I I l' Dear Erik, . I just told a week ago that . a very good friend has been diag- - nosed with AIDS . .I g this in­ formation from my friend. I was the only person he felt that he could talk with. I am also good friends W\tJt other members of his family and I see them quite often. Here is my problem. I have run into other friends who care bout him and have casual- ly ed about him and what he up to. People have been com­ plaining that he nev r returns their phone Cf1l or that they ahve been baving a hard time trying to reach him. What should , I y? I don't know if I should tell them the truth or let my friend inform them. So far I have lied to our friends and I feel bad about th t. Susan', Los Angeles, California : Dear Erik, I am having a problem with my husband's mother. I have been married for six months and henever I see her friends or .. 'B&W Charters Your transportation experts (616) 345-4222 new family members, she always talks about the girls that her son . Dear" Jimmy", use to date. There is one woman I take It thai you are a mature that she talks about all of the dull, 0 Just co e out of time. I have tried to smile and a relatloolhlp with another act as if I don't hear the conver- dulL But on t th your sation. But, it really makes me glrlfrieod and tell her a!JOut angry and I just don't know how your form tiOlllblp. You to handle it. I don't Want to make should a 0 tal th your ex- my husband u t because he is � very close to his other. N.C., A Roano e, Virginia DeuN.C., It Y be If you . your otber-In-Ia problem. Perhap he is not a re that he is burtlna your . feell • What she I "doing i bei 10 itlve to both you nd er .)'0 are the choice th t er de and It hould be respected. Yo r husband hould be de a re of t your 0 r-la-l I yt and doing. T ther both 0 you y t to talk with er about this prob Best Always, Erik W: blopoo Dear Erik, I have just found out that my ex-girlfriend is moving Into my . apartment building. To make matters even worse she is moving into the apartment across from mine. We broke up over five months ago and we were both very hurt over the breakup. A lot of ugly things were said by both of us and I am .. -_ ------- ' .. _1_. ,' I �\���t\�t \��\� \� . i II I . I THE I I· leD G CITIZE I'll I 16032 Woodward \ I' Highland Park, Michigan 4820:3 '313/.6P9-0033 I ·or phon. toll fr :1-800-44S·NEWS I I I I I I I I o 8111 m o 3 month.:· o 1 y .r· 12 o Paym nt .ne.o d o 6 month.· 7 o 2 y ...... 22 ADDRE _ 1 : y fri really sorry for the horrible things th4t I did and said to her .: The strange thing is, I .still love . her but I am not sure how she feels about me anymore. The other problem is that I have just started a new relationship. How do I handle my ex-girlfriend living in my building? Should I tel my new girlfriend about he ? "Jimmy", Brooklyn, New York Got a prob answer? Or do talk? Then rite to Erik Washington in care of The Michigan C; . 16032 Wood­ want, Highland WIc, MI48203 " or to: 'Dear Erik Tunes Squate Stillion, P.O. Box :55, New Yorlc, New YOlk 101 '55· • • The' uskegon store have th Ie Igan .c Citizen on sale: Brewster' Boutique 254 Amity Ave. Cae & Dee Cafe - 471 w. W stem Ave. D a's arket 1157 3rd St. Convenient Market 907 W. Lak n Community ood Mart 125App A . 6th Street arket 21556th � t Patter on Pharmacy 2144 Hoyt St. White's B rb r & Beauty Shop 2301 Jarman. R chard' ket 2532 Me Do n Home A taurent , eo Sherman Blvd. Chicken Coop 2544 Sanford . Sa) n's Party Store ... Sherman Bldv. en & Ben' Produce Grocery 334 West BrOMtway . Front er Quick art 29837 Peck Frontier Qui k Mart .' 1813 South Getty , Foxy's Boutique Jonle Place 11 �ay O&C Variety. \ Store,lnc. 4 Eat Broadway' Party World,lnc. . 2806 South Getty Lac ' Groc fY 274 Eat Lan::h A ! Klenke' I Chicken &1 Se food 1 11n Getty : Stop & ave Corp. . 30018th I DOlES YOUR CHILD EED' READ I OR A TH TUTO' I . . j GII"'''n.