co ra e minoritie to p rticip te in bre t cancer screening metho mu t be Inte ified. "Hi torlcally, en there ve been n lion ong' omen under SO, tbe mortality rate in Blacks is 9.S per 100,000, compared to 6.1 in bite. S on' article, "Racial Difference in the Earl y Detection of Bre t C ncer in etropolitan Detroit, 1978 to 1987," ppeared in a recent edition of tbe publication "Cancer." Co- tbors of the report ere Enid R. Satari no of the icbi an Cancer Foundation' Divi ion of Epidemiology;. Dr. illiam A. S t riano of tbe Univer- ity of California-Berkeley Scbool of Public He Ub; and Dr. Barbara A. Tbreatt of the Comprehen ive Bre t Cen­ ter, Ann Arbor, Mich. ite ? cy: Since omen often thin in term of clo ene nd upport, they struggle to pre erve inlim cy. en, con­ cerned bout tatus, focu on t bli hing independence. When one man's old high chool chum c IIcd to ay 'd b in to n, the m n in­ vited him to t y for thc cc end, not telling hi wife until th t evening. The ire as up et th t hc 'u m, de pi n ithout con- ultin her beforehand. "Why don't you tell your friend you h v to che c ith your ife?" h aid. Her hu b nd replied: "I can't y I have to a my ife for permi ion." To him, chcc in with hi wife me nt he could not ct freely, That made him feel Ii e a child or underlin . But the ife Ii c to hec ith her hu b nd to ho h r lif is ent ined ith hi . 3, di verb lize feelings with rei - tive and friend to how in­ volvement and c ring. To most men, tal i for gaining inform tion. Yet many men c n hold center tage ociall y, telling joke nd storie , They use conver ation to clai allcn-' tion and to entertain. Women wind up hurt that thcir hus­ bands tell rei tive nd tranger things they have not told them, 5. Orders vs. propos Is: Women often begi n conver a­ tion with" Let'·11 _ "Let' clean up before lunch," "Let' park over there," To them, Le is " is not a demand, it' a u ge (ion that gets other to do what they ant by winning grcement fir t. Somc men feel manipu­ I ted by that appro ch nd re cnt it. 6, C men For a [ree r print of "Can 't e Talk ?". nd a tamped, selj-addre e d n elope to Reader's Di c t, Reprint an ager, Dept. C 1290, Pleasantville, . Y. 10510.