ng, ces When· an coholic most likely to see help for his or her drinking? According to local experts, until the pain out­ weights e pleasure of drink­ ing., and Icoholism is recognized as the prim ry problem.· alco olics don't real­ ize the· re ·0DShq> with al­ cohol is the problem," explains Tom Lucking. Executive Direc- tor Gateway Recovery Ser- vices. eir disease progresses because they are allowed to hold onto the idea that if only they could solve their other problems - whether about or . money, health or f mily - the alco 01 problem will go aw y." Unfortunately, this belie! al 0 contributes to the alcoholic' "hitting bo tom" - often ch racterized by a loss of family, friends, job, and health to the powerful grip of this dis­ ease. Alcoholism is char c erized by denial. "The alcoholic simply canno recognize that he or she is hooked," says Luc ing, and often d pends on family, friends or n emplower to point out the problem. 'orne signs th t alcoholism may be present include: - Increasing usc. - Forgetting or denying in- cidents during a drinking episod . - In bility to keep promises to top drinking. - Lying about or hiding drinking. - Personality changes while drinking. - Associating with other heavy drinkers. - Run-ins with the law. - Problems at work or school. _ - Refusal to discu con­ cerns bout hislher drinking. - Continuing to use alcohol in spite the fact th t it is causing � problems in any rea of his or her life. "Alcoholism doesn t go way," ays Lucking. Many die before they realize they have the disease. Fortunately, there are choice available to alcoholics and their familie . Intervention is quite an ef­ fective method of guiding the alcoho . c in 0 treatment, espe­ ciaUywben . OI'her�· causing him more pain than p easure.· He es tha a t Dumber of boo S 0 alcoholi are vailable at Ii rarie and book tore , and elf-help group uch AI- and ee offer upport to those affected by the disease. .. - . ..-._ -- , And some treatment facilities such as Gatoway recovery Services offer free in­ formation sessions for those wanting to learn more about al­ coholism, chemical ddpenden­ cy, and intervention. For more information call (616) 382-9820. Dear Mart' : Media now say that chronic eroid use can cause ome personality chan­ ges, toward aggression and violence. . Dear DI lope: I 10 e my busMDel. but hi DO I a 11. I've d p t- a my d, n .,. ready to caD • I June P., Sacramento, Calif. Dear June: Wait. Don't file for divorce - yet. Chances are, your next husband will snore much or more. By age 60, more than 40 percent of women ore, and 60 percent of men. T� good news is that fimily docto now can recommend programs that will moderate or even eliminate snoriDg. It could ndlo ·0 Fla. Dear Manny: ot tall. More than just shaving their faces, American men today spend $1.3 billion a year on beauty aids, such skin mois­ turizers, body creams, and anti- . wrinkle compounds. According to the publication, Beau y Products Marketing, men today comprise 30-50 percent of the patrons of beauty salons. ey want everything from facial mud packs to manicures. :::::::::::::::::::=:::::::::::::=:=:::::::::.:.:=:.:.:::::::::.:.:::::::::::::::::::::: Ceroid drug up pe on' mind? I, :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: , . , I. ti