0 not know what. All we knew was that around midnight, an embassy operator my father was speaking to by telephone said that an emergency situation had developed at the embassy, which is near the Russian Parliament. Half an hour later, we called back and were told the emergency was over. Although our window faced the White House in which Yeltsin was holding out, we were too far away to see or hear anything. Lying in bed, unable to fall asleep, my senses were on red alert, singling out every noise coming from 0 0 outside, no matter how insignificant. Although on occasion there were sirens wailing or heavy thuds that seemed like they could be exploding shells, I heard nothing that was clearly the sound of battle. From Russia with Haste The next morning I was awakened by the piercing ring of our telephone. My 27-year-old brother, Dan, vacationing in California, had been following the turmoil in Russia with mounting 0 alarm; the news that three citizens had been shot or trampled by tanks had convinced him that the time had come for us to flee the coup. After countless attempts, he had finally gotten through, which is no small feat even when the Soviet government is stabfe. He reported to us the latest news: that an attack on Yeltsin's building had been repulsed, though several people died and some soldierswere beaten up; in Leningrad, hundreds of thousands of protesters had been taking to the streets; Leningrad's airport was rumored to have been shut down. Even if we decided to continue to Leningrad, he pointed out, it would be difficult to tour and even more difficult to fly to Prague, where we intended to continue our vacation. We told him that this was all news to us, though we were as yet unconvinced that we should leave. We knew that the number of people leaving had increased tremendously in the past 24 hours. We were told by other tourists that some countries, including Japan, had gone so far as to order their citizens to leave the Soviet Union. Our decision to leave was made soon after calling the American embassy for an update. The State Department's official statement had changed since Tuesday: "All Americans should consider leaving within 48 hours," we were told. The two public liaison officials with whom my father and I spoke that morning told us that in their opinions, we should cut short our vacation and leave immediately, though we still were in no immediate danger. This was the coup degrce, convincing us more than anything we had seen or heard that it was time to leave. Before I continue with this tale, I would like to express my disappointment in the American embassy for doing little to inform us of events in the Soviet Union. I realize that the embassy personnel had to deal with a crisis of tremendous magnitude, and that their responsibility for Americans in the Soviet Union does not extend beyond ensuring their safety. However, Moscow during the coup was anything but the information capital of the world, and the embassy public liaison officers did little to enlighten us. Simple questions met with evasive answers, forcing us to make the decision to leave or stay blindly. Not all of the foreigners staying in the Intourist Hotel were in such a hurry to leave. Although the hotel was emptying fast, there were some who wished to stay in Moscow, come what may. I include myself in this category. As I told my parents at the time, I firmly believed that the Red Army would not attack any civilians. Each soldier has parents, siblings and relatives trying to survive a devastating economic collapse. Many of these people see Yeltsin as their only potential saviour, and the soldiers all knew this and realized why these tens of thousands of citizens were facing down the Soviet military. I would not be surprised to discover that some of the soldiers trying to control Moscow had relatives behind the barricades. Although I saw no danger of the army attacking the people, I would not have been surprised if fighting had broken out between army units loyal to the coup leaders and units loyal to Gorbachev and Yeltsin. And even if such bloodshed occurred, I believed that we would be safe. For one thing, most Russians feel a strong friendship for Americans. And, if the situation really did become dangerous even for American tourists, I had faith that our embassy would somehow get us out. These arguments were considered and rejected. The prevailing logic was that if the embassy personnel had privately advised us to escape, there must be some reason. And delay could cost several merchants confirmed my suspicions that many of their competitors had failed to set up shop because the tourists were all leaving. Thy were not the only ones sorry to see all the foreigners leave. Our hotel's staff was deeply bothered, since they had no idea how long it would be before the tourists and businesspersons returned. One clerk, according to my father, had tears in her eyes as she watched people checking out. There is little more to tell. We arrived at the airport around 2:45, debating all the way whether in leaving we were doing the right thing. At the airport, the porter who helped with our luggage explained to me that he was positive that there would be no major bloodshed. He urged us to reconsider, but to no avail. My visit to the Soviet Union had started as a vacation and opportunity to practice my Russian, but it had become an opportunity to observe what may prove to be one of the most significant events of the century. I must say, however, that there was certainly by Lynne Cohn College. It's four years, sometimes five, of exploring the world around you, the campus, who you are and society in general. And college not only consists of the campus and academic life. Extra- curricular activities as well as the surrounding university community makes college a whole experience. You can't go to college and ignore everything outside of the classroom. It's a package deal. As a Michigan student, I look at this university as the epitome of the big American school. Across the Atlantic Ocean, on the far side of the European continent, in the heart of northern Italy, sits another university community: the University of Parma. It is separated from Ann Arbor by distance, language and cultural barriers. But in many ways, it is quite close. This past summer, I spent three weeks studying at Parma. Attending both universities has allowed me to view two very different but very similar cultures. So sit tight and hold on to your seat, as I attempt to create for you the very real illusion that exists both in Parma and in Ann Arbor. Michigan Stadium, packed near its 101,701 capacity, rocks with the feverish enthusiasm of excited students and alumni anxiously awaiting another Wolverine victory. A 21-year-old male undergrad, his face painted half yellow and half blue, yells "Go Blue!" while throwing his fist in the air. People chow on Domino's pizza, TCBY frozen yogurt and various soft drinks in U-M football cups while a drunken group of fraternity men pass a lone Michigan State co-ed up the bleachers. The wind blows. The sun shines. Cheeks turn rosy on even the palest faces despite the fact that it is late October. The leaves have changed, painting Ann Arbor red, yellow and orange. They have forgotten mid-terms and dreams of six-figure jobs. The game comes first. Now they are ahead, but it could change at any minute if the hiss of the cheering crowd should quiet. The third quarter ends, of course, in a tie. The crowds must cheer louder, get more excited, inspire the team to victory. The Wolverines always beat the Spartans at home, but can they do Lynne Cohn is a Daily staff reporter. it this year? The MSU player catches the ball. He runs. He runs. He runs. He crosses the field as if he were flying. And he scores. I remember this tear-jerking scene as if it were yesterday. A slim Foreign Focus A special feature intended to provide students the opportunity to share accounts of their travels abroad. These two university communities, half a world apart from each other, generate stories like this due to the active nature of the students. The stories arem different, but they carry the same amount of importance in their respective communities. Although the University of Michigan and the University of Parma are separated by 9,000 miles, several bodies of water and many nations, they are united by universal similarities inherent to college communities. Probably a climatic difference, Parma's easy-going, laid-back lifestyle clashes with the brisk, competitive pace of Ann Arbor. Parma doesn't have to deal with the frightening winter weather about which Ann Arborites complain incessantly. This difference in climate might explain the mindset within these two places. Ann Arbor people are intent on succeeding. Michigan students often take five and six classes each semester to graduate on time. In Parma, the attitude is completely opposite. Students are not concerned with time; whether it takes four years or as many as eight, they don't worry about it. In fact, most plan to spend more time after college either in a non-paying apprenticeship or, for the men, in the army, so the students often try to prolong their college careers. A similarity between Parma and Michigan is that the students know how to have fun - they don't just study. Parma students often gather at bars or gelaterias (ice cream parlors) where they feast on french fries, Cokes, or a panino (sandwich) of prosciutto di Parma. Italian students grab a quick calzone before hitting the chic disco just outside Parma's city limits. They sit on dorm balconies playing guitar and singing sappy love songs by Claudio Baglioni or Gianni Morandi. Parma students even have hang-ups about sex and dating similar to those of Michigan students. The biggest difference is in the "backwards" attitude popular among Southern Italians, says 24-year-old economics graduate Paola Maggi. actuality with for protecti women. "A g asks a b Ferrari, undergi Hisi agrees. unfortu: other w Still, Big Ten vs. Big Cheese: A Study in Contrasting Colic Students are not concerned with I takes four years or as many as eig they don't worry about it. us dearly, since if fighting broke out the airport would probably be closed down and we would be stuck in Moscow. After trying to get through to several airlines, we finally arranged to fly to Zurich at about six o'clock Wednesday evening. Having several hours to kill before we would have to leave for the airport, we decided to use up our rubles on souvenirs at a tourist trap known as the Arbat, a street in downtown Moscow which is infested with merchants who sell art and souvenirs of dubious quality for inflated and unfair prices. The day before, the Arbat had been bustling with tourists, as it always is. On Wednesday, the Arbat was practically deserted - both vendors and customers were hardly to be seen. The rain that had been falling for most of the day had something to do with this, but something unwholesome about our activities and those of all the other foreigners who enjoyed the spectacle of tanks in the streets. That bartender who had fought so valiantly and vainly to watch Vremya had spoken the truth when he exclaimed "It's my country!" We were only visitors, and we had the luxury of knowing that we could leave at any time if the situation became unpleasant. The Russians, though, had to stay and face the crisis. For foreigners, the danger and disintegration of society were unreal and incomprehensible. Therefore, many of us ignored and even enjoyed the misery of the Soviet peoples as we went around taking snapshots of this splendid little coup. -O V Italian student told me of an equally vivid and important scene which is commonly witnessed every fall at the University of Parma. It goes something like this: The girl opens her door, lugging two hefty suitcases inside. She shuts the door behind her, breathing a sigh of relief. Raffaelo leaves his hidden observation point and darts up the three flights of dormitory stairs to the room he has called home for three years. The whole gang is there, laughing loudly and jamming to Michael Jackson's 'Thriller." "Get ready!" he shouts in Italian, excited with the anticipation of his final year of playing pranks on first-year students. Pasqualina steps out onto the balcony, the glare of the hot sun reflected in her sunglasses and black hair. She looks down to the girl's first floor balcony, waiting. Suddenly, it's time. The group pours onto the balcony, squeezing through the glass opening like sardines into a small tin. Raffaelo reaches into the trash can, securing a water balloon, as does the rest of the group. "Uno - due - tre - Avanti!" Everyone drops their balloon on the poor student below. Drenched, she looks up at the hysterical crowd and cringes. Damn, she thinks. I can't wait to be a senior. with Baolloons o Costume & Tuxedo Delivery -seven days a week o Balloon Bouquets o Myiar Balloons o Candy & Champagne Boskets o Party Decorating Service 971-8630 "Here, girls are very independent and confident," she says. "Boys from the South think that to become a good wife, a woman must cook, be kind to the man, be a good mother, and it is not necessary that she works." Maggi insists that within the group of 20,000 Parma students, women ask men for dates frequently, though mrany of her male counterparts disagree. Italian, men have a reputation for being great romancers who pinch the behinds of foreign women while exclaiming, "Ciao, bella!" In compon commur universi grades u with the "college Parrr heart of home of the worl houses h wife, M hosts a g Romane Pleas AVOID RU You are already ac CAMPUS CH 1236 Washtenaw (one block south of Geddes a 668-74211662-1 SUNDAY WORSHIP: 10 a WEDNESDAY: 9-10 p.m., U R.O.C.K. Group Meeting-fur provocative discuss September 13, 1991 - r i iii + n 971 -~863O WEEKEND Page 8 Page 5 WEEKEND Septembe -;. t I 1 .i } ., Ii -I. I !4 .. .1.,'. ,, . . . . . I,.a4 . . 1.1.. '.I,# I I. t. { A h * J