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feel • 0 ife de cribed
her m rriage a empty. She
bl med er h band for fail­
ing to comfort er ufficiently
hen their daughter died
years before. "There are time
�en I ju t ant lim to hold
me clo e," be told Lauer.
"Have you ever told him
that?" Lauer as ed.." o. He
bould re lize it ithout my
ing," the oman replied.
Later, Lau r tied to her hus­
b nd. "Jim more than
illin . He ju t needed -to be
educated to ensiuve to her
need . And be needed to
le rn to be more open bout
hem."
-Do 't e fr id of
Individual and
bip I change over
time. T tric j to change in
po Hive direction .. Some-
time. hu b nd re ist
gro th in hi ife, afraid be
1)1 no longer b t trong
Ii ure in the borne. Or a ife
m y dre d a h band promo­
non, fe ring h m y be left
b 'hInd. "'You're not the p r­
son I married.' people orne­
nmc complain." Lauer ay.
"But thc happic t couple
no ch nge i cau e for
eel br non, noll mcnt."
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