LOCAL/STATE I ne Micnigan Daily - Thursday, March 11, 1999 - 7A i ;e 0 GROESBECK Continued from Page :1A "I'm sure he came to her rescue when she cut her wrists," Vicki Hill said. Art Hill, Groesbeck's stepfather, said Qureshi had threatened to commit suicide many times before if Groesbeck were to break off the relationship. The family is devastated, Vicki Hill said, but her son's friends and family have con- tructed a tight support network to cope with the tragedy. "We're grateful to have known him for those 22 years," Vicki Hill said. "We all learned a lot from Chris, he was a teacher." LSA senior Gayle Giffin worked with Groesbeck during the summer of 1997 at the Executive Residence in the Executive Education Center. "He was the sweetest," Giffin said, adding hat Groesbeck's kind, gentle and positive ersonality made his co-workers warm to him. "The news of his death has greatly sad- dened those at the Executive Residence who had the opportunity to work with and know lhim," Giffin said. Groesbeck's friend, Nick Sadowski, who grew up with Groesbeck in Sterling Heights, said he was, "someone who was really caring to his family and riends." WSadowski also said his friend loved to travel and hoped to have a future teaching job that would allow him to visit other coun- tries. Groesbeck fulfilled a long-time dream this past summer when he visited Europe, Sadowski said. After returning from that trip, he said, Groesbeck realized he did not want a relationship with Qureshi any longer. Vicki Hill also remembered the first time her son tried to break-up with Qureshi in August or September of last year. "He use to call me on the phone ... He was so confused," Hill said. "She pretty much wanted him all to herself. She loved him dearly," Vicki Hill said. Vicki Hill said she recalls the couple as being happy for the first year of their relationship, adding that Qureshi's rela- tionship with the Hill family was also good. "I took her into my home," she needed someone to listen to her, Vicki Hill said. Art Hill also said Qureshi was welcomed into the family's home. She was a good conversationalist and seemed to lack a family to love, he said, adding that she portrayed her relation- ship with her parents as distant and cold. Qureshi tried to create that distance between Groesbeck and his friends by accusing his friends of flirting with her, Vicki Hill said. Qureshi used fabricated stories to con- vince Groesbeck not to see his friends, she said. "Gradually, one-by-one, he wrote off his, friends because of the stories she told him," Vicki Hill said. "His friends offered to take a lie detector test." She cited letters found by Groesbeck's friends and step-father after her son's death in his apartment as evidence of the manipu- lation he suffered. In a letter Qureshi wrote just after a break-up late last summer, she addresses the "situation" with Groesbeck's friends. Qureshi writes that she refuses to have any further contact with them. "If you truly care about us and desire a future for our relationship, you have to learn how to act in the best interest for our relationship immediately," Qureshi wrote, double-underlining the last word. Excerpts from a letter given to Chris Groesbeck by Natasha Qureshi in the summer of 1998: "I feel like a better person, or at least that I have the desire and potential to be one. Now, the hard part is trying to behave and life (sic) my life to become that way." "Chris, I love you very much and want very much to get through all this bullshit with- out any scratches to our relationship." "I never told her (Qureshi's mother) anything about my life, even though it was around my destructive incident with Vince." "So, with the situation with you and I, I just became the listener again, even though I was as much in pain as you were. What this trip has taught me is that I don't want to be a passive product of my (sad) environment anymore." "I no longer want to continue to be a victim, sit in my situation and comfort you, even though I'm suffering. I also have to be firm with you." .... you have to show me some strength and respect and stand up for yourself, myself, and our wavering relationship RIGHT NOW, if you care for me still I don't and will not stay In an unhealthy relationship.... "l.want us to work all this out and I want to see the strong Chris that I know you're capable of being .... I don't want to live with a pipe dream of you as a knight in shin- ing armour- I only want it if you're capable of it." The letter - given to The Michigan Daily byfriends of Chris Groesbeck - was found in his apartment shortly after his death. It was written after an attempt by Groesbeck to end his relationship with Qureshi following separate trips by each to Europe. HANSEN Continued from Page1A n't run against the other guy. I just ran for myself, Hansen said. Hansen is one of 64 new members who were ushered into the legislature this term by term limits. With Republicans contro- ling both legislative houses and the governor's seat, Hansen said he has quickly learned his place in the power structure. "The saying, 'absolute power corrupts absolutely.' that's how it feels to be a freshman" member, Hansen said. "I don't think it's real healthy for us as a state " Expanding on his dissatisfaction with the issue of parti- sanship, Hansen expressed his concern with the way Engler has shaped his party's presence in the legislature. Citing Engler's unusually long career in politics, Hansen said he worries that Engler may possess too much power. "When you're in it that long, you create an institution in the image of yourself" he said. "He can steer the resources in the state to support who he wants." And Engler isn't the only one participating in partisan pol- itics, Hansen said, as he described the typical scene on the house floor. "Nobody does anything. Nobody pays attention to any- thing. We all talk on the phone, visit with people, go to the bathroom," he said. "Because when the time comes to vote, we know which button we're going to push." Hansen also addressed Engler's plan, which has created tension throughout the state, to turn the control of the Detroit public schools over to Detroit Mayor Dennis Archer. Despite a strong public outcry against the measure, including an I I - hour forum for public comments held yesterday, Hansen said there will be no surprises when the votes are cast. "We're going to do something to Detroit - I'd feel better if we were doing it for Detroit, but we're doing it to Detroit- - and the vote is gong to be 58 to 52. That's just the way it is;' he said. After beginning his college career at the University in 1961, Hansen spent more than 30 years working in the public school system as a teacher, counselor and superintendent of the Dexter Public Schools system. As the only legislator who has ever "managed a school," Hansen said he might be able to offer help if he is allowed to take part in the discussion. "I am burdened with knowledge of this subject; I am burst- ing with experience,"he said. "I am not at the table." Ann Arbor Mayor Ingrid Sheldon also addressed the crowd yesterday morning. State Rep. Liz Brater (D-Ann Arbor) and State Sen. Alma Wheeler Smith were scheduled to speak but did not. In the same paragraph she condemns him for having contact with a female friend. "I would feel terribly hurt and violat- ed if either you made contact with her or if you responded favorably to any contact she makes with you," Qureshi wrote. There is no specification as to the nature of the relationship with Groesbeck's female acquaintance. Art Hill said all the letters he and Groesbeck's close friends found in the apartment proved that behind Qureshi's composed exterior was a unstable and mentally ill person. Each letter ended with comments like "We will be togeth- er forever." But he said after reading the letters and learning about Qureshi's instability, he still never imagined the relationship would have ended like this. The cartoons and Raiders games Groesbeck was fond of were also not accepted by Qureshi, Vicki Hill said adding that Qureshi tried to stop her son from watching them. But Vicki Hill said, "when it came to the Raiders it could have been Jdsus Christ and the game would have went on." 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