_____The Michigan Daily - Monday, December 5, 1994--7 WINDSOR ontinued from page 1. and in class," Sunny said. "It's ex- actly the opposite of what I experi- enced in Korea." There, she said, ,under a Confucianist value system, the professor is "the king." Here;she said, the relationship is more equal. But she also faced disillusionment: Before arriving, she said, she had ac- *epted the. image of tolerant, multicultural diversity painted by her American friends in Korea, but what she found was a distinct American culture uninterested in her very differ- ent origins. Most Americans asked her what kind of music she liked, what her fa- vorite foods were. Only a few people ever took the time to ask about her life in Korea. Only one really listened to *ler answers: Kevin Roest. Kevin and Sunny both lived in the University's Oxford Housing, on Geddes road.Often, when Sunny would go to the library to study, she would find Kevin there, working diligently on his engineering homework. They studied, but they also took time out for long conversations and over the months, the relationship blos- *omed into a deep friendship. Sunny reflected, "It wasn't pas- sionatelove; it didn't start that way." Eventually, Kevin asked Sunny to marry him. At the time, Sunny says now, she felt lost. Money was running low, and America, though nice, still treated her like a stranger. She had to return to Korea to earn money for school. She told Kevin to wait. She spent six months last year in South Korea teaching English and sav- ing nioney. All the while, she consid- ered her American friend's proposal. "I wanted to marry him, but I tried to be extra, extra, extracareful," Sunny explained. She eventually returned to the Uni- versity and to Kevin. She explained to him the potential problems she saw in a relationship like theirs. If he could put up with them, she said, she would marry him. On Valentines' Day this year, he gave her an engagement ring. Tying the knot (with red tape) Kevin knew that he and his wife- to-be needed advice. They had heard of the University's International Cen- ter, which advises foreign students and coordinates educational programs for University students abroad. This summer, before their wedding, the young couple met with Interna- tional Center adviser Jim Montgom- ery. Among other things, they inquired about the possibility of Sunny working and the status of Sunny's student visa after their wedding. Kevin and Sunny said they were told the visa would still be valid after their wedding, and oncemarried, they could file papers of petition for perma- nent residency for Sunny, a precursor to citizenship. They asked general questions and got general answers. Charlene Schmult, an International Center foreign student adviser, said the couple was given the answers to the questions they asked. "When somebody comes in as a foreign student, the (immigration) rules and regulations are so complex, people are given information on a need-to- know basis," Schmult said. Schmult added that the couple never mentioned they planned to honeymoon in Canada. That, said Schmult, would have set off alarms. Sunny and Kevin were married in church on Aug. 7 of this year. Sunny's parents, Il-Sang Kim and Tae-Yong Kang, flew in from South Korea. At the reception, guests danced to the sounds of a big band. On Aug. 8, the newlyweds em- barked on a week-long honeymoon in Ontario. There was no problem enter- ing Canada that day, but the couple hit a snag at the American border a week later. At the border crossing in Detroit, the customs official, upon learning that they were married, denied Sunny en- try. Unknown to Kevin and Sunny, her student visa had expired the moment the two were married. When Sunny attempted to re-enter the United States, this fact changed her status dramatically. In the eyes of INS, Sunny was no longer only a student. By getting married, she was effectively announcing her intention to remain in the United States permanently. Immigration officials at the border gave Kevin papers, which they told him to file with American officials in Toronto. The couple drove to Toronto, where officials told them the papers must be filed in Detroit. Thus began the bureaucratic nightmare of establishing residency for Sunny. The long road home The Roests began to pull all the, strings they could think to pull. They hired John Semaan, a De- troit-based immigration lawyer, to help them file the appropriate papers properly. They contacted the offices of U.S. Rep. Joe Knollenberg, Michigan's U.S. Sens, Carl Levin and Don Riegle, and the U.S. Ambassa- dor to Canada, former Michigan Gov. Jim Blanchard. Kevin's mother, Diane, sent a letter to Hillary Rodham Clinton, appealing for her help. Mrs. Roestalso contacted Jim Mont- gomery at the University's Interna- tional Center and reminded him of the advice he had given the young couple. "I thought, theU-Mcan help her; they're powerful,they're big," said Mrs. Roest, her voice wavering. But there's little the University can do. The decision rests solely in the hands of the INS, which is bound by a Byzantine web of federal regulations. Even the offices of the lawmakers con- tacted by the Roests acknowledge they are severely limited. Rep. Knollenberg's chief of staff, Paul Welday, said his office has sent letters to the American consulate in New York and the INS service center in Lincoln, Neb., urging haste. "There are some rules that apply to this situation, and there's a line they have to get in," Welday said. "We have to work within the rules that apply to this situation." The line Sunny is waiting in is a long one, indeed. On Sept.30, INS sent Semaan a notice that Sunny's applica- tion had been received and was being considered. They informed Semaan that "it usually take45 to 135 days from the date of this receipt for us to process this type of case." Welday said, "The rules are pretty clear, but we're going to see this thing all the way through, and keep the INS on its timetable." That would be no small feat. In a series of articles appearing Sept. 11 through 15,TheNew YorkTimes called the INS "the most troubled agency in the federal government." The Times reported the agency was "hobbled by understaffing, underfinancing, conflicting mandates from Congress and widespread mis- management failures." So Sunny may run out of time. Upon entering Canada Aug. 8, her visa was stamped by Canadian customs of- ficials, but no expiration date was in- cluded. Under Canadian law, her tem- porary visa (indicated by the stamp) will be valid for six months, or until Feb.8, 1995. If Sunny fails to gain entry to the United States by that date, and if she cannot get an extension of the tempo- Sunny Kim Roest's parents, ll-Sang Kim and Tae-Yong Kang, flew in from South Korea for their daughter's Aug. 7 wedding. rary visa, Sunny said she faces depor- tation to South Korea. "It's going to be right to the wire," Kevin said. The Roests say some people have suggested simply sneaking Sunny back into Michigan at another crossing, but the risks are too high. If caught, immigration officials could confiscate the car and deport Sunny to South Korea. After an at- tempted illegal entry, Sunny would have little hope of ever entering the United States again.. Furthermore, INS officials consid- ering her petition for permanent resi- dency know that Sunny is supposed to be in Canada. It became clear to the Roests that Sunny was not returning home any time soon. What went wrong. In short, the couple crossed inter- national borders. "They didn't know what they didn't know," Schmult said. To U.S. citizens, Schmult said, the U.S.-Canadian border is like crossing any other river. It's easy to get across and back, and Americans don't realize thatin reality, crossing the bordermakes a huge difference legally. If Sunny had not left the United States, Schmult said, she would have been able to continue studying while awaiting approval to become a perma- nent resident. Sunny's problems stem from simply crossing the border. Mrs. Roest has become frustrated with a wide variety of people while trying to recover her daughter-in-law from Canada., But mostly, she said, she has seen enough of the red tape at INS. "It's a round circle," Roest said, "You call Immigration and you get nothing but recordings." Kevin agreed. "You can hold for an officer, but no one ever answers." The only solution is to be armed with the appropriate knowledge. Sunny said, "I think every international stu- dent is entitled to a comprehensive guide," explaining what they might need to know and whatdocuments they must carry. Herhusband agreed. "This is some- thing that people should know about; it is kind of unbelievable," Kevin said. U .. Assigning blame for Sunny's situ- ation won't bring her home any earlier. She waits now in Windsor, to see whether INS works quickly enough to bring her back to her husband and new family in South Lyon. In the meantime, there is little for her to do but wait until Wednesday, when her husband can visit her again. TheRoestscametothemediawiththis story, they said, not to settle any scores or speed things along. They said theirgoal is to forewarn other students who may be pondering asimilarmaniage. Schmult said while situations like this occur only occasionally, people are still stranded all too often. In fact, Schmult added that, as of about two weeks ago, "We have another Korean wife stuck in Windsor." 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