The Michigan Daily - Friday, November 6, 1992- Page 5 I I I *~ ,i / -~ -ow l r BY M E L I SS A PEE R thletes tend to be put in a position where they are almost larger-than-life. At parties, women come up to them. This does not mean that they want to have sex... that night." - Debi Cain, SAPAC Director College athletes do a lot for their universities - through ticket sales and television contracts, they generate millions of dollars. They publicly represent their schools every time they compete. But universities also do a lot for their athletes. Athletes need to eat well. So they have training table meals. Athletes need to pass their classes. So they have academic support services. Athletes need to avoid legal trouble. So they have lectures by police officers and FBI agents. Athletes need to know about sexual assault. So ... Few athletic departments provide any services to educate athletes about sexual assault. But experts say that, because of the nature of their business, athletes need special training in this area. The statistics are disturbing. One in 12 men will commit rape while in college. A Philadelphia Daily News study concluded that college athletes are 38 percent more ,likely to commit rape than the average college male. The same study found that a college athlete is reported for sexual assault once every 18 days. Debi Cain, director of the U-M Sexual Assault Prevention and Awareness Center ((SAPAC), said the university should help ,athletes balance two sets of expectations -'behavior suitable for the field, and behavior suitable for social situations. "Essentially, college athletes are being ,given room, board and tuition for their bodies, their physical prowess, their ability ,to be aggressive and domineering. That's 'what they get rewarded for," she said. "We Aare asking them to be a totally different way off of the field." Cain said that, although athletes should be able to make the adjustment, the _ transition can be difficult. "That is not too much to ask, but it is difficult for an 18- or 19-year-old guy," she said. She added that she thinks the U-M needs to confront sexual assault head-on. "It is so important for the athletic department and the teams to make a -commitment to address the issue up-front and tell the players, 'If you commit the ;crime you will pay - you will not get off."' Claire Walsh, former director of the sexual assault prevention center at the University of Florida, agreed with Cain. "The university should be responsible if they are not providing athletes with the kind of information that they need to keep from becoming victimizers," she said. At the U-M, men's basketball coach Steve Fisher invites representatives from SAPAC to speak to his team at the beginning of every season. However, Cain said that no other teams currently schedule similar workshops. "I certainly commend Coach Fisher on his progressive attitude. I was real encouraged to find that the basketball team had a program. I'll be more encouraged when the football, wrestling, hockey, baseball and other teams ask for the same thing," she said. Chris Hutchinson, one of the U-M football team's captains, said coaches on his team give the players more informal advice on what precautions they should take. "When we come in as freshmen, we're told about the people we.call camp followers," Hutchinson said. "As freshmen, you've never had that happen before, so you don't know how to deal with it. The coaches warn us to keep our distance." that, but not very serious ones. This year, I've had one incident I've dealt with. Last year, I didn't have any." These low figures may paint an inaccurate picture. Rape survivors seldom report the crime. When the assailant is an athlete, even fewer attacks are reported. Jenny Cass, student leader of the Ann Arbor Coalition Against Rape, said many rape survivors may feel like the odds are stacked against them when their assailant is an athlete. "When a woman is raped by an athlete, it's not just her word against his," Cass said. "She must go up against the entire team, who will protect him and make excuses." Walsh said that - in addition to his teammates - the athletic department may also leap to an athlete's defense. "Female students who have been raped by athletes have a difficult time coming forward," she said. "The experience is painful, intimidating, and often does not have a positive outcome. "Star athletes are in fact a commodity used by a school to keep alumni interested, to provide competitive games. It's not unusual that a university would stretch the rules a bit to accommodate an athlete." Walsh cited a specific example of a case where a high-profile athlete was accused of sexual assault, "At the University of South Florida, the school protected a star basketball player even though there had been several complaints against him," she said. "The vice president of student affairs in effect covered up what was happening." Walsh added that once the story was exposed by the media, the vice president was forced to resign. Weidenbach said that if a U-M athlete was charged with sexual assault, the situation would be dealt with differently. "Whenever we have a student-athlete to discipline, I work very closely with Vice President (for Student Affairs Maureen) Hartford," he said. "Student-athletes are subject to the same discipline as everybody else. We discipline kids, and the coaches discipline kids. We watch that very carefully to make sure there is a discipline that takes place." However, Kata Issari, a counselor at SAPAC, said many times the U-M Athletic Department does not have an opportunity to take action against athletes who rape women here, because the survivors almost never report the attacks. "Most of the women I've worked with who were assaulted by athletes haven't done anything about it but talk to me," she said. "No cases of rape involving athletes have gone to court in the five years that I have been here." Nonetheless, women are being raped by athletes at the U-M. "Sara" is a U-M student who was raped by a member of one of the university's major sports teams. She agreed to share her story. "I met him at a party. My friends who I was there with were making a big deal about him because he's (an athlete). They were acting immature and afraid to talk to him. I went over to see him because I thought they were being pathetic," she said. "We ended up talking a lot that night. He was really cool. We had interesting conversations about everything. He actually told me how hard it is for him because people always make such a big deal about him. He said he's just a normal guy, and all the attention embarrasses him. He said he doesn't want to be treated differently than everyone else." She continued, "It was getting kind of L E SS A N D tried to get away, but he was just so strong. "Afterwards I went home and tried to sleep, but I was so upset I was awake all night. He actually had the nerve to call me the next day to see how I was doing." Sara's story is typical, and - as in the case of other rapes - her nightmare continued beyond the night of the incident. "When you are raped, you feel so disgusted and violated," she said. "You never want to see the monster who did this to you or hear his name again. If he is just some jerk who you met at a party, you may run into him on campus, but the chances are kind of slim. "When it's an athlete it's so different. His name is in the paper all the time. He's on posters. People in your classes wear copies of his uniform. He's high profile. He's a public figure. Even if you don't go to his games, you always encounter him." Many sexual assaults begin as casual encounters at parties or other social gatherings, where alcohol is often a factor. Because of their virtual celebrity status, athletes are often at the center of attention. "Athletes tend to be put in a position where they are almost larger-than-life. They are idolized by students on campus and the community at large," Cain said. "At parties, women come up to them. They want to get to know them because they are 'campus celebrities.' This does not mean that they want to have sex with them that night." However, these messages are often difficult to interpret. David Harlock, captain of the Michigan hockey team, has observed the dynamics of campus parties. "Maybe it's someone you've seen attend a lot of games. You can totally misinterpret that as an interest in you, even if she's just a fan of the game," Harlock said. "It's really a hard judgment to make sometimes, especially at a party, where there's alcohol involved." In addition to athletes, rape survivors cite alcohol as a component in sexual assault. Sara said, "I was pretty drunk that night. That's why I trusted a guy who I didn't know enough to go home with him." Though Elena DiLapi, the director of the University of Pennsylvania Women's Center, agreed that alcohol can contribute to sexual assault, she said she believes that drinking is often only one of a number of factors contributing to rape . "Sometimes, alcohol and disappointment about losing a game or excitement about winning one combine to lead to sexual assault," DiLapi said. She added that athletes' attitudes - about women and about themselves - may increase the probability that a rape can occur. Cain said these attitudes may be shaped by the fact that athletes' only experience with women are in social situations, where the women may assume subservient roles. "Athletes do not have strong and consistent exposure to women. They don't see women as capable equals," Cain said. "There are some similarities between athletes and fraternities in that they are both male- oriented environments, but there is a difference in that fraternity members regularly come into contact with women." "They live in a predominantly male environment. The locker- room mentality, bantering and exchanging of sexual encounters that they had - they think that this is the way everyone is," she added. Issari said that, like fraternity members, athletes can learn negative attitudes about women from spending significant amounts of time in large groups of men. "Anytime you have a erouin of men thait snends M A T T H E 'W begin to believe their own publicity and come away with inflated self-esteem. "You can look at a guy and tell if he is a football player or a basketball player," Cain said. "They walk around carrying that all the time - they hear the whispers, they see the points. They begin to think they're pretty studly." Harlock agreed that athletes are tempted to think of themselves as different from other students. "I think a lot of athletes tend to look at themselves in a different ways," Ilarlock said. "They think they look more macho, and that it will be easier for them to attract women." Stereotypes and inflated egos notwithstanding, athletes are different from other students. They are usually bigger and almost always stronger, and their names are recognizable. For these reasons, every move they make - right or wrong - draws attention. "People tend to view athletes differently," Harlock said. "It's like we're not even students. They just see us as being here because of our athletic prowess. "I think when an incident does occur, it's reported more so than with other students. We live under a microscope. Everything we do gets magnified." Weidenbach agreed that incidents involving athletes tend to draw more recognition from the media and the public than do others. "The fact is that a regular student can go out and do something wrong, but it isn't half as bad as when an athlete does it," he said. "I think you'll find that all the way through our program here is that there's always an emphasis to the student- athlete that they represent the university and themselves and that they're in the public eye." Hutchinson said he believes that athletes - particularly football players - draw a lot of attention on campus or at parties simply because of their size. "When a normal, 185-pound guy goes to a football party, he's going to be intimidated," Hutchinson said. "I think people get the idea that athletes are more aggressive away from the field because of our size. Other people screw around and wrestle with each other, but when it's two offensive linemen, you've got 600 pounds moving all over." By no means are athletes the sole perpetrators of sexual assault. When one in three women will be sexually assaulted in their lifetimes, the scars of rape permeate all aspects of our society. However, when enough evidence exists to suggest that a particular group of individuals is more prone to commit a certain crime, then that group warrants additional focus in terms of prevention. IRE N N IE Opinions on how to solve the problem vary. Most agree that both athletes and the women they interact with must take responsibility for their own actions. While Cain is anxious to work with more members of the U-M Athletic Department to educate athletes, she is quick to add that women must understand they should take an active role in how they deal with athletes. "A little healthy fear of dating athletes is OK," Cain said. "It's OK for women to,, be concerned. Every woman on campus must be cautious - not only of athletes. Ninety percent of women on campus are raped by somebody they know. Women can't trust people until they really know them." Issari stressed the idea of shared responsibility. "Athletes have to be extra conscientious about their behavior," she said. "It's not that women need to be afraid of athletes, but that athletes need td be responsible for their actions." Harlock said that workshops, such as the one the basketball team employs, can help reinforce in the minds of athletes just how important the issue is. "Coaches are wise in trying to avoid one of these situations," Harlock said. "I think workshops can help to reinforce the idea that we live in an atmosphere where a. everything is magnified. If one guy steps. out of line, it could just kill a program. , Hutchinson said the message will be ) received more attentively if it comes from' the athletes' peers. "I think the most effective way to lessen these kinds of incidents would be to establish some sort of thing where the upperclassmen would go through a program and talk to the younger guys," Hutchinson said. "Guys won't take it that seriously if it's the coaches or somebody else preaching at them because they don't think other people know what it's like to be an athlete." Solutions will only come when everyone - from the coaches to the players to the women involved - acknowledges the cold reality of sexual assault. Until they do, women will continue to be raped by athletes, and they. like Sara, will become another set of disturbing statistics. "I know that my experience was not at all unusual. People get raped by athletes;a all the time," Sara said. "Someone has to get it into these guys heads that just 41 because they are strong, talented and71 popular they can't do whatever they wantw "They are not allowed to have sex with women who don't want to have sex with them. They need to be told that over and " over until they understand." -e t. u C. r