Page 12 - The Michigan Daily - Thursday, January 12, 1989 When a o I The Schef's Specialty i , 'C ~ , BY ADAM SCHEFTER areer corners, fought in front of the net, and tried. He really tried. And all he could do was score two goals. But you can bet they meant a lot. He remember his first Michigan goal the way you would remember your first kiss. "It was December 5, 1987," Jaffe said without blinking an eyelash. "Second period. Slap shot from the hash-mark of the right circle. The goaltender was Sandy Galuppo, an old teammate from Kent." While his first season was not a glamorous one, he had hope for this year. He thought things would be different. In case you didn't hear, Mich- igan right wing Billy Jaffe quit the hockey team over vacation. December 24 to be exact. Jaffe, a sophomore, isn't the most well-known athlete on campus. He only had one goal this season. He played on the fourth line. And he saw action in just 13 of the team's 20 games. But when Jaffe quit, it meant more than not competing. It meant bidding fare- well to a sport that has consumed his life for the past 16 years. The game was no longer fun, he said. He had to think about his career. Be a "real" college student. No more hockey. That's it? That's it. To put Jaffe's decision into perspective, think about the last time you had to say goodbye to a girlfriend or boyfriend. Or walked away from something you loved. It was pretty tough, wasn't it? HOCKEY was Jaffe's love. He remembers sitting in front of the television, mesmerized, watching the NHL Game-of-the-Week, telling his parents that he, too, wanted to be a hockey player. So Jaffe's father, Mickey, took him down to a half-sized rink in Highland Park, Ill., and paid the instructor, Wally Kormylo, to teach his boy power-skating. Billy was only three at the time and the first time he hit the ice, he HIT the ice. He ran off crying. "I couldn't stand it," Jaffe recalled. "And when I came off the ice, my dad grabbed me and said, 'No son of mine will quit on his first try. Now go finish your session.' I had no choice." Three weeks ago Jaffe had a choice. He decided to hang up the skates. AS A TODDLER, without a choice, Jaffe got back on the ice to finish his first, of what would be many, laps around the ice. He came to like it so much that he joined the house league for two ends... years. He dominated, leading his team in scoring his second season. And Jaffe still remembers that year. "I still have the trophy for that season," he said with a soft laugh. But there will be no more trophies. Not from hockey at least. He moved on to the next level. Traveling with the Highland Park Leafs, one of the top teams in Illinois, Jaffe was the leading scorer again. Then up another notch, to Triple A with the Chicago Young Americans. Jaffe took scoring honors there also. But there was a price that Jaffe paid for his success. He didn't have time to spend with his friends in high school. He missed out on those touch-football games after school, the Friday night dates to the movies. He had to. He had hockey practice during the week. Games on the weekend. And being a kid and having fun wasn't nearly as important as scoring a goal or winning a game. HIS CAREER was so im- portant that he left home his senior year in high school to play hockey at Kent Prep School in Con- necticut. He felt the move was necessary to play college hockey - his lifelong goal. He even scored four goals in his first game at Kent. What a feeling! "My greatest thrill in hockey," he said. And his journey out East became worthwhile. College re- cruiters began calling. Brown. Yale. Vermont. But he chose Michigan. Academic and athletic excellence were the reasons he gave. He was going to share with Michigan all he had ever worked for. IN HIS first year, for the first time since he was three, he failed to lead his team in scoring. He didn't even play in half of the team's games. But he never complained. He just showed up for practice every day, dug for the puck in the whole life for. It takes a while to adjust to a different lifestyle. So during the afternoon, Jaffe would spend time with his girlfriend. Work out. Go to the intramural building to play basketball. ONCE, while he was there, he saw Stacey Katlin, a catcher on Michigan's baseball team. After playing a few points, Katlin finally discovered something wasn't right. "Hey, don't you have hockey practice today?" Katlin asked. Jaffe hesitated. He didn't know what to say. "I'm taking some time off," he said, lowering his voice. There was the time off over different dream about hockey each night. Think that says something? On New Year's Eve, while he was in Florida, he called to congratulate his teammates on winning the Great Lakes Invita- tional Tournament. "When I spoke to him, he sounded happy," said Todd Copeland, one of Jaffe's closest friends. "But you knew he missed it." And when Jaffe got back to school, one of his friends congratulated him on winning the tournament and asked how hockey was going. That was when reality hit. "I quit," Jaffe said shaking his head, "and I couldn't believe I said it. I said I quit.." BUT JAFFE didn't turn his back on the game. He went to Friday night's hockey game. Not as a player - but a fan, something different. He sat in the stands. Cheered his friends. Even did some play-by-play on the school's radio station, WJJX. He was on during the power-play, something he never did as a player at Michigan. Michigan lost. Did they miss Jaffe? Probably. But someone else took his place. Fore-checked and back-checked. Hustled and gave everything he had to the program. In sports, there's always someone to fill in. It's the nature of the game. But Jaffe's departure has left him with a bigger void than the team feels without Jaffe, and he's looking for replacements as well. He's going to play in a men's hockey league. Try out refereeing. But you know he's going to miss it. "What will I miss most?" Jaffe wondered out loud. "The cam- araderie. I'll miss winning a big game. And being there for a big goal. Hearing the crowd yell. And it's always great to hear people cheering for you when you skate down the ice with the puck... " The list goes on. But they are just memories now. And memories are all that Billy Jaffe has left from hockey. Potokar ... wrestles at tough slot Billy Jaffe pulled off his mask and quit the Michigan hockey team over vacation. For the first time in many years, he will have time on his hands, instead of hockey gloves. THEY WEREN'T. More of the same. Working hard in practice. Cheering the team on. Not seeing much ice time. And suddenly he realized his love had deserted him. He thought about breaking off the relationship. Thought a lot. Finally he informed his coach, Red Berenson, of his intentions. Berenson told him to think about his decision. Jaffe did. Five more days. No more hockey. That's it? That's it. But you just don't stop doing something you sacrificed your vacation to get used to as well. Instead of being in Ann Arbor, Jaffe went to Florida. "It was the first time I spent Christmas with my family in a long, long time," Jaffe said. "I'm trying to remember my last non-hockey Christmas break. Uh, I think it was, uh, Florida. Yeah. I think I was nine. Or ten." THAT'S HOW long it has been. That's how much time has been devoted. You don't just forget something. Psychologists say you dream about what you think about most. Well, in Florida, Jaffe had a Potokar Continued from Page 11 two years left, a time when many wrestlers peak. Teammate Mike Amine followed two inconsistent years by finishing second in the nation last season in the NCAA championship. In addition, Trost didn't win his Big Ten championships or become an All-American until his third season. THIS SEASON Potokar has been ranked as high as fifth* nationally. This is in recognition of his accomplishments, talent, and also of a weakened heavyweight field, particularly in the Big Ten. Iowa and Purdue lost Mark Sidlinger and Cal VandeHoef, respectively, to graduation, and Mark Schultz of Ohio State is being redshirted this season. "He has to gain confidence that he can go the whole match," said Trost. "He's always in every match. He's had a lot of close matches where it seems like he can dominate but he's just not doing it. That's up to the person. When you get out on the mat you have to do it. I just think he has to take charge and not let anyone push him around, because I've seen all the heavyweights and he can beat any of them." Potokar feels he needs to recapturte the attitude that led to those state championships. "In high school, I would just go in there and know I was going to win," Potokar said. "(For me to dominate again) I have to go to practice and not talk to anyone and just be all business." It is out of character for th personable and friendly Potokar, well- liked by his teammates, to act so aloof. BUT THE BEST antidote to alleviate pressure is winning. And this year Potokar seems to be on his way, having won the Eastern Michigan Open and placing at the Las Vegas Classic. Last weekend his fine performance at the Virginia Duals was due in part to an incident which sparked his competitive nature and allowed him to beat a wrestler to whom he had previously lost. "Bob and I were sitting in the hallway and the Oklahoma State coach was there and I don't think he. saw us, related teammate John Fisher.9 "He was bragging about how his guy beat the wrestler from Michigan. When they wrestled, Bob beat him pretty badly, practically pinning him." In the next match against Lockhaven, the score was 18-16, in Michigan's favor. 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