4 OPINION Page 4 Tuesday, April 14, 1987 The Michigan Daily That was then, this, is now By Paul Honsinger Heraclitus said that you can never cross the same river twice. I never appreciated how right he was until I returned to the University last fall after a four-year absence. The river that I left behind four years ago still bears the same name and runs in the same riverbed, but is subtly different in dozens of important ways., The first change that I noticed upon my return is that students actually looked different. Of course, fashion had not stood still while I was gone and Students' clothes - at least for those students who don't wear jeans and T-shirts every day - bore little resemblance to those of 1982. But, under the clothes, the fitness craze had virtually obliterated the beer bellies and spreading hips that once characterized all but the most athletic of our studentry. I would welcome the trend, if it didn't make my twenty-seven year old physique look so bad by comparison. But, when I started talking to my fellow students, I noticed that the differences were more than superficial. Very early on, I remarked how much easier it was to form casual acquaintances than it was with my peers from the early '80s. People seemed friendlier, more easygoing, and much readier to go out for a bite or a beer with someone they had just met. But, although they were easier to meet, I quickly found out that they were harder to know. Maybe the difference is a result of the five to nine year age gap between me and most students, but I don't think so. Instead, I think that people are more likely to have formed a group of close friends very early in their college careers and thereafter lose interest in forming deep attachments with anyone else. Honsinger is a member of the Daily Opinion Staff. When I was here before, I continued to make new friends throughout my college career, as did most of my friends. Now, the people I talk to have fairly stable friendship groups that go back to their first or second years here and have made very few friends after that. In the eight months since my return to the University, I have met no one whom I would regard as a close friend. My thoroughly unsystematic observations also indicate changes in dating and relationships since 1982. The first change that I picked up on in my discussions with other students is the welcome near demise of what I call the "McDate." In a McDate, two people meet, feel some superficial attraction, and then decide to go out on a date. I went on dozens of McDates when I was here before and at least half of them turned out to total disasters when the woman and I discovered after ten minutes that we couldn't stand each other. Now, people want to get to know each other a little before they commit themselves to the anxiety and expense of a full-blown night on the town. Plus, people seem more interested in dating fewer people and forming relationships than with "playing the field." More of the people I talk to have steady boyfriends or girlfriends than was true in 1982 and these relationships seem to be very stable - often lasting several semesters. And, when they break up with someone, it may be months before they settle down into another relationship, if at all. When I was here before, very few people had an exclusive relationship with another person and most of these relationships were very short-lived. The people who did tend to have "steadies" often switched partners three or four times a year with very short time periods between partners. Attitudes about classes have changed, too - among students as well as among professors. Sure, there have always been a lot of students here who just want to serve their time, get their degree, and start their careers..In my unscientific estimate, however, the number of students who feel this way has increased markedly. Class attendant seems sparser and class discussion less lively. Surprisingly, while the people in my classes seem less concerned about their coursework, they are more concerned about grades. Most of the people I talk to seem to know their grade point average precisely - to three decimal places. The University had been computing grades out to the thousandth of a point for years when I came here for the first time in 1979, but when asked about their grades, most students from that period would answer with something along the lines of "Oh, about a three point two." Now, the same question is likely to elicit a Wasserman- response like "If you must know, three point two three seven." These two, apparently contradictory, attitudes do actually make sense if we believe what all of the studies are telling us - that students are more concerned with career and future income than they were several years ago. If these conclusions are true, then it is only natural that students would become more grade-conscious since high grades are the tickets to high salaries upon graduation, or to professional schools and even higher salaries. In this kind of calculation, the courses themselves become a means to an end rather than an end in themselves. Professors have responded to students' changing attitudes about classes with changing attitudes of their own. As noted earlier on this page ("Classroom Paternalism, Daily, 3/11/87), more professors are enforcing student compliance with course requirements by such measures as imposing pop quizzes and taking attendance. Five or six years ago, I recall my professors not really caring about our attendant or whether we were keeping precisely up to date on the readings, as long as we did the work eventually and were able to perform well on the papers and the exams. Change is merely change; it is not necessarily bad or good. I had expected to find this University as I had left it and, instead, found that it had evolved like some sort of living organism. In some cases, I welcome the differences. IW others, I miss things the way they were. Nevertheless, when I leave this campus at the end of this semester - this time with a degree - I will remember fondly this crossing of this river and will never expect to be able to cross the same rive twice. F jSr, INLCAMPANIS WAS FIRED FOR WS RApCST REMA K 'Tf4EN EVERY~opY wdrEp H6WAS JUST A~ SYMAATOF V PAt\ I1UGH0UT P1 f n i ILZA Ith q k 2 a oU G , . ,. a ',!7 . i I ;' RIO 0 4 qu I I 0bed p ma Ebt a Uitg Edited and managed by students at The University of Michigan 'rkj N VeY BODY NOED EAS1ALWAS ~3uST A SYMTcO ofAC(SM 1WUOUoT AII ErQ cA. \7 i.: Now CAN wE 3u51 THE WROLE'TING 0 4 Vol. XCVII, No. 133 420 Maynard St. Ann Arbor, MI 48109 Unsigned editorials represent a majority of the Daily's Editorial Board. All other cartoons, signed articles, and letters do not necessarily represent the opinion of the Daily. March of history LETTERS: Positive experiences ignored by Daily TOTALLY UNDISTURBED BY reality, the Reagan administration continues to pursue policies which have proven politically infeasible and morally indefensible. Last Thursday, the United States, along with Britain, vetoed a United Nations Security Council resolution that would have severed all commercial and diplomatic ties with South Africa: offense punishable by as much as ten years in prison. In defense of the United States position, representative Vernon Walters said sanctions would "seriously limit the initiatives of nations, such as the United States, that seek to bring about South Africa's implementation" of the withdrawal resolution. In other words, the Reagan administration still clings to the myth of "constructive engagement." The administration has chosen to ignore the essential failure of its foreign policies and the import of domestic opposition to them. In recognition of this fact, those opposing U.S. policies in Southern Africa and Central America will meet in Washington, D.C. on April 25 to deliver their message in person. In the largest demonstration in recent years, an projected one million opponents of apartheid and Central American intervention will gather to voice their outcry in one united voice. Marches on Washington have been a vital part of America's progressive history. History now beckons for a new generation to address injustices too long tolerated. Those who answer that call will join a proud lineage of people who have recognized and meet the challenges of their times. A strong Ann Arbor contingent To the Daily: This semester two different groups volunteered at Jackson prison through Project Community; The Creative Writing Workshop, and students who worked with HASTA (an organization of Latino inmates). The eight students who worked with HASTA would like to make some corrections of the Daily's article "Prison Murder Ends Project Outreach Visits." (Daily 4/3) More importantly, we feel compelled to inform readers of the significant portion of our interview which was omitted in the article. We are concerned that Daily readers got a distorted impression of our experience, due to the Daily's errors and omissions. Obviously the recent death of a guard raises concern about students' safety at the prison. We would like to stress that as volunteers we never were and never would be in the same situation as that guard (individually alone with inmates). We walked as a group to and from the entrance of the classroom escorted by a prison administrator. We met with HASTA members as a group and never separated. Nonetheless, we were very much aware of the dangers of workine in a nrison. in our seminars. We feel that Project Community encouraged informed discussions through our orientation, films, weekly readings and seminars. Our main complaint is that the article was sheer sensationalism. The focus on the guard's death, and negative reactions precludes the many positive aspects of our visits and this class. We think readers should know that we contacted the Daily about the prison administration ending all "non- essential" volunteer activities. It was our intent to inform the public of our positive experiences, and the importance of our visits both for us and the members of HASTA. We were impressed by the seriousness, motivation and organization of HASTA' members. We think it is important to recognize that they asked us to tutor them in English and Spanish, and to help them organize a newsletter. Their respect for us and desire to learn was demonstrated weekly. We enjoyed working with the inmates, and wish the program had not ended so abruptly. As students, we feel that this is one of the most interesting, challenging , realistic and rewarding classes we have taken. We think it is important for students to have the opportunity to obtain this kind of experiential learning. Above all, we hope that prison officials and the University can find a way to keep this program running. We also urge students to look into Project Community. I -Ozzie Rivera Rudi Gutierre Meg Reuttet Will Anninger= Daphne Jochnick; Rachel Pooley Linda Reno Elsa Barboza April & t's real Racism is more than just hype, i P. W. Botha ... presides over growing repression Although the United States has historically opposed such initiatives, its intransigence has become increasingly unacceptable with the worsening crisis in South Africa. The snecific United Nations To the Daily: Racism. A word that is, or should be an integral part of every University iof Michigan student's life. The word and the concept should not be important to us because of the publicity that racism on our campus has received. Racism should not be a concern of our student body because the Michigan Daily, Eyewitness News, or the New York Times says that there is a crisis at the University of Michigan. The fact is, racism at Mich - igan is probably not any worse biases on our campus. If a product was devised that could clean our campus, our country, and our world, of many of the flaws in our socialization, it would be a welcome relief, an undeniable good. Unfortun - ately, such a product does not exist. What then, can we do to combat bigotry at Michigan? Initially, we as students, can support UCAR's demands. I do not believe that every stu - dent will agree with every de - mand. Rather, it is essential that the student body realize the great lengths to educate myself outside of the classroom. Still, the University must fa - cilitate the education of the student body. If any student at Michigan questions the gravity of the situation, let him or her go to a minority student lounge. Let him or her experience the feel - ing of isolation that every mi - nority student on our campus has felt as one time or another; Education and interaction are the two most effective grounds of combatting racism on our camnus Education and inter W