9 Q. You Iun1e mentioned s� timD in yo&tr columll that cer­ UIin books IuJw M)ft 1M 0-"" Scott KiIIg AMItd. Is this .. awtIItJ givett by MtJ. KiIIg or by 1M MtI1tiIILM_r Kin Unler for NotMoIent a.... '! WIlen it tIItd Ito 1ft tIteu boob sei«,"'! CL, Seatde, WA A. The Coretta Scott ICiag A d is pea by American Library A ociation to com­ IllClDOI'ate the life and of Martin � King Jr., aDd to Coretta Scott KiDg bee de . . n to con- De r for peace d brodIerbood. The . the Award came q you woW4lk d free lilt of 1M ComtII Scott KiIIr.A aloft ulJ ....... stlImped etlt1dope DotoIIty W. Robiluolt, P.O ... 19154 Otic." IL 611619. emanagain '21·, Dear "21", I am sure that your naWete coupled ·th your youth makes life very interesting for you in the office. In tead of becoming angry and indignant ith the ladies of the office, try remaining calm and direct about the . - probleai of uninvited han H it At happens again, let er know h C u�tit makes you dst h " relatl slalp r- an op er... Ii If your charm, good 100 and eada a youthfulllWUler are causing the . I . men in your office to compli- - IIICDt you and make WIWaIlted advances op You caD do . . by bei direct, thank them for the complimcat but you are not a· . That ld stopi d your job should be safe. SiDa:rely, Er· W �OD Our F..rik. 1 Dear 7�s Girlfriend, I do 't think that you are being O\U cautio t ail You aren't 100· for a 'magic' key to a successful re ·onship. But rather a search for guidelines to succe ful relatiouhip and marriage. Uwing each other . n enough. The respect �t you already have for each' other should grow and therefore more trust and a better understanding �D the two of)1OU._�tteo­ tion, care, concern and at times hard k m be ftiyen to any fYPe of union or relationship. Remember that neglect can an will end a marriage. ice Best Always, Erik W ingtoo 1DlftI1'-DEo,1I", " f..AlTIYi PlP£SrON 927-2661 I Got II problem? Need tin answer? Or do you just want to UIIIc? Then write to Erik . WlUltington in Cate of The Michigan Citizen, 16032 Wood­ wcurI, Hi lIInd PIl1Ic, All 48203 or to: 'De r Erik', MirtIC� Mile Stillion, P.O. Box 36A24, Los Angelu, CA 90036 These uskegon s ore have ·th IchJgan Citizen on sale: Stop & Save Corp. 3001 St 21 .;