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Dear Friend,
I think that its important that
Y9u and your successful friend
understand the tremendous
pressures your roommate must
be going through. The upheaval
event in his life have been strong
enough to change his feelings
reguarding his most succe ful
friend and perhaps even you.
There is so much unres in his
life at the moment that it mu t be
very difficult for him to see facts
and friend clearly. Its up to the
two of you to let him kno that
you are there for him close
friends, when and if he feels he
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needs to talk with you about all
that is troubling him. Perhap
because you are his friend and
roommate he may feel uncom­
fortable with you talking about
his pain and frustrations. If this
is the problem, then encourage
him to talk with a therapist about
his feelings.
Dear M.D.,
This is an unusual problem
and one that all three of you
need to make together. a one
person can m e that kind of
decision because in. the end
there will be hurt feelings. What
you should think about is: Do
you want to be with someone
who still may be in 1 . your
ister? There will always be that
I daub for the both of you con­
cerning his true feelings. If this
guy isn't sure of his emotional
feelings about you or your ister
after dating both of you, then are
you ure he is what you really
want in your life. The wise thing
for you to d (and your istcr f r
that matter) j .to let him g ! Let
him be orne someone else's,
problem.
Got a oblem? Then write to
Erik Was ington in cart of: The
Michigan ttizen; 16032 Wood­
ward, HighJand Park, MI 48203
or to: 'Dear Erik', TImes Square
Station, P.O. Box 755, New York,
NY 101()8.(J755* * *
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