The Michigan Daily - Friday, January 31, 1992 -- Page 5' _ _a t e dfrdostV When you decide you can't be a fireman "What do you you grow up?" By this point in our lives, each of us has an- swered that ques- tion countless times. But while the question has transcended the years, the an- swers aren't as easy as they used to be. want to be when Matthew Rennie k.- But more important, people are, being forced to answer the question~ earlier and earlier in life - an un," fortunate fact that is robbing us of- youth's benefits. When we were young, our par- ents and grandparents asked the question over and over and would laugh at the way we would so care" freely change our minds from weekf to week. At one point in my life, If was planning to play second base, for the Detroit Tigers and be an as- tronaut in the off season. But as we get older and career, decisions become more than idler speculation, the question becomes more of a demand than an inquiry.., Changing our mind isn't so funny; anymore. Sometimes the question is eveit phrased differently: "When are you going to grow up and do some, thing with your life'?" Eventually, we all have to make. decisions. However, we all should. have a time in our lives to experi-" ment without fearing lifelong repercussions. By forcing these de= cisions on younger people we are: robbing our society of the greatest commodity its youth can offer -4 l1 Many are trying to weather the recession by taking a graduate course; applications to law schools are up 30 percent from last year.m imagination. The youth of our culture had, always been the source of innov j- tion. Too young to know any be- ter, kids try to do something in a way that it's never been done be-; fore. More often than not, they falt flat on their faces, but this inno- cent experimenting lays the groundwork for serious growth later on. To force children to make bind, ing career decisions so early in life is to rob them of this period of in' nocence. Kids have to spend so much time trying to fit into the es- tablishment that they never take the time to question it. My brother is a high school jiV nior. Two years ago, when he was, choosing his sophomore classes, he justified one of his decisions by saying that he needed to take an a6 celerated science program if lie wanted to get into a college with' a good pre-med program. He believed that the classes ld took during his sophomore year o high school could affect his longi term career plans. Whether this is true or not is irrelevant. He be, lieved it. He was thinking about "what he wants to be when hie grows up." Four months later, he would re- ceive his driver's permit. As college students, we're only slightly different than my brother.; Granted, we have to be thinking a little more about career goals and- study concentrations, but we still have a world of opportunities be,: fore us. Some time in the not-so-distait future, we're all going to leave this' University and be faced with a job market that doesn't have room fW another graduating class. We'll all have decisions to make. Some of i4 will go to graduate school; sonme will take the first jobs they can find. Unfortunately, most of us will not be thinking about all of t49 things we could do, but rathev about the things we have to do. I'm not trying to dismiss the many responsibilities we all have.- Many people are paying their owl way through school and are not able to have such a PollyannaishJ view of the world. Still, if ever we have a time in our lives when we should take chances, it is during our youth. While the country's economic slump is proving to be an obstacle for many graduates, Taunya Beddingfield-Bismond, married last June to a University graduate, isn't letting the recession stand in her way. "I chose psychology because it was something I was always interested in, andgactually, it's turning out to be a good choice," Beddingfield- Bismond said. Enrolled as a school-psychology graduate student at Indiana University in Bloomington, where her husband is a third-year law student with a job awaiting him in Toledo, Ohio. Beddingfield-Bismond has earned three fellowships and a graduate assistantship to help pay her way through graduate studies. "I'm not doing exactly want I hoped I would be - I do a lot of testing of kids and working with teachers. I hoped to be more hands-on with the kids," she said. Her goal is to get involved in educational psychology for a school system or community. Beddingfield-Bismond said she now appreciates and misses Ann Arbor's cultural diversity, despite remembering feeling a little lost while she was an undergraduate. "When you're on the Diag, there's always some kind of protest. You're I IV 11 It