6 - The Michigan Daily - SPORTSMonday - Monday, November 22, 1993 STANLEY Continued from Page 1 gest that Stanley, would develop into the maniacal terror of a football player that he has become. Few knew that he would perform to such consistently high standards that his coach, defensive coordinator Lloyd Carr, would be led to hold the opinion that "if he's not All-Big Ten, then the All-Big Ten team is meaningless." It probably was not very easy to believe that this economy-sized child full of laughs and mischief would be- come the captain of a storied football team, a player who would command the lasting respect and earn the trust and friendship of his 100-plus teammates. There was little evidence then, and to know him only as Buster Stanley, the senior who is about to receive his Sports Management and Communications de- gree, there is little evidence today. After all,.his roommate of five years, Alfie Burch describes his buddy as "a big, jolly Santa Claus-looking person. That's what I call him. When I first met him, I was like, 'You're a big teddy bear. A big ole Santa Claus."' Yetdespite these apparent obstacles - after all, how many big, jolly Santa Claus-looking defensive tackles are there? - Stanley has become all of these things that once seemed so incon- gruous to him: a terrific football player, a candidate for numerous postseason honors, a highly-respected captain of the Michigan football team. Truth be known, though, the poten- tial for him to reach these achievements has probably been there all along. It is just that these facets of his character blended into the blinding brilliance of his easygoing personality and forever- upbeat outlook on life. It was like trying to focus on the glow of a 1,000-watt bulb while look- ingdirectly into awhite-hotsearch light. The light bulb was shining brighter and brighter; you just couldn't see it. ** Sylvester Stanley went into the cel- lar and clapped his hands, overjoyed. His son, who bore his name but whom everyone called Buster, had just com- pleted a 180-degree about-face by an- nouncing his plans to go to college. The elder Stanley had been hoping for this day all along, discreetly pushing and nudging the son toward the decision. SylvesterStanley worked endlessly forhischildren, Marcella and Buster. In addition to working the 6p.m. to 4am. shift at a nearby General Motors plant four days a week, he worked sidejobs to earn extra money in hopes of providing for his children's college education. With his wages, plus the salary drawn by wife Theodora, a licensed practical nurse, Sylvester managed to put Marcella through the University of Akron with nary aconcern about work- study commitments or trying to finish school ahead of time to save money. "There are things that I believe they sacrificed for us," Marcella says. "We were comfortable - it wasn't bad or anything - but they've done things that they didn't have to do for us." Perhaps too many things. "You don't care about me, you care about the kids,"Theodora Stanley would scold, half-jokingly. "Well, they're mine," her husband would counter, half-jokingly. In addition to the extra jobs of con- struction -working on houses and at a scrap yard- Sylvester Stanley drove a dump truck. In the summertime, that is where he put Buster, hoping he might get the hint that this truck was where he would be headed without a college di- ploma. Eventually, Buster fell into line with Dad's line of thinking. "That's what changed the story, because he didn't like all the hard work," Sylvester recalls. And so after years of proclaiming to his parents that "college isn't forevery- body," Buster Stanley one day an- nounced to his mother, "I'm going to college." Sylvester Stanley probably wanted to grab his son and give him the hug of his life, buthedidn'tthink thatwouldbe fair. "I wasn't going to push him to go," he says. So Sylvester went into the cellar and clapped his hands. This, he believes, is when the fire was lit in his son's belly. .** The heat of a Youngstown summerI was sometimes oppressive. It was on the hottest of those summer days whenI Stanley, still in high school, would im- press his father the most.s "Daddy, I'm gonna go make myc payday bigger," Stanley would yell as he headed out for a training run underc the blistering sun. His sister noticed the effort as well.t "We had weights in our basementI and he would come home after school and lift," Marcella says. "On the week-c ends, he was always in the basement ifl he wasn't running."t And before Stanley'sdays atYoung-I stown East High School were over, he was attracting the attention of plenty of people other than his father and sister. Stanley had just about every major college program beating a path to Youngstown. The Detroit Free PressE placed him on the "Best of the Mid-i west" team. UPI named him its Line- man of the Year.1 Only a couple of years after telling his parents that college wasn't for ev-I erybody, Stanley was showing that, at1 the least, it was for him. In the spring of 1989, after a drawn- out process, Stanley chose Michigan, over Ohio State and Michigan State, inI part because Ann Arbor reminded him1 of Youngstown. He was off to college.c He would room with the friend he had made through battles on the footballI field and basketball court, the friendi who announced his intention to play forI Michigan only a day before Stanley< did, Alfie Burch, of Warren, Ohio. I It was a fall day years removed from the excitement ofsigning day, and there1 was no excitement anywhere near teamI captain Buster Stanley.< He was wearing the same color uni-I form as the guys on the field, but he didc not recognize them. As the closing min- utes of Michigan's 42-21 win overI Houston slowly vanished, so too did Stanley's patience.s Houston's quarterback, Chuck Clements, was shredding the Michigan second- and third-stringers. This was a freshman - a freshman! -making his first start, playing at Michigan, and he was embarrassing the Wolverines. 4 "Sitting on the sidelines, Ijust knewi that wasn' tMichigan'sdefense out there playing," Stanley would say later. i To most observers, Clements' 276-1 yard, two-touchdown day was not a big1 deal. Michigan was still tuning up, and rusty from the week off. The seasonI was still young. Why worry?; To Stanley, it was a very big deal. "They shouldn'thave scored apoint on us," he says.; He had waited four years for this, his senior season. This was the pinnacle of the Michigan football experience, the year when players assume the mantle of leadership and show what they've learned and what they can do. But this chance had to be earned first. "Ever since I've been a freshman, you gave your all for the seniors," he explains. "And when your time comes, the underclassmen turn to give their all for you." Maybe the second- and third-string- ers were giving it their all, but they weren'tdoing ittherightway,theMichi- gan way. "It just felt different. I just felt it wasn't there," he says. Something had tobedone. But what? And by whom? Was Stanley going to do it? After all, when he had been elected captain, he told his teammates, "I might need a little help out there, because y'all know that I don't talk that much." But in the end, it was Stanley, and he didn't need help from anyone. Stanley called a defensive players-only meet- ing for the next day at Schembechler Hall. "I just felt that we needed to talk," he recalls. Stanley spoke first, and then yielded the floor to the rest of the team. Seniors did most of the talking, and the air was cleared. The defense could move on. . "I was thinking, 'I see why he's captain," says Will Carr, a freshman lineman. "You could tell in the way everybody played the following week." The next week, with Stanley deliv- ering a Big Ten Player-of-the-Week performance, the Michigandefense lev- eled Iowa in a 24-7 victory. Stanley was in on 10 tackles, including two sacks. "Guys look up to Buster," junior linebacker Bobby Powers said after the game. "That's how he is." But before guys ever looked up to Buster, Busterlookedup to Mike Evans. Like they do with all freshmen, in Stanley's first year, the Michigan coaches advised him to try and choose a worthy upperclassman whose lead he could follow. Stanley saw Evans - a defensive tackle who walked onto the team as a freshman and fought his way into a scholarship and starting position -and decided he couldn't do much better. Both of them liked to joke around off the field but were serious on it. Though Evans wasn't a captain, he helped Stanley all the same. "When you're afreshman, you have so much stuff to learn, and especially when you start playing in the games, you're more responsible to learn it," he explains. "He'd just tell me, 'You'll get it. Just keep hustling.' "I really hung around Mike Evans a lot. He's like a big brother to me," Stanley adds. "He's taught me a lot because he went through a lot at the University of Michigan." Evans' investment in Stanley could not have paid off better. During the August practice sessions, the Michigan players voted Stanley and running back Ricky Powers co-captains. Neither has disappointed in their role. "I thought that leadership-wise, we had two remarkable captains a year ago in Chris Hutchinson and Corwin Brown," assistant Lloyd Carr says. "I can honestly say that Buster Stanley has been every bit as remarkable. " "What a great leader," said coach Gary Moeller at Saturday's press con- ference after Michigan's 28-0 victory over Ohio State. "What a great leader. He's a super leader and he was a big part of everything that happened this year." "It's an honor that they think so highly of me," Stanley says of his team- mates. "When they picked me as their captain, I said I wasn't going to let them down." He hasn't, and just as Evans did with him, Stanley is passing the torch. The handoff began as early as last year, when Stanley was introduced to differ- ent recruits and began to take a personal interest in them. Stanley met Will Carr on a recruit- ing visit, and from that point on began making an impression on the likeable freshman from Dallas. Before he moved into South Quad this fall, Carr lived with Stanley in his apartment, each day talking, laughing and learning from the captain. They would also often venture out together, and the fun-loving pair would play their games on unsuspecting victims. "We kind of had this thing going where we used to tell girls that we were brothers," Carr recalls, laughing. "So people would see me and say, 'There goes Buster's little brother."' Denson, the lineman who at first was surprised with Stanley's jovial na- ture, learned firsthand the other side of his personality after Michigan's loss to Notre Dame earlier this season. "I had always been used to doing things on my own and not having to look to anyone for guidance," Denson said. "But Buster, after the Notre Dame game-we had gotten some injuries- he took me aside and said, 'Look Damon, you've been working hard, but you're gonna have to play earlier than we expected you to play. Keep improv- ing and working hard each week."' But the team did not vote him cap- tainjustbecauseof whathe said in team meetings, or because he took freshmen aside for pep talks. They elected him not for what he said in those situations, but because of what he said through his intensity each and every fall Saturday. He is a changed man on those days, beginning the moment he enters the locker room and sits by himself, medi- tating and quietly working himself into a state where he is ready to play. And this drive carries out onto the field. Burch remembers the last Ohio State game at Michigan Stadium, in 1991. Before the game, he and Stanley were sitting on the bench, so fired up, so ready to get it on with the Buckeyes. They looked at each other. "We started crying," Burch says. "The intensity was so overwhelming, we had tears in our eyes." And his teammates voted him cap- tain for the incredible volume of work he puts in for each season, each game. "He puts so much into it in the offseason in terms of running and lift- ing. His conditioning has been abso- lutely remarkable," Lloyd Carr says. "He came in this year in remarkable physical condition." As Burch says, effort like that is all you need and speaks better than any speech ever could. "Hepays his duesoffofthe field. He puts time in lifting, he puts time in watching extra film," Burch explains. "That's the type of leader you want on a team. There's not anything you need to say when you see someone do some- thing like that. What can you say to criticize aperson who's putting in more time than you are." And this season has provided his teammates one more reason to think highly of him. He has put together afine season to cap a very solid career. Leading Michigan to its victory over Ohio State should put to rest any of those doubts. The coaching staff has named him Defensive Champion three times this season, and Stanley earned Big Ten Player of the Week for the Iowa game. He has46 tackles, theteam- high for linemen. In a season in which the defense has suffered countless inju- ries, Stanley has been the glue that has held it together. He plans to try to achieve his dream of playing professional football next spring, and his coaches figure he can make it. "I absolutely think he has a chance to make it in the NFL because of his work ethic and his love for the game," Carr predicts. "He plays the game, in my opinion, like it was meant to be played." After Saturday's victory, Moeller spoke emotionally of his captain who had just played his last game in Michi- gan Stadium. "The thing that you always remem- ber and you look at is that there are some guys that are leaving," Moeller began. "I mean, why does Buster Stanley dang near before every game sit there in tears?" "He wants to play so bad. He's going to leave. He won't have this again. You guys want to write some- thing? You tell some pro team to jump on him because that's a tough man. I'm telling you that. He could go for IBM or the NFL, I don't care which." But take away the leadership and the ability, and there would still be the great respect from all sides. Because before he was captain Buster, he was just Buster, everybody's friend. Simply for being a funny and easy- going person, and perhaps more impor- tantly, for being a friend of the highest order, Stanley is probably the most popular player on the Michigan foot- ball team. "* They were only sophomores then, Stanley, Burch, wide receiver Derrick DOUGLAS KANTER/Daily Stanley with his father, Sylvester Sr., and the rest of his family. Alexander and safety Tony Blankenship. They, as well as defen- sive lineman Ninef Aghakhan, were just beginning to form a tight friend- ship. This day, though, the four of them werejustregular college students, piled intoBlankenship and Alexander's South Quad dorm room, laughing and making cracks at one another. "We used to call him 'Sly,' like Sylvester Stallone. And in our laughter, kidding around, we had a little slip of the tongue, and it came out 'Sleemin' instead of 'Sly,' and we've been calling him that ever since," says Burch, trying mightily to refrain from bursting out into laughter. "We say to him, 'You're just like a big Sleemin, you'rejustlike abig dino- saur. We call him a little baby dinosaur, too. There's a lot of things we kid him about, about being like that. He's just so jolly. There's nothing you can say bad about him, so you've just got to say something stupid. You just gotta say something crazy." Burch left the room dubbed "The Great Oofness," Alexander "Pretty D," and Blankenship "Tiny B." The names did not mean very much, although their usage surfaces every now and then. It was just guys relaxing, hanging out, being silly, something forwhichStanley is first-team All-America. He has been perfecting his form since he was akid, when he had the silly part down, but needed work with the relaxing and hanging out. His mother remembers Buster's kindergarten's days well. "I used to get a note almost every- day or acall from the teacher becausehe wouldn't stay in his seat," she remem- bers. "He talked all the time and he moved all the time. He was just busy. He would play with a toy for two sec- onds and then he'd throw that toy aside and he'd get something else." Then there were the times when Theodora would leave Buster and sister Marcella with his grandmother, who lived close by. To say Buster was a bundle would be an understatement. The child was more like$150ofgrocer- ies in easy-tear bags. "When I was a little kid I used to go over to her house and bust up every- thing," he said. His sister remembers him raiding the cupboards and running around the house, always one step ahead of his grandmother. "He'd break stuff and he'd go somewhere and we couldn't find him. He just got into everything," she said. "(My grandmother) would make me go wherever my mother went," Buster added. "She would watch my sister but she wouldn't watchme. She waslike,'I love you, baby, but you're too bad.' I was just busting stuff. So that's where I got the name Buster." Eventually, Stanley began to calm down, becoming more and more like his laid-back father, the elder Sylvester. Buster says he is a lot like his parents. They have passed on their friendly, take-life-as-it-comes natures to bothhim and his sister. "Everybody's always like, 'Why are you so happy all the time, smiling and everything?"' Stanley says. "The only time I'm mean is when I'm play- ing football. Otherwise, I'd rather be happy." By the time junior high and high school rolled around, when he wasn't on the playing fields, he was into more leisurely pursuits, like inviting friends to watch movies. "They would just be watching the movies on cable," Theodora Stanley says. "They always used to order pizza and pop. That was their big thing, pizza and pop. Maybe on Saturdays, they'd go out to the mall. That was their big excitement." And when he was by himself, he IP I T P F Name: Buster Stanley Team: Football Weight: 6-foot-2 _ . Height: 285 read a lot of comic books and watched a lot of cartoons, two pastimes he still enjoys today. "It's the kid in me, Iguess," he says* The X-Men is his favorite comic. He has become an avid comic book collector and was a diehard fan of the X- Men cartoon until the program was canceled. That was hardly enough, though, to keep him away from the television set. "I like all types ofcartoons, itdoesn't matter," he says. "I could put on the Cartoon Channel and I could watch it all day." These days, Stanley has other sources ofamusement, namelyhisteam- mates. With all the time they spend togetherduring the summer,during two- a-days in August, during the season and then during spring practice, the players get to know one another very well. Having been around for over four years, Stanley has developed a keen sense for what gets under the skin of his team@ mates. Armed with this encyclopedic knowledge, Stanley puts it to use daily. To wit, running back Tyrone Wheatley. "He's ticklish," Stanley says. "I'll say, 'You leave me alone, or I'll tickle you.' And he'll say, 'Alright, man, Ill quit.' That's one thing he doesn't like.. He hates to be tickled." And offensive lineman Trezelle "Tree" Jenkins: "Tree doesn't like to get picked on. We go through this drill, one-on-one pass rush. I'll be like, 'Oh Tree, I beat you today, dog. Tree, you just got whipped.' And he'll get mad and say, 'Oh, you didn't do nothin', you didn't do nothin."' And he is funny even when he doesn't mean to be. Earlier this season, Lloyd Carr was reviewing film of th@ Purdue game with his defense. On' a certain play, a Boilermaker runner eluded several tackles, including a fu- tile attempt by cornerback Ty Law. "After the play was over, you could see on film where Buster hit Ty Law in the back of the head and told bird, 'Don't you ever miss any more tack- les,"' Will Carr recalls. "When it hap- pened, it wasn't funny, but when yo. look atiton film, you're like, 'Oh, man, that was funny."' Lloyd Carr kept rewinding the epi- sode and replaying it, rewinding and replaying. The film room was in hyster- ics, and no doubt, Stanley was roaring, laughing his trademark laugh and grin- ning his trademark grin. They are perhaps the most charm- ing aspect of his personality. He hasat- easy smile and laugh, and they are a infectious pair. "He has that real sheepish smile' his mother points out. "He smiles all thF time." "He just gives his usual laugh, his little, 'Ha-ha-ha,"' describes Burch; mimicking Stanley's chuckle in a fal- setto voice. "Then the little grin of his. We make fun of him all the time. "You'll interview him," continue Burch, explaining Stanley's approac toreporters. "You might say, 'What led you to be so good right now?' And he'll go 'Aha-ha-ha.' He'll start laughing. He's not boastful at all. I think he just views things as being humoroustohim." Not surprisingly, in his senior year atYoungstown East, Stanley was voted to have the best smile. But it is not only the smile and the laughs that have endeared him so muc* to his teammates. His roommate of fivp years, Burch, can probably best explain it. "Off the football field, he's one of the most pleasant people I know. He'd do anything for any of his friends. I DOUGLAS KANTERiDaily Stanley runs under the "Go Blue" banner at Michigan Stadium for the last time Saturday. The Princeton Review can help you prepare, and help the homeless at the same time. If you enroll before December 25, and bring in 2 canned goods or two articles of winter Uowl s"ra"iremO" w s i . w i { I