Sunday, January 13, 1974 THE MICHIGAN DAILY Page Five Iudy aur 3 94TEMCIA AL ... .. .. MMMMM9 On bringing up gifted children EDITOR'S NOTE: Greg Welman, the fifteen year old son of the au- thor, is a sophomore at the Univer- sity. He has already advanced to graduate level math courses. Ms. Welman is a graduating senior In journalisn. By MARY ANN WELLMAN A jANY OF THIS nation's most most gifted youngsters are being igiored by an educational system that is designed for the average student. The federal and state government's role in pro- viding services to the gifted is all but non-existent. Faced with these facts what can the parent of a gifted child do to see that the youngster is not deprived of a quality educa- tion? The first thing the parent had better do, in the interest of self preservation, is to face the fact that a long and difficult fight i in the offing. Iy making the decision to stand by your youngster and fight the system you will be the target of much hostility. You wi be called a troublemaker and accused of pushing your child. And, if you are an average parent unfamiliar with the prob- lems of the gifted, you will spend sleepless nights agonizing over your decision. TROUBLE starts with the schools, because gifted chil- dren are largely self taught. By the time my son, Greg, started kindergartenwhe could read, print and was well acquanted with numbers. He was bored with school and couldn't wait t get home to do his own "work" which, of' course, put him even further ahead of thetschool pro- gram. At that point in time Greg was not identiifed as gifted, but was merely thought of as odd and uncooperative. His third grade teacher was so annoyed with Greg's habit of drawing pictures of amoeba and cell structures that she sent him to the prin- cipal with a note saying that he was "interested in the wrong things, not n o r m a 1 classroom work." I think this was the first time I heard the word "normal" used in reference to my son, but as time went on I heard it again and again: the same plea from educators to "make him nor- mal." Fortunately t h e elementary school principal suspected some- thing other than inattentiveness and recommended Greg be test- ed. This was done by the school psychologist a n d the results showed that Greg was intelli- HathasYoga Classes Beginning and Advnced Classes offered NEW CLASS BEGINS JAN. 14 Meeting both Mondays & Fridays for futther info call Larry Short-663-9287 PROFESSIONAL THEATRE PROGRAM Presents VIVIAN BLAINE I a new comedy by 3EORGE FURTH Saturday and Sunday . gently very superior, academicAl- ly competent and socially out of place. On the basis of this test- ing Greg was moved to the fifth grade. And I, naively, breathed a sigh of relief. I really thought that was the end of the problem. In fact, it was only the beginning. IT TOOK GREG about two weeks to figure out the fifth grade. Things got worse in the sixth. He was bored out of his mind and hated to go to school. At home his activity increased and it was very clearrthat, as usual, his learning and real "work" was taking place out- side of the classroom. School was a place he had to go to and put in X number of hours. Try ex- plaining that to a kid who is smarter than most adults around him. There w e r e problems with teachers who thought that en- richment means moretof the same and loaded Greg with dull routine assignments. Then there was the teacher who gave Greg the job of helping a slow learner. That was great for the teacher: it got two problems out of the classroom. So back we went to the school psychologist and this time Greg was given a battery of tests WISC, WRAT, Bender-Ges alt). He quite literally blew the top off the tests. The recommenda- tion from the psychologist was to move Greg. immediately into high school and seriously con- sider early entrance to college. This recommendation cause.I so much confusion and animosity among school officials that° it was six months before any move was made. People tend to feel very threat- ened by a gifted youngster. There is a strong movement of anti- intellectualism in this country, and it is almost un-American to be bright. Much worse for a parent to try to arrange enrich- ment or acceleration "o accom- modate a bright child. While the battle was going on between principals, supe-inend- ents and teachers over the pro- posed move there was one per- son who responded t> Greg's problem in a compassionate way and saved my diminisning Iaith in teachers. This was Greg's junior high English teacher who brought in his own college books and allowed Greg to more PERSP through them at his own speel. One tiny candle. ,NE OF THE biggest prob- lems regarding the m o v e seemed to be the fact that a big acceleration like this had never been done before in our school system. The school officials were very concerned about the out- come. In fact the concern was so great and expressed by so many that I became quite upset and thought that maybe they were right, maybe the pressures of high school would be too great for my little elevent year old son. I took my troubles to our phy- sician who recommended that I discuss the situation with a psy- chologist who specializes in coun- seling children. The psychologist's f i n d i n g s were most encouraging. After lengthy conversations with my husband and I and several visits with Greg, we were told that there were no problems other than the fact that Greg's needs were not being met academical- ly. We were further encouraged by the doctor to go ahead with acceleration plans. The following fall, Greg, at age eleven, was a sophomore in high school and also enrolled in the local community college for advanced courses not available in the high school. FROM THAT point on things got better. Greg still gobbled up a whole semester's work in about three weeks but it was m o r e interesting w o r k, and spending afternoons in collegee was a big plus. No special arrangements were made for Greg, he attended the same classes as everyone else. The only thing we felt neces- sary to change in his schedule was physical education. It just didn't make sense to put a little boy in gym class with kids who were physically men. We decided that Greg would complete high school, which meant he would be ready for full time college at age fourteen. ECTIVE .; o-%Mm.: k ": PSYCH. 483 Section 006 Greg Wellman Now the question was which school? After contacting several uni- versities we found the field nar- rowing. Many would not accept the responsibility of a fourteen year old on campus. Also, we were reluctant to have Greg living away from home at such an early age. The University of Michigan solved the problem. Not only is it one of the finest schools in the country, but it's easily within driving distance of our home and providing shuttle service is a well established part of my life. NOW A SOPHOMORE at Mich- igan, Greg is happy and well adjusted.sOttherthan being in the honors program his routine is much the same as any other student. I can breathe t w a t sigh of relief now with confi- dence. But what about o t h e r gifted kids? The needs of the gifted can be simply stated. First, a change in attitude on the part 'of educat- ors. Second, programs for the gifted in elementary and second- arv schools. Third, greater em- phasisplacedhupongstudies of the gifted in our colleges of edu- cation which would prepare fu- ture teachers to cope with gift- ed children in the classroom. Simply stated, but not easily met. But meet them we must - it is vital to everyone. Learn about your community through involvement. 3 credits, weekly semi- nars, Thursday 1-3. 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