i The Michigan Daily-Friday, September 8, 1978-Page 58 Hotline helps child sexual abuse victims By The Associated Press "Hello. This is a recorded message. If you think you are being sexually abused, please stay on the line ... You mnay feel scared now, but help is available . .. You don't have to give your name. That is the beginning of the two and one half minute message you will hear if you call the sex-abuse hotline operated by Child and Family Services of Knoxville, Tenn., under a grant from the federal government. Nine hundred ealls a month come to the hotline. The average age of the callers is 15; most are girls. They seek help with a problem that people are reluctant to even recognize: the sexual abuse of children within a family situation. Incest. ONE IN 10 OF the callers stays on the line after the recording ends and talks to a counselor. The others listen to the information and hang up. Officials say some youngsters-they do not know how many-dial the recording several times, trying to work up the courage to tell their troubles. Charles Gentry, head of Child and Family Services, a private, non-profit, voluntary agency, said he believes sexual abuse of children is increasing. "With more single-parent households we're going through a transition in our whole culture as far as family structure and I think it does lend itself to sex abuse of children ... Many people who are feeling inadequate as adults turn to children for affection and may even- tually turn to the child for sexual pleasure." Other authorities say the increase in divorce and remarriage, creating parents who are not biologically related to their children, has made the problem worse. DOUGLAS BESHAROV, director of the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect, which provided $43,000 to finance the Knoxville hotline in a year- long experiement, said an estimated 60,000 to 100,000 children are sexually abused by family members or friends every year. According to 1974 statistics compiled by the National Clearinghouse on Child Neglect and Abuse of the American Humane Association, about 12 percent of all validated cases of child abuse in- volve sex. The Knoxville program, which star- ted in ;February, is believed to be the only one of its kind in the country, com- bining a taped message with follow-up counseling for the youngsters and their families. KEE McFARLANE, a program director with the National Center on Child Abuse, said the impersonality of the initial recorded message en- courages children to call about sexual abuse. "There is a fear of reporting, a fear of asking questions," McFarlane said. "Knowing for sure that they can get a tape recording that they can hang up on" makes it easier for the youngsters, she said. "The anonymous call permits the person to relax a bit," said Gentry. The hotline is aimed primarily at children, rather than at social workers, coun- selors or other adults. It is designed to help them with a problem which they often are too scared to admit. Youngsters who stay on the line after the recorded message talk to one of two professional counselors. They may give their names if they wish but do not have to. Information on callers who identify themselves is relayed to the protective services divison of the Tennessee Department of Human Services for in- vestigation. "ORDINARILY, ABOUT 10 percent of the people who call stay on the line," Gentry said. "On the average we report eight to 10 cases a month that we feel are fairly certain, valid, sex-abuse cases." The others who stay on the line want information or reassurance. The taped message also is designed to reassure and inform: "Sex abuse may be any kind of physical contact that makes you uncomfortable and uneasy. In other words, if you have a feeling something is wrong you may be right. "SEX ABUSE IS any kind of fondling or sexual play between an adult and a child or between an adult and a teen- ager or between a child and someone slightly older . . . It can include ex- posing private parts of the body. Sometimes it means taking pictures of nude or partly nude children or teen- agers..." Most of the callers to the Knoxville hotline are children, but some are adults. "Occasionally, we get a call from an abuser," Gentry said. "I remember one of the situations was a fellow who had attempted sex with a 5- year-old . . . He started feeling very guilty about it and then he called us and did report himself." One caller, a girl, was only 7 years old. 'It was an attempted intercourse situation by the father," Gentry said. 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