Page 16-Thursday, May 3, 1979-The Michigan Daily Singles' attitudes relaxed on life roles By VICKI HENDERSON An unmarried adult in 1957 was considered immoral, selfish, or neurotic. But by 1976, responses to this same question in two surveys conducted by the Institute of Social Research (ISR) were much more neutral, said Prof. Elizabeth Douvan, a University psychologist. The ISR studies surveyed 2,400 adults in 1957 and again in 1976, questioning three central life roles: work, marriage and parenthood. The sur- vey showed that attitudes toward unmarrieds and those who choose not to have children have become more neutral over the past 20 years. The surveys also show that the family role is most important in peoples lives. RESPONDENTS TO the survey chose family roles over work roles as more important in their lives by a ratio of three to one when questioned whether they would prefer to be seen by others as a successful parent, spouse or worker. Douvan said the dominance of family roles over work is the same for males and females. Also, the spouse role in the family dominated over the role of parent by a three to two ratio. There is more tolerance now toward those who wish to remain single, said Douvan. But most married people do want children. Although this item was not included in the 1957 survey, the response was positive and "very high" in 1976. "It was at a ceiling in 1976," she said. "It couldn't have been much different in 1957." Single women are more negative towards marriage than men, Douvan observed from results of the surveys. Their attitude toward marriage has declined since 1957. But, "the un- married male in our culture still has not been specialized with adequate social and interper- sonal skills to create and maintain a reasonably satisfying life with people on his own-that is, without a wife to initiate and maintain friendship and kinship ties." BOTH SURVEYS illustrate a strong trend toward increased happiness in marriage. Douvan observed no decrease in feelings of adequacy in the martial role. The study also proved that although there is still strain on the contemporary family, most people place their "emotional chips there." "Those relationships which allow self-expression and self-affirmation can can survive conflict are an enormous help in supplying comfort, meaning, gratification and anchors for the self," Douvan explaiend. "People have not drastically lost sight of that reality." WIN$3,0))(IN SCHOLL'S GRAND GRAFEETI CONTEST. LOOK FOR THIS ENTRY BLANK AT . SCHOLL EXERCISE SANDAL DISPLAYS.y Enter Scholl's Grand Grafeeti Contest and put your feet on the road to $3,000 in riches. Just pick up an entry blank at the Scholl Exercise Sandal display in better drug and discount stores. Then decorate the foot and the sandal pictured (or send a photo of your own decorated foot). Use paint, bangles, spangles or your own imagination to make your entry fancy, fanciful, or fantastic. Really doodle those digits! There's a $2,000 grand prize and $1,000 for the best entry in each category-sports, nostalgia, pets, rock 'n' roll, famous people, and free style. Contest ends August 31, 1979, so pick up an entry blank soon. Or get one by writing Scholl, Inc., 213 W. Schiller, Dept. 229, Chicago, Illinois 60610. Void where prohibited. This is your chance to go a little crazy and win big in Scholl's $3,000 Grand Grafeeti Contest. Exercise Sandals HOW ToTURN HOT LTIE ITOO13IES INTO COLD HARD CASH! s.. W