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Want to ere up a relation-
hip? Do you nt to ruin a
lovely relatio hip with your
wife, husb nd, gi_rl/bOy friend?
Here are three way to do it.
Her are three thin that you
can do to de troy your relation-
hip, for certain.
REACTI G WHILE
A GRY.
When your mate (wife, hus­
band, girl/boy friend) does
something that you don't like,
get angry with them. And while
you are an$ry, you can f ,
argue, criticize and give them a
piece of your mind. This is an
excellent ay.,lo start an rgu­
ment, or a fight, and to make
the other person h te your guts.
You may not have to argue with
your mate apin after this be­
cause hel he i certain to I
out of the door.
The wi e individual will not
disc a problem with hi /her
�ate until Lhe anger h sub­
Sided and the t 0 individuals
can discu e . sue calmly
nd rationally .
COMPETlN� WITH MATE
If your mate doe something
th t other people praise
�im/her for, you can become
Jealous and try to di courage
your mate, in some way. While
you are jealous, you can di •
credit your mate, find orne­
thing wrong with'what be/ he
i doing, refuse to praise your
mate, and try to destroy his/her
confidence.
io
. Since your mate' suc
make you feel uncomfortable
and in ecure, you can easily
turn your mate into your
enemy. This is a sure way for
you to start competing with
your mate, and to eventually
destroy your relationship.
. . The mart person will praise
bls/her mate for anything that
the m te accompli hes. After
all, if you two are truly
partmers, you will both benefit
from e ch other's succe
CRITICIZE YOU
MATE AT EVERY OPPO •
�UNITY.
, If you don't like the way
that your mate comb I\is/her
.hair, you can criticize him/her
for it. If you don't like tbe .
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clothe he/she wears, tell
him/her about it.
If you don't like be/ be eats
hi /her food, you can cri ticize
him/ber for it. Anytime til t
you don't like anything at all
about you mate, give im/her a
piece of your mind. Don't ever
h�l� .any �r .your feelings of
cnuctsms inside.
Alway let your mate know
when hel he' "bugging" you.
Don't take it! Let your mate
know in no uncertain term
how disgu ted you are with
hi /her behavior. when you do
these things, you will be certain
to make your mate hate your
guts.
Your relation hip ill not
I t very long after this. Con-
tant, indiscrete criticism of
your m re i the very be t way
to antagonize him/her, make
him/her get ick of you, and
de troy your relationship,
forever. (Incident lIy, bow
would you like it if your mate
indi cretely criticized you all
of the time?
The thinking, caring couple
will decide on a time each
week, when they can' it down
together and, in constructive
manner, ax what they can both
do to make their relationship
more successful nd h ppier.
They won't y, "here's whatt
don't like about you." They
will s y, "Here' what I think
we can do to m e our relation­
Ship happier. What do you
think we can do?"
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BI ck HI tory
Marcia 18·24
MARCH 18, 1 67 -
Carl B.. Stoke elected
Mayor of Cleveland. 1806
- Norbert Ritlieux, inven­
tor of sugar refining proce s
was born.
MARCH 19, 1 67·1919
- Madame C.J. Watker co -
metic mfg. Fir t ·Blac
om n millionaire. 1872 -
. T.J. Boyd patented apparatu
of detaching horse 110m
carriages.
MARCH 20, 1910 -
99.2% of II Black
American were native born
and only 60% of white
American ere native born.
1883 - Jan Matzeliger
patented hoe-Ia ting
machine.
MARCH 21, 1 6S - 2
critic elected R Iph W._
Ellison's "Invi ible M n"
mo t distingui hed ingle
literary wor in p to 20
year. 1965 M rtin
Luther King, Jr. led
thousands of marcher from
Selma-to-Montgomery,
Al b m .
MARCH 22: Debi
Thoma become the fir t
BI c ice skating world
champion. 1.898 - J. W.
Smi th patented the I wn
sprinkler.
MARCH 23: 1 8
Alpha Kappa Alpha fi rst
Black orority wa or­
ganized at Howard Univer-
ity. 1873 - Slavery
abolished in Puerto Rico.
MARCH 24, 177
Crispu Auucks, runaway
lave, fir t Black to fall,
Bo on Mas ere. 1837 -
Canada g ve Black the.
right to vote. 1969 - Jo eph I
Ka avubu, pre ident of the
Congo, died. •
EEDED
fofp'omotioIaaJ
pack.tl, make phone call. to
pt • donor" or Of jze a
group of vol ,. fof OWl
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