- mail telling us that we sold a computer." Elder did concede, however, that the growing trend of virtual customization is in fact most suited to "computer savvy" shoppers, who comprise about 50 percent of the student population. So what options are there for a student who needs a computer, but has no idea where to start? Well, that's O.K. with AffordableComputers.com, who offers "computer buying guide" and "help me choose" options that offer suggestions as to what shoppers should look for based on their answers to some simple questions. But is shopping on the Internet safe? Many students have qualms about send- ing their credit card and personal infor- mation over the information superhigh- way. Is there any guarantee that vital stats won't fall into the wrong hands? Then the-e's the delightful world of Internet "spam"; the last thing a busy student needs is loads ofjunk mail for a welcome as they turn on their computer. Well, it will be a relief to learn that while not 100 percent hack-proof, most private infornmation is protected accu- rately enough to make cracking the code a substantial task. AOL uses 64-b encryption, and this is the standard of protection for the internet shopper. Online banking institutions and govern- ment businesses whose files contain more personal information about their customers are encrypted with 125 bits, and indication that corporations are stepping up to the plate to secure inter- net privacy. Many companies also offer the option for the buyer to call up an 800 number and give a telephone oper- ator their necessary information if they still don't feel comfortable sending it over the web. The old saying "the world is at your fingertips" has really become quite lit- eral in the last five years. Today's stu- dents will tomorrow buy stocks, get a mortgage, and view XXX porn all with- out ever having to get up from a cozy office chair. It's increasingly becoming less and less possible to get anywhere in today's culture without being internet- literate. So like it or not, it's advisable to start surfing, because the future of the world is in high gear on the screen in front of your (and no, that doesn't mean the television). this ) L One family's BIZARRE struggle to hold on for dear life. play contains adult language and themes October 7 - 9, 14 - 16 at 8pm October 10 & 17 at 2pm