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8 - The Michigan Daily - Weekend etc. - Thursday, September 16, 1993
Chef Boyardee, Uncle Ben... Meet My Mother
By COLLEEN OLLE
Mom was right. In certain situa-
tions,just saying "No" is not the thing to
do.
A month ago a kid from a camp
where I had worked sent me a letter
saying he accepted the offer I'd made
before we returned to Ann Arbor. In a
moment's weakness, when I imagined
leaving behind the camp's taco pizzas
and watery, red Zippy juice for my own
microwave meals, I offered to hire him
as my cook. The kid wrote that he'd
recently made grilled chicken with corn,
mashed potatoes and apple cinnamon
and blueberry muffins. His resume also
included hamburgers,French fries, cres-
cent rolls and "plenty of other juicy
things." He backed up his claims of
culinary aptitude with references: "Lqts
of people who have tasted my food say
they love it (my dad says I get it from
him) and come back for more." Apple
cinnamon muffins. Grilled chicken. I
never cook such delicacies for myself.
Should I hire him? What would my
mom say? She'd say, "Can't you cook
for yourself yet?"
If Mom had gone to her Maker,
she'd be rolling in her grave at the
culinary atrocities her 22-year-old
daughter commits in the kitchen. Since
she's alive, she merely rolls her eyes,
sighs when she learns that I finally
know how to poach an egg and then.
mails me anothercookbook. Mom gave
me my first cookbook on my 13th birth-
day -"The Nancy Drew Cookbook,"
chock-full of intriguing concoctions like
Lilac Inn Consomm6 and Fire Dragon
Spiced Fruit. Mom undoubtedly hoped
I would devour the recipes as eagerly as
I did Carolyn Keene's mystery novels.
Granted, the recipes described delec-
table dishes, but even at nine years of
age, I realized how much work goes
into preparing a meal that will be con-
sumed in 20 minutes. I'd seen Mom
baking cakes from scratch and cultivat-
ing a yeastmixture in our refrigerator to
make sourdough. Mom's no gourmet
(though herchocolate chip cookies won
high praise from my grade-school
friends), but she has the necessary pa-
tience, skill and even love for home-
cooking that I both sorely lack and
reject.
Mom says, "You're going to have to
learn sometime."
During adolescence, my domestic
ineptness symbolized my rebellion
against traditional. female tasks like
cooking. Although there was no danger
in my enrolling in Home Ec. (a class
whose popularity had been dwindling
since the late '70s), there was no warn-
ing that I would refuse to learn any
culinary skills from my mom. After
seeing how bland the "Campbell Soup
Cookbook," the "Hershey Chocolate
Lover's Cookbook," her own copy of
"The Sweet Sixteen Cookbook" and
other recipe books proved to my palate,
Mom might have thrown in the dish
towel and dubbed me hopeless.
But Mom believes in the "Wait and
See You'll Change Your Mind When
You Starve" ideology, which decrees
thata student can live on chicken patties
and spaghetti for only so long before an
overwhelming appetite for more gour-
met cuisine kicks in.
As usual, Mom is right.
Occasionally, my stomach grumbles
for foods not found in my customary
diet, meaning any dish that requires
more preparation than boiling water or
opening a can and microwaving its con-
tents. Every light-year or so, when I find
money in my wallet, I dine out. Other
times, I satisfy my craving on generous
dinner invitations.
Last semester, I ran into a guy I
hadn't really talked to for four years. He
invited me to a bar and to a show at the
Comedy Club. We had a few drinks and
roused a few laughs to fill up the space
in our "nice-weather-we're-having"
conversation. My "See you later" part-
ing had really meant "Have a nice life,"
but a week later, he invited me out
again.
"Well, I'm kind of busy," I hedged.
"Oh, really," he said. "I thought I
might cook a dinner for us."
"Dinner?" I asked, feeling the diges-
tive juices slosh excitedly in my stom-
ach.
"Yeah, anything you like. How about
shrimp?"
"Shrimp's good," I agreed, imagin-
ing the succulent white meat melting in
my mouth. Good, free food for an
evening of insipid communication?
Sure.
If Mom found out I sacrificed an
evening fora free meal ... of course, she
never warned me about men who cook
for women. Heck, my brothers never
got cookbooks for their birthday. She
probably doesn't know they exist, but
I'm sure she has her suspicions. She
knows that I live in a house of female
non-gourmets who revolt against the
stereotypical female susceptibility to
domestication and/or show no interest
in variegated diets.
We cook to eat, not to savor. Mom
understands that students who cook only
for themselves have neither the time nor
the dependents to make complicated
meals. She also recognizes our cook-
ing for what it is, as a means of sustain-
ing life rather than spicing it up. I'd
rather gorge myself on fictional treats
like "Fried Green Tomatoes" and "Like
Water for Chocolate" than digest a
recipe in "The Joy of Cooking." Mom
realizes thatcollege students have more
important things to do than prepare pot
roast.
But she also sees how our apathy
towards serious cooking might endan-
ger the existence of genuine home-
cooked meals. What will our children
eat? Microwave filet mignon and as-
tronaut ice cream, at best. Perhaps,
during this epoch of instant coffee and
minute rice, a gastronomical gene will
manifest itself in our progeny. Chil-
dren will prepare cordons-bleusentrdes
for their nuked-out parents.
Of course, Mot would say I'm full
of baloney.
She also says I better hire the kid-
just in case.
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