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Daily I1-2 AM Daily 11-2 AM I OCITIZEN tremes by certain sectors of the Jewish community. Amy P. states that she does not restrict her friendships to the Jewish community, but adds, "I do have (Jewish) friends who don't associate with someone because of their religion or color, and they think I'm really weird because I associate with people who aren't part of the little clique." She insists, however, that this at- titude is reciprocated fully by some of the majority community on campus. For example, she says, "There are so many fraternities that won't even con- sider a Jew. You have to have a lot of guts to even walk through the door at rush. There is one on the corner of my street where they yell 'kike' sometimes when I walk by." Though all their experiences are not as blatant as this, some Jews find their attempts to interact with others on campus to be problematic and discouraging. Lisa D. is a senior from New York who chose to live in a house with non- Jews. After a year, she has soured somewhat on her personal experiment in interacting closely with the majority community. Lisa complains of a series of com- ments which, while unintentional and based on ignorance of Jewish culture, pain and annoy her nonetheless. "It seems that not a day goes by that I'm not reminded that I'm Jewish," she says. "I never point out to my housemates that they are non-Jewish." Lisa also resents the use of the "Jap" stereotype. "A common comment in my house is that I look like one, but I don't act like one. So once I asked, 'How do 'Japs' act?' and they couldn't answer me." Her association with both Jews and non-Jews presents another problem. "A lot of times I feel that for me, right now, I have two categories of friends, and if they come into contact with each other, somebody feels uncomfortable." Something as innocuous as going to the bar and choosing to go to Charley's or going upstairs to the Count is problematic to the degree that one group or the other feels slighted by her choice. That comment points to a most in- teresting aspect of the Good Time Charley's/Count of Antipasto social scene that illustrates the schism bet- ween the two groups. It is not readily apparent, since the crowds on both levels seem quite homogenous. But on Thursdays for the past year, the bars have been dramatically segregated, with a wealthy Jewish crowd on the upper level, and a wealthy WASP/Greek crowd on the lower. G A 'JAP' IS very chic, very con- temporary. She wears all the latest things as soon as they come out. She's into make-up, accessories. Looks are very important to her. She may not be all that pretty, but because she pays close attention to her looks, you think she's pretty," says Julie B., an LSA junior. Julie is relaxed, casual, rather amused by the phenomenon, so she speaks freely about her peers. When the subject turns to politics, though, she responds with a wide-eyed look of sur- prise. "You don't understand!" she shouts, disintegrating into laughter. "Japs don't think about politics. They think about whether Bergdorf's (an ultra- chic, New York retailer) is going to close. They don't think about things going wrong - and if things do go wrong, daddy will take care of it." Julie emphatically divorces herself from the "Jap" image, that whole milieu that she categorically terms Newman Schiff UN .~,~. ICAL 4, OO PC LOCATED AT MEJJER THRIFTY ACRES N E4 Count of Antipasto: Packing in the crowds I $125 - CITIZEN MAKING THE MOST OF TIME "ridiculous." A lifetime resident of an affluent, predominantly Jewish suburb outside New York, she has come to loathe the suburban lifestyle for what she sees as its emphasis on materialism and its exclusivity. "In my elementary school, there were probably six blacks. By high school, there were about two. This is not a very diverse community we're talking about. When you spend all your life with the same group of people, it doesn't make sense to come to college and do the same thing. It's too narrow. Her contempt for the "Charley's crowd" is evident behind a veneer of mischevious humor. "I would seriously to be insular and confining, her relatively casual attitude towards the religion and its attendant political stan- ces put her at odds with this group. "I felt I was being forced to 'be a Jew,' to prove my Jewishness,' " she says. In effect, despite her anti- materialistic views, her matter-of-fact attitude toward her ethnicity caused her to be seen by some Jews at the school as being shallow, apathetic, and spoiled - in short, a "Jap." Cheryl M., an LSA senior, is a Thur- sday night regular at The Count. She is from the predominantly Jewish suburb of Roslyn, Long Island, where she went to a high school that she says was 85 . LIB 3825 Carpenter Rd. Ypsilanfi, MI 48197 (313) 971-7122 'I'm very proud of being a Jew, and belonging to a very special segment of society. But I find that it's very difficult (to be a Jew) in America. There's less emphasis on Judaism and more on ;i.% _ - .: t . _' l "G. T.1 materialism. I. I I Hours: 9:00 to 9:00 Mon. thru Fri. 9:00 to 6:00 Sat. GRAND OPENING SPECIAL SOFT CONTACT LENSES $ 00 m94plete Includes eye exams, standard lenses, and cold care kit Expires Feb. 28, 1983 -Barb W., student 1 I I 16 Cheryl adm her friends a her hometown typical of the "We (the J isolated from ways, especia ds to support people tend kind." Though she been a victim she says, "TI ferent comma not a big pr problem." Aft ds, "I can't re I haven't real breaking dowi groups." Cheryl, whc takes strong Jewish wom( meet a husbar "I have nev career, mayb( my mother as Despite the the campus c( sists that this portunities f cultures. "Th has been goo( my roommat had never be4 and she had n little uncomfo to like each o about the Uni you get to kn you're forced Looking ba Cheryl expres decision to co think I grew mommy and c I now know tl own." Phillip Lawe Fashion styling. Step motion, sweep second hand. Adjustable bracelet. TL _ _i " . ... question how many of these people who go there on Thursdays have a good self image. It's boring. I would rather do anything," she says, pausing to find a suitably acerbic alternative, " ... even going bowlingthan go to Charleys." Julie's comparison of the social at- mosphere for Jews here and at a private southern university from which she transferred after her first year provide interesting sidelights. At the southern school, she says, the relatively small size of the Jewish community, in addition to what she saw as the implicit anti-Semitism of the majority population made for an ex- tremely uncomfortable experience for her compared to her Michigan story. Taking an inability to penetrate the majority population's social scene for granted, she was forced to attempt to fit into a Jewish community that she found percent Jewish. Her parents, a dentist and a hospital administrator, are quite well off. With her fashionably dressed, petite frame, dark brown just-home-from-the- hairdressers-hair, translucent gray- green eyes, and an easy smile that reveals the cutest little overbite this side of Georgia'Engel, she is, visually, simply stunning. According to many people, she is also the absolute per- sonification of the Jewish American Princess. Cheryl is aware of the way in which she generally is perceived, but she views it philosophically. "I know that a lot of people judge me on appearances, but that may be a natural thing to do. I'm sometimes guilty of it too - sometimes I say, 'I don't want to know her, she's a Jap,' but then later I've got- ten to know some of these people and they're not like that at all." There's no such thing as an average Citizen. OCITIZEN . MEDICAID SENIOR'CITIZEN DISCOUNT J E WEIR Y A ND F IN E WA T CH E S Howard Newman O.D. Harold Schiff O.D.13 -SOUTH UNIVERSITY ANN ARBOR 2 Weekend/February 11, 1983 15 Wee