Page Two THE MICHIGAN DAILY Wednesday, November 25, 1970 0 cinema Another inequitable offering on marriage By NEAL GABLER First of all there is the wedding, a ludicrously pagan ritual with fat relatives, a five-piece orchestra playing "More' and "Moon River," a chicken or roast beef dinner with a hard ball of mashed potatoes, a lovely bride, (of course), decked out in gown of white (symbol of purity), and an obnoxious photographer torecord the glorious event. And then comes married life and with it the rude awakening that all those movies you saw left something out. Marriage isn't glamorous. It's a custom you somehow got duped into going along with. It's wiping the runny noses of those kids and cooking their meals and cleaning up their mess and buying their clothes and pushing St. Joseph's aspirin down their throats. It's free sex but with an emotional price: the agonizing adjustment to the habits of that other creature who shares the bed. At best, it may be a little company on what would otherwise be a lonely night in front of the TV set. But love? No; marriage is to love as church-going is to true faith. But we shouldn't be too discouraged, I'm told. Broadway's Company takes its scathing look at marriage, then concludes that it isn't especially good but it's all we've got. And now Lovers and Other Strangers comes along, based on the play by Renee Taylor and her husband Joseph Bologna, telling us basically the same thing. "We're all strangers," Richard Castellano's Frank counsels his son. "But after a wlile you get used to it; you become deeper strangers." "I want more." "More! Everybody wants more! That's all there is!" So much for our peculiar institution. I'm in no position (for- tunately) to take sides. As a reviewer, however, I am in the position to say that Lovers and Other Strangers is only .a moderately suc- cessful film that had the potential to be very good and blew it. We've become more honest about our lives (or we're at least more willing to tolerate someone else's honesty) since the Spencer Tracy- Elisabeth Taylor days of Father of the Bride. You know how it goes. There's a little family spat. Hubby is spending too much time away from home. Another woman maybe? But no, he's only taken on another job to get more money for wife and child. And every- body loves everybody else. And their sex lives are just wonderful. And the kid grows up and wears a crew-cut. And there are no drugs. No VD. No neuroses. No divorces. Ain't life grand! Lovers and Other Strangers ridicules that sham idyl. Mike (Michael Brandon) and Susan (Bonnie Bedelia) are a young couple who've been coupling for about a year and finally decide to tie the knot with a priest presiding and fat relatives and the whole bit. Their wedding is used as a backdrop for a much-too-temperate, Love American Style look at marriage: Susan's sister Wilma (Anne Meara) is a sex-starved housewife hitched to a nature boy (Harry Guardino) with a less voracious appetite. Her father (Gig Young) is carrying on an affair behind her mother's back. Her future brother-in-law is filing for divorce. One of her bridesmaids is staving off a wolf. It is supposed to be funny-with secret trysts in a WOMAN's washroom, some over-eager and unsuccessful at- tempts to score, some wriggling on the marriage hook by the pros- pective groom-but the jokes soon wear thin. There are just too many cheap laughs. But there is also Richard Castellano, and that's quite a bit any way you look at it. Castellano, who looks like a cross between an ox and Mayor Daley, is the groom's very Italian father, a coarse but tender man caught between the reality of wife, job and sleep, and what might have been if he had married Mary Rose, a school teacher he once knew. Castellano is, fantastic, lighting up the screen with a performance that is both hilarious and moving. He -is what the film should have been about-the sorry gratefulness of mar- riage..Instead Lovers and Other Strangers is a naughty TV comedy. It could have been much more. Right, Elizabeth? Those of you who read my piece in the Daily Magazine last Sunday, may have suspected that my typewriter suffered from a seizure. Actually, a funny thing happened to me on the way to New York. I started out writing an article on how the Times homogenizes its film criticism, and I wound up with a meta-article. Death, taxes and editors. 'Nuff said. Spend An Evening With THE FIFTH ry aDM E NSON THE JIMMY HAZ CASTOR BUNCH Friday, November 27, 1970 at Cobo Arena Show starts at 8:30 P.M., Doors Open at 7:30 P.M. Tickets are: $3.50, $4.50 and $5.50. Tickets on sale now at all J. L. Hudson stores, Grinnell stores and Cobo Arena Box Office, 1 Washington Blvd., Detroit, Michigan 48226. Phone No. 962- 5870. An Aruse Production MONDAY, NOV. 30, 1970 CINEMA GUILD PRESENTS: DR. CH ICAGO dir. by Ann Arbor's own George Manupelli, 1969 "Profound, profound, profound." Laird warns N. Vietnam (Continued from Page 1) to use every measure available to free them." Ky spoke at a jammed lunch- eon meeting of the National Press Club after he had met with Presi- dent Nixon and his top advisers at the White House for more than three hours. In the Senate committee, critics of the rescue operation said it might have made worse the plight of American prisoners. "At a time when Americans are dying in captivity, some have claimed that this rescue attempt might have jeopardized the lives of American men held captive," Laird said. "... It is my firm belief that the lives of our American prisoners are in danger every day." Sen. J. W. Fulbright (D-Ark.), the committee chairman, said no one is questioning the heroism of the volunteer soldiers and airmen who raided the Son Tay POW compound Friday morning-only to find that American 'prisoners were no longer there. In a nationally televised ap- pearance before a Senate panel that has often been critical of U.S. policy in Southeast Asia, Laird said he hopes the adminis- tration "may count on influential bipartisan support and assistance of this committee and the Con- gress" in its efforts to negotiate an exchange of all prisoners of war.j He said some 3,000 Americans are suspected to be prisoners in North Vietnam. Laird said he first received con- tingency plans for a POW rescue attempt late last summer, ap- proved continued preparations for the venture, but delayed any final recommendation. "It goes without saying that I took into deep and careful con- sideration the possible effects of such a rescue attempt on the status of other prisoners of war held in Southeast Asia," Laird said. City offers counseling (Continued from Page 1) Because it is self-supporting, the clinic charges a fee, based on a sliding scale. In addition to these services, in- formal counseling is available through the Office of Religious Affairs which is working inten- sively in the area of abortion counseling and referral. "We look at abortion counseling as a response to student needs." It is important that women have several places to choose from to go for counseling," staff member Dale Scot says. "There are counselers in all offices who know the safe abortion facilities and can prepare a women for the abortion experi- ence." The Ann Arbor community has several services available to stu- dents. The Crisis" Walk-In Clinic on N. Fourth Ave. has a 24-hour telephone service (761-9834) and a staff of psychiatrists, psych- ologists and social workers. The center is crisis-oriented, and anyone can walk in at any time during the day. The center evaluates the problem and then makes a referral to the appropri- ate agency. The Drug Help Center and Ozone House are autonomous units both working from their new loca- tion on 302 E. Liberty. 3020 WASHTENAW 434-1782 THE PICTURE OF THE YEAR ... r, AROSS HUNTER PRODUCT"0f AIRPORT BURT DEAN LANCASTER* MARTIN JEAN SEBERG JACQUELINE BISSET GEORGE KENNEDY HELEN HAYES A UNIVERSAL PICTURE TECHNICOLORS Produced inTODO-A" © ALL A"$SAS4ITT4 .ieO I For the student body: FLARES by '~Levi - Farah *, Wright Tads Sebring State Street at liberty a 0 II Show Times-Mat.: 1:00 & 3:45 EVE.: 6:30 & 9:15 -Daily-Jim Judkis Homeward bound, no doubt On a traditional holiday, it's nice to see a traditional scene-a lot of students waiting as they shiver in front of the Union yes- terday to get out to Metropolitan Airport to fly away for a few days rest. KRASNY STATEMENT: Deny agents on campus p a I IT'S SO NICE TO HAVE.. JACOBSON'S YOUNG ADULT CHARGE ACCOUNT is cued to your campus needs and we will be pleased to accept your aphicatton for a 0 Itl--+i-,.nil f.-- 13n-- tl i c.. : _,. _ ,.... _. ._ _.. . . .. ii.._i cc:.L I (Continued from Page 1) the liaison group, saying that "it campus groups the opportunity fills a void between the police and to talk to an administrator or be- the University." He hoped that fore planned demonstrations. the officers would help change the He said these conferences could 'dumb cop image" he said so "set the ground rules for dissent, many students have. and to protect the freedoms of Both Ferguson and Atkinson are those who come into contact with college graduates and should be the dissent." able to communicate better with Vice President for Student Serv- the students because of this, Kras- ices Robert Knauss, described the ny said. new police liaison team to the He added that the men will pri- campus as "providing an impor- marily be available to answer tant information flow." The two officers have been assigned to questions for students, including Knauss" office. offering advice on the legality of Krasny pointed out the need for demonstration tactics. Drug Help, funded by the Kiwanis Club, is concerned speci- fically with drug information and problems. The center operates a 24-hour phone (761-:HELP) and will send teams of people to help someone on a bad trip. Six doctors are on call for emergencies. Jacobson Card Yo will spee greater s Apply fo " Charge Account Identification ur personal account number d your purchases and give you , hopping convenience i yours soon Jacob~ons Ozone House was established to meet the needs of high school stu- dents in Ann Arbor, and partic- ularly students who have run away from home. Although Ozone House is geared to high school-age peo- ple, University students have taken an active part counseling the run-aways. i + y +{ :s 1* %.{ .,q " o . 2 ,Y t: j z . S p . ," ,4-.A 4 ~"2i ~ h 1 ;. S y 4i t Our Spanish-shawl flowers blossom anew in camellia embroideries copied thread by thread on soft, slippy rayon tissue faille. Cut into billowy bloomers and blouses, flouncy skirts and dresses that go with the quieter mood of today's way to party. These are black, dark green or slate-grey, for 5 to 13 sizes, *18 to 450. Come see and try them on, along with lots of other put-ons we'll have in our Co-ed Shop on Friday and Saturday, Novem- ber 27 and 28. It'll be kind of a fashion show where you are the model, our mirrors are the audience. ;,: 1 VERY t2 / - i.01, LOW