ARTS P Page 9 The Michigan Daily BY MARIE WESAW "WOMEN," states Ellen Lesser, author of The Other Woman, "especially of this generation, aren't naturally going to take to the nurturing role of motherhood." Lesser is not attacking motherhood. Instead, she is defending Jennifer Gold - the main character of her debut novel The Other Woman. The novel opens with Jennifer's realization that what started as a casual relationship with her lover Richard is becoming more complex. Not only does she start longing to be a bigger part of Richard's life, but when Richard does move in, Jennifer also has to learn to cope with Richard's wife and children. In showing Jennifer's difficulty in dealing with the responsibility of being a possible stepmother to her lover's two young sons, Lesser por- trays Jennifer not as a stereotypical "other woman," but rather as a young woman that grows in her understanding of her relationships with others and in her understanding of herself. Lesser also attacks the stereotypes of the "unfaithful husband" and "hurting wife." Instead she portrays her characters as genuine people who, each, during different times of the novel, arouse several emotions in the reader. Jennifer, for example, according to Lesser, is "over her head" in her new position. "She doesn't have the conception of herself as the evil 'other woman'," states Lesser. Jennifer has to learn in the novel that "people are not always going to see you as you see yourself." Jennifer's ni ivetd is shown in the novel before she meets Ruth Ann, Richard's wife. She has little idea of the problems that will come up. She realizes that Richard's wife does not see her in a good light: "But Ruth Ann only thought those things because she didn't know Jennifer, because her grief demanded a scapegoat. The side of Jennifer that has always been a good girl clung stupidly to the conviction that Ruth Ann had only to meet her, to talk to her; that if Ruth Ann only gave her, have the chance, she'd be swayed. Jennifer nursed a fantasy of running into Ruth Ann, of sending her a Thursday, September 22, 1988 The Other 0 an: iI Author avoids stereotypes main reason she wrote the novel. She took the theme of "making a relationship with someone who has two kids, and learning to love kids that aren't your own," and "height- ened the tension" in the novel to express Jennifer's own experiences and to force the readers to leave through these awkward experiences. What comes through in Jennifer's struggles is, of course frustration, but also humor which, Lesser states, "is another aspect that people don't expect" in a novel about "the other woman." In her attempts to try to show Benjamin that he can't always win, she ends up pelting him in a snowball fight. When, while she is alone with David, she relaxes with a homemade joint that was given to her as a gift , she realizes "that she should smoke it outside ... But she didn't want to consume this uncommon treat like a fugitive. What she wanted was to sit and smoke it in bed. Granted, it was rather close to where the baby was sleeping. But maybe a little smoke wafting in there would be a good thing; maybe it would keep him asleep longer." Jennifer does grow to learn what she wants. This idea of a young adult "looking to connect but afraid to," is threaded also in Lesser's col- lection of short stories The Shop- ifter's Apprentice which will be published next May. According to Lesser, the stories are "a tremendously varied group of stories in voice and style," that focus on the "failure of friendship." The stories, which took five years to complete, have either a New York or a small town setting. Both settings have been important in Lesser's own life. She grew up on Long Island, and moved to Vermont eight years ago. The slower pace of Vermont allowed her to become "connected to her writing," because New York "hyperstimulated" her. Despite Lesser's realistic por- trayal of the non-traditional family of the '80s in her novel, it is because of a traditional family connection that Lesser is excited about her visit to Ann Arbor - her father and brother both attended the University. ELLEN LESSER will read from The Other Woman today at 4 p.m. in the Hopwood Room as part of the English Department's Visiting Writers Series. ... the experience of stepparents in fiction has not been explored. It is a situation that yields a lot of rewards if you take the time and endure the pain to get to the other side" - Ellen Lesser heart-melting, forthright, woman- to-woman gaze across their shop- ping bags and purses and those few feet of pavement." Jennifer is brought to the realization of Ruth Ann's refusal to be "swayed" when she does meet her and finds Ruth Ann to be a manipulative woman. But she is also the mother of the children whom Richard wants her to love, and the victim of health problems. And Jennifer must also come to terms with that. In her portrayal of Richard, Lesser tries to confront the stereotype of the husband "running away from responsibility." According to her, "Richard loves his kids, does not want to abandon them, and he loves Jennifer. He just really doesn't understand Jennifer's point of view." Richard is portrayed as a man who is trying his best in, his respons- ibilities, but has, according to Lesser, "a few blind spots." A rich, part of the novel is Jennifer's struggles in her rela- tionship with Richard's sons, Benjamin and David. Lesser has taken great care to portray these struggles, and this portrayal comes out of Lesser's own experiences as a stepmother of her husband, Roger Weingarten's, two sons. "Stepparenting is so much a part of American life at this time. Yet the experience of stepparents in fiction has not been explored. It is a situation that yields a lot of rewards if you take the time and endure the pain to get to the other side." Lesser accounts her own experiences as a stepmother as the Bigfoot pleases inqirngminds BY MARISA ANAYA ALL right, admit it. I've seen you glancing at the tabloid headlines while you're in line at the supermarket. You try to be inconspicuous because you're embarrassed to be reading an article titled "Four-year-old gives birth to a yellow Labrador puppy!" Then you put the tabloid back on the rack, pay for your groceries and leave. But don't you ever wonder if there's a grain of truth to all those outlandish stories? Well, here's a chance for all you inquiring minds out there to find out. Ann Arbor's Civ-ic Theater provides some answers to one of the biggest mysteries since Elvis moved to Kalamazoo in BIGFOOT STOLE MY WIFE, written by Ron Carlson and directed by Cassie Mann. Is there really a Bigfoot? If so, just how big are his feet? Is he an evil hairy monster or a big fluffy teddy bear? Come to the AACT and meet the one and only Bigfoot as he comes forward to answer these questions and more. Bigfoot's willingness to appear in front of Ann Arbor audiences has encouraged others to step forward and spill their guts in such vignettes as "I Ate My Best Friend's Brain," "The Tablecloth of Turin," "Baby Born With 2,000-year old Bracelet," and others. £IGFOOT STOLE MY WIFE should be an eye-opening and fun- filled evening. Come on - aren't you the least bit curious? BIGFOOT STOLE MY WIFE will be performed at Ann Arbor Civic Theatre, 1035 S. 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