Western By STEPHEN KINZER Most Pacific News Service are tou FROM EUROPE, Canada and Japan, other n non - communist businessmen ways a are flocking here with a common objec- AFTI tive: To make all the money they can Cuban from communist Cuba before the nadian, Americans move in. stop on "As soon as the Americans get in tiallys here, it's all over for us," explains a Not pe representative of a Canadian air-con- tory, t1 ditioning firm. "The product we make until th can be made cheaper in the U. S., and over B they'd save even more on transporta- Once tion." Cuban1 For the time being, these business- tration men are safe. But they are concerned the bu over the future of U. S. - Cuban rela- product tions and smile gratefully whenever "The someone suggests than an improvement much a in relations is not in sight. ed a n In spirited discussions, they debate birth c how Jimmy Carter's election and the the hos recent bombing of a Cuban jet by what t anti-Castro exiles might affect the con- save ti tinuation of the 16-year blockade that But forbids U. S. firms from doing business eign tr here. A lucrative market is at stake. suspect POOLSIDE HEADQUARTERS often. The businessmen are easy to find. Cuban In the mornings, many of them visit A m their hotel pools. In the afternoons, thinksI they appear in hotel lobbies- with suits and oil and ties, waiting to be taken to meet- the su ings with Cuban officials, ducts As the sun sinks, they can again be been a found at poolside, wearing Levis and buyer sports shirts, talking loudly and gulp- refiner ing the mediocre local beer. Many THE complain they can't find decent sou- a venirs to bring " home to their wives the Cu and children, taking capitalis visible are the Canadians. Many "I am a c urists - more than from any official of a ( non-communist country. But al- manufactures t among them are salesmen. capitalize on si ER MAKING CONTACT with the now, I'm capit trade mission in Montreal, Ca- embargo. businessmen can fly here non- The U. S. Tr in Cubana Airlines' flights par- no signs of w staffed by Canadian personnel. embargo, whic rmitted to fly over U. S. terri- ter Prime Mir hese flights must proceed east claimed in 196 ey reach the Atlantic, then south ter" of the t ermuda to the Caribbean. many U. S. fil here, the Canadians meet with less, sensing t buyers - often expressing frus- thing. at the difficulty of getting past Kirby Jones, yers to the actual users of their McGovern's pr ts. presidential ca guys I, deal with don't know ed himself as about pharmaceuticals," lament- between thet man here to sell condoms and A-erican firm ontrol pills. "If I culd get into 1-re. He has spitals and clinics, I could see C"ba and lists hey really need and probably 'nries, large hem a few bucks." rlints. When whether it is suspicion of for- lf*°d, Jones aders, or - as the businessmen readv, t - plain inefficiency, salesmen IN RECENT have difficulty penetrating the congressionalc bureaucracy. .Dept. official r an selling industrial oil filters of the, blockad he can save the Cubans money lators that no i if they let him visit some of dated for busi gar refineries where his pro- negotiate with are used. But so far, he has But validatic ble to speak only with a Cuban required. Anyo who apparently -rarely visits the today need on ies himself. the Cubans ar CANADIAN BUSINESSMEN flight to Hava re not here out of admiration for maica. uban system; they are merely If the U. S. advantage of a market, yet the "sieve' ts eyi apitalist," explained an Canadian company that levators. "That means I tuations. Right here and alizing on the American easury Dept. has shown illingness to loosen the h was imposed soon af- nister Fidel Castro pro- 1 the "socialist charac- Cuban Revolution. But rms are becoming rest- hey are missing a good who was Sen. George ess secretary during his ampaign, has establish- a kind of intermediary Cuban government avd s seeki-g to do business made several visits to numerous U. S, corn- and small, among his the embargo is finally and his clients will be TESTIMONY before a committee, a U.S. State eaffirmed the conditions e and assured the legis- passport had been vali- nessmen to visit here to the Cuban government. on is no longer legally ne seeking to visit Cuba ly obtain a visa from nd pick up the weekly ana from Kingston, Ja- bloclade of Cuba is not " that one smiling West Cuba German businessman called it, it is certainly not leakproof. It is an open secret here that a number of American firms have set up dummy subsidiaries abroad solely for the purpose of trad- ing with Cuba. Some enterprising Ca- nadians have done quite well for them- selves by buying goods in the U.S. and "shipping them through Canada to Cuba. , Many foreign - made goods sold here have at least some American - made narts. In a group of seven Western husinessmen lounging by the Riviera Hotel pool recently, only one handled a Product without American-made com- ponents. THE CUBANS IiAVE made clear what they would like from the U. S.: heavy machinery, chemicals, farm ei-inment, medicines and pharmaceu- ticals, fertilizers, computers, paper and replacement parts for everything from mining machines to electric power plants. As long as the U. S. is unwilling to supnly these goods, literally hundreds of foreign firms are more than happy to do so. But these firms understand that this is likely just a temporary windfall. "It's only a matter of time for us," smiled a Canadian gear manufacturgr - nhilosonhically. "But we're here to sell while the selling's good." Stephen Kinzer is a Boston - based freelatce journalist who has traveled widely in Latin America. He has, writ- ten for the New York Times, Boston Globe, Boston Phoenix and other pub. lications. THE MILWAUKEE JOURNAL 'Bid you ever see uch a perfect target?' MOO" ghe 3JR41&aai~ Fighty-Seven Years of Editorial Freedom 420 Maynard St., Ann Arbor, MI 48109 Wednesday, December 8, 19706 News Phone: 764-0552 i Edited and managed by students at the University of Michigan Ji*mmy, Carter on -the tracki THE CARTERS' DECISION to send their daughter Amy to Thad- deus Stevens, a predominantly black Washington, D.C. public school, has already been praised and run into the ground by commentators Shana Alexander and Jack Kilpatrick re- -spectively, to naihe but two. Alexander said she felt the move was mostly symbolic but that it was still good because symbols are about all we have to look to in goVernment today. Kilpatrick said the move was more or less a ploy to make the Car- ters look like common folk. He said that by the nature of Jimmy Carter's position, he is far from common and should act more mature in that re-' gard. We feel that it has become almost a ploy by segments of the mass media to pomp up suspected implications of the Carters' option. Of course send- ing Amy to a public. school is sen- sational. A White House child hasn't gone public for many years. But no matter how simplistic the move, it is good because it breaks down a bar- rier. It makes a stir, but a positive Photography Staff Pauline Lubens ............. Chief Photographer Brad Benjamin ............. Staff Photographer Alan Bilinsky ................ Staff Photographer Scott Eceker ................. Staff Photographer Andy Freeberg ... .......... .Staff Photographer Christina Schneider ........ Staff Photographer one. And as we think it's a good sign that Jimmy Carter is putting Amy into public school, so do we think that his desire not to get over- dressed for his inauguration and be sworn in as "Jimmy" instead of "James Earl" is equally good. Maybe these are small gestures, but they're very important. They are a new start and a sign that Jimmy Car- ter recognizes that he is not a deity, but an elected servant of the people of this country. We are not saying that Carter' doesn't deserve respect because he'd like to be more casual and more real in his role of the Presidency. For that, perhaps he should be respected all the more., We hope Carter's casual style keeps on evolving - right up to the point that his administration begins turning out sound, logical, truly pro- gressive work that doesn't cow-tow to all the overblown status quo fig- ures who compose most of our slow- moving, but at least moving, govern- ment. Let's not disect-Amy's going to Stevens. Let's support it and what it stands for. TODAY'S STAFF: News: Rob Meachum, Jeff Ristine, Bill Turque, Mike Norton, Stu Mc- Connell, AnneMarie Schiavi, Dove Hyde Editorial Page: Rob Meachum Arts'Page: Lois Josimovich Photo Technician: Chris Schneider t Go By PAUL B. WIENER A S THE HOLIDAYS approach, many of us will be going home to be with our families. But for some of us this poten- tially joyful time - it is both- exhiliarating and tranquilizing - will be hardwork, if not pain- ful, for we have still to learn how to get along with our par- ents. Anxiously arriving, we don't know whether to expect them to help us be ourselves, or dare us to be. And they are feeling the same. Our deepest feelings and needs for them are buried under a heavy load and we have to learn, or more pathti- cally in some cases, re-learn, how to visit them, how to come away feeling satisfied and en- riched, if not secure. What's the problem? Do we feel accused by them, these par- ents of ours, distrusted, ideal- ized, belittled? Do they ignore us? Are they only pretending to be interested in us? Do they doubt us? Do they seem to have little in common with us, little to offer, little to learn? Are they too old for us? Have they given up on us? And if all these ap- ply, is there really any hope that things will everaget bet- ter? Still, we take the plunge, we want to see them, we want to go home for the holidays, to float in the womb of familiar, seasonal cliches. There's no place like home: for many of us, it's the only one we belong to -- don't we feel our spouses and children really belong to us? Home: even when it knocks us off our feet, we know where we stand. It's the place we came from. Who is so brave that if he doesn't truly belong to his ori- gins. doesn't wish that, for a few days of the year at least, he did, doesn't believe that he de- serves to belong and that they deserve him, or her? ome,e THE COMMON CEREMONY of eating meals together can be such a pretext, providing you all chew th8 food, not each oth- er. The traditional practice of giving gifts is one, if it doesn't become a - competitive game. Doing something together that you both enjoy can be an ex- cellent pretext. For years my father and I have listened to classical music together in the living room, both of us speech- less, eyes averted, smugly pleased and critical of each oth- er's record selection, choosing to listen to something new or intense or complex enough to override the need to speak to each other from the heart. And there are hundreds of oth- er such pretexts for sharing what you may feel, and fear, can't be shared or accepted -- yourself, your love for these dif- ficult people. Many people go shopping together, take a drive, watch TV, visit family friends, bake cookies or lasagna, go out to a show or a basketball game. You can go bowling, ice fishing, snowmobiling, you can shovel snow, go to church. do laundry, coo over your little niece or nephew, look at dad's new golf clubs or watch, mom's new coat or loom. You can fix something around the house, ask or give advice, gossip about relatives, or exchange news and views- those that can be exchanged without sounding threatening and risking approval or power. And you can simply go to sleep and-wake up all under the same roof, just like the Waltons. What is important, while visit- ing parents who excite strongly ambivalent, tense, conflicted feelings, is to concentrate on what is possible between us and them, on what will permit some exchange of warmth and togeth- erness. During the year we may often feel exiled from these feel- ings when old, habitual angers, memories, grudges, misunder- standings or regrets bounce-off the walls into our awareness, turning us toward the sullen, childish independence of the rebel without a cause. But dur- ing the holidays, if our hearts are so heavily guarded, we must check this baggage and keep our arms, our selves, free to make contact. WITH ALL THIS I'm assum- ing that for those of us, wheth- er 19 or 39, who are uncomfort- able around our folks, no true reconciliation may ever be pos- sible - or desirable. Yet we must be conscious not only of what we do have, but of what we will never have with our par- ents. We are who we are. The total, mutual openness, forgive- ne ss, acceptance, interest, car- ing and praise we may expect as the result of verbal or emo- tional confrontations and count- less, earnest attempts to explain ourselves, to challenge, to im- press, to confess to them - in short, to talk our way into be- longing is only the, dream of a child unwilling td accept his or her separateness, his unique- ness, and the responsibility for the power and effect his or her personality - which, after all, we didn't really create but must learn to handle like anything else - has on his parents. Not that such talk is wronk. It is necessary until it is exhausted and either dies or is transfigur- ed. But it's not the object of the kind of visit, or relationship, I'm describing. I'm speaking rdther of the decision to relate to our parents in another way, a way that in a sense guarantees us that we still have recognizable parents, regardless of our differ- ences and distances. It is a de- cision to accept the limits not only of our origins but of the very concept of origins as well. And sometimes the reconcilia- tion may not be necessary. It's there smoldering somewhere. Our very feelings of discomfort, anger, nervousness, strangeness njoy holiday ! 0 pint are, in fact, evidence that we still care and that something's already happening that we don't know how to relate to. And may- be it's time to practice new, more effective ways of caring, of translating these difficult feelings, if we want to achieve our goal of feeling close to our parents. Yes, we still want something from them, just like the kids we feel like' around them. We want love, only now we see we must take it when it's there, in whatever forms it assumes, and we must give it wlhen there's an opening. If many of our parents will love us only on condition, they too, knowing the impossibility of our being anyone but who we are, will love 'us as much as they can, as much as we let them, even if this feeling calls for deliberate, if creative, pretense and a structured set- ting. These conditions of sharing and belonging to a family-of faith and good will-are not on- ly the only conditions that will permit the fellowship of even troubled, anxious families. They are the very ;nirit of the holi- days, the purpose of the cele- bration, as winter, closes over some of our greenest hopes and turns ins warmly toward each other. I Rift Divides India-Bangladesh I 11.A By The Associated Press Two South Asian allies, India and Bangladesh, have become embroiled in a dispute over the course of the historic Ganges. River. The waters of the Ganges flow from India through Bangladesh and into the Bay of Bengal. The controversy arose when India built a $200 million barrier at the town of Farakka, 11 miles upstream from the border to divert some of the water into the nearby Padma River to flush the silt out of the port of Calcutta, 150 miles to the south. This diversion roused the ire of Bangladesh which declared that it had played havoc with agriculture, industry ahd navigation on its side of the border. It charged that the Farakka barrier completed more than a year ago was "an act of aggression on the economic sovereignty of Bangladesh." "India cannot unilaterally withdraw waters from the common rivers without due regard to the consequences downstream," said Bangladesh in a document submitted recently to the U.N. General Assembly. Negotiations over the disputed barrier broke down in September with Bangladesh accusing India of being in- III I II :AN lI - xNI*1 \. 1 9 50 10 2w I